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For a lot of men, dating isn't something you enjoy, it's something you endure. From trying to meet women, to getting a number, to actually getting women out on a date... it's more like pulling teeth than meeting a potential partner.
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The most magnetic, charming and well liked people aren't popular because of their looks, their money, or their bodies. People like them because of they make others feel and the value that they bring into other peoples' lives.
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Right now, we are living through the most stressful, even outright traumatic year that most of have ever faced in our lives. It can be incredibly hard to have a positive attitude and solid confidence. It can be hard not to look around and say “how am I supposed to have the strength to keep going?"
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Have you struggled with relationships that were bad for you?
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Growing up, I knew I was struggling with things that other people seemed to be able to do effortlessly. I thought I was just lazy, that I needed to be more disciplined and to take things more seriously. But it never worked, and I never understood why.
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The #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don't know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn't a checklist. Learning to succeed with women isn't about having the right car or the right body, it's about learning how to become your best, most desirable self.
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Rejection hurts... but the fear of rejection can often hurt even worse.
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What makes one relationship last, while another falls apart? Why do you seem to have found your dream relationship, only to have it turn into a nightmare? Your partner may seem perfect, but it takes more than shallow commonalities to make a relationship work. Just because things are amazing in the beginning doesn't mean that everything is going to work out on it's own.
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It's very easy to feel like you’re forever going to be defined by your worst decisions or your biggest mistakes. But while you can't change your past, you can change your future.
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One reason why a lot of guys have a hard time meeting women is because they’ve put ALL of their focus on ONLY talking to women, and even then, only women that they’re attracted to.
info_outlineRejection hurts... but the fear of rejection can often hurt even worse. In fact, when we give into the fear of rejection, we often set up a pattern that can affect us throughout our lives. Rejections we've experienced in the past can end up affecting us NOW. When we give into the fear of rejection, we can end up reliving that fear, long after it's happened... feeling the pain as though it's happening to us again, right now. When that happens, it becomes a way that we almost give up our free will; life becomes a series of steps that you take to try to AVOID feeling the discomfort and pain of rejection.
It's time to learn how to break the cycle and learn how to stop letting your fear control you.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
- What science can teach us about rejection and rejection sensitivity
- How our brains work against us and keep us in a cycle of fear and avoidance
- Why rejection hurts, even years later
- How a fear of rejection can CAUSE the very rejection we're trying to avoid
- How understanding your body can help you conquer your fear of rejection
...and so much more.
RELATED LINKS:
Overcome Your Fear of Rejection
A Man's Guide To Improving Your Emotional IQ
This is What Happens After Meditating for 30 Days
How ADHD Ignites Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria
The Social Skills Survival Pack Playlist
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