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#145 — The Problem with "Nice Guys"

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Release Date: 06/18/2020

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Women often say that they want a nice guy, so why do so many of them think that nice guys are THE WORST?

The trouble is that
Nice Guy's behavior works against them; what they see as positive and respectful is actually pushing people away.

Here's why being a Nice Guy drives women away... and why it can be so hard to STOP being a Nice Guy.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

  • What "Nice Guy" behavior says about them
  • Why "treating her like a queen" is actually unattractive
  • How Nice Guys ruin their relationships
  • The #1 mistake Nice Guys make that "bad boys" don't
  • What it takes to STOP being a nice guy... and why being a jerk isn't the answer

... and so much more.

RELATED LINKS: 

The Science of Nice Guys and Assholes 

Developing An Abundance Mentality

Eliminating Neediness

Where Do You Get Your Validation?

What's Wrong With Being a Nice Guy?

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