Divorce Exposed
Marriage isn't easy, but when you are married to a narcissist, it can be difficult to know truth from abuse. When someone makes you feel you aren't good enough, you begin to believe it.
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EP 12 Its been awhile since our last episode, but we are back with some insights, observations and suggestions for staying married and surviving divorce.
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What happens to the pet when families separate. This episode is a story of how my pet helped get me through some of the most difficult times. It's personal and passionate. It's provides a great example of support and compassion. This isn't our typical episode, but hopefully it will help you or someone you know get through some difficult times..
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Why do the children have to go back and forth to their parents after divorce? Why can't the parents go back and forth? Nesting is a fairly new concept and isn't for everyone. In this episode we discuss some of the conversations couples need to have as they explore this parenting option.
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What happens to your relationship with your in laws after the divorce? It’s one of those topics that doesn’t usually get discussed in the divorce negotiations but can be touchy and emotional after a divorce. I’ve experienced a good relationship and silence. This episode is intended to get you thinking
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Getting divorced is difficult but understanding how to work with your attorney can make the process a little bit better.
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What happens to a marriage when a newborn enters the picture? While there is nothing better than welcoming a new baby into the world, for many couples, it is a major life transition. Unfortunately, a new baby can also mean the end of a marriage for some. In this episode of Divorce Exposed, I’m talking with Liz Kaufmann who works with couples when they bring home the new born, addressing issues that can ultimately save a marriage. I met Liz through a speaking program that I am a part of and knew right away that I wanted her to be part of the Divorce Exposed podcast and share...
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Most of us get married thinking it will last forever…..and then reality sets in…we change, we grow and so often, we stop doing it together. Some couples manage to work through the tough times and some couples throw in the towel Today we are talking with Dr. Katherine Morris who’s practice focuses on men in their 50’s and 60’s going through divorce. In this episode she shares her insight around divorce and we discuss the 8 common pitfalls for men to avoid as they are going through divorce. Some of these pitfalls can also apply to women, but since she focuses on men in her practice,...
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Welcome to divorced exposed where we provide insights for staying married and inspiration for surviving divorce. Most of us get married thinking it will last forever…..and then reality sets in…we change, we grow and so often, we stop doing it together. Some couples manage to work through the tough times and some couples throw in the towel - or at least one person does - and at some point, the big D word enters the picture. At divorce exposed, we want to provide insights for staying married and inspiration for surviving divorce. My name is Debbie DeChambeau and I am your host…. Today’s...
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Today I’m bringing you a brief episode because today is National Ex Spouse Day. Yes, it’s an actual day…and it’s April 14th If your marriage didn’t work out….you’ve got an X – the question is do you celebrate them or do you loathe them? Not all are good, not all are bad. I’ve seen some great ex spouses, and I’ve seen some terrible ones. I unfortunately got stuck with two bad ones, but we’ll focus on the positives. What makes a good ex? I’ve got five ideas for you to consider Someone that you can stay friends with or at least friendly with – (lori /...
info_outlineToday I’m bringing you a brief episode because today is National Ex Spouse Day. Yes, it’s an actual day…and it’s April 14th
If your marriage didn’t work out….you’ve got an X – the question is do you celebrate them or do you loathe them?
Not all are good, not all are bad. I’ve seen some great ex spouses, and I’ve seen some terrible ones. I unfortunately got stuck with two bad ones, but we’ll focus on the positives.
What makes a good ex? I’ve got five ideas for you to consider
- Someone that you can stay friends with or at least friendly with – (lori / Ricky as the example)
- Someone you can be civil with
- Someone who helps and encourages you –
- Someone who helps out with the children
- Lastly, celebrating your ex by not being jealous when they get into another relationship
Hopefully we can all aspire to being a great ex spouse, letting go of our hurt, anger and pain and moving on. Remember, there is a reason we fell in love enough to get married in the first place. Focus on that and you might find a reason to celebrate your ex!
Until next time – keep focusing on the positives!