#154 — Building Incredible Emotional Strength And Powerful Confidence
Release Date: 11/05/2020
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For a lot of men, dating isn't something you enjoy, it's something you endure. From trying to meet women, to getting a number, to actually getting women out on a date... it's more like pulling teeth than meeting a potential partner.
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The most magnetic, charming and well liked people aren't popular because of their looks, their money, or their bodies. People like them because of they make others feel and the value that they bring into other peoples' lives.
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Right now, we are living through the most stressful, even outright traumatic year that most of have ever faced in our lives. It can be incredibly hard to have a positive attitude and solid confidence. It can be hard not to look around and say “how am I supposed to have the strength to keep going?"
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Have you struggled with relationships that were bad for you?
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Growing up, I knew I was struggling with things that other people seemed to be able to do effortlessly. I thought I was just lazy, that I needed to be more disciplined and to take things more seriously. But it never worked, and I never understood why.
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The #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don't know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn't a checklist. Learning to succeed with women isn't about having the right car or the right body, it's about learning how to become your best, most desirable self.
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Rejection hurts... but the fear of rejection can often hurt even worse.
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What makes one relationship last, while another falls apart? Why do you seem to have found your dream relationship, only to have it turn into a nightmare? Your partner may seem perfect, but it takes more than shallow commonalities to make a relationship work. Just because things are amazing in the beginning doesn't mean that everything is going to work out on it's own.
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It's very easy to feel like you’re forever going to be defined by your worst decisions or your biggest mistakes. But while you can't change your past, you can change your future.
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One reason why a lot of guys have a hard time meeting women is because they’ve put ALL of their focus on ONLY talking to women, and even then, only women that they’re attracted to.
info_outlineRight now, we are living through the most stressful, even outright traumatic year that most of have ever faced in our lives. Even if you’re in a relatively good place, we’re all getting hit with bad news, more stories of police violence, political corruption, the continuing pandemic, even potential fallout from the election. It can be incredibly hard to have a positive attitude and solid confidence. It can be hard not to look around and say “how am I supposed to have the strength to keep going?"
But you need that emotional strength, powerful confidence and positive attitude more than ever. And the first step is to recognize the things that are stealing your happiness and sabotaging your life and learn how to build the emotional strength it takes to persevere, that appealing confidence and the positive attitude that can help build strong relationships and help you face and overcome the challenges in your life that seem impossible.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
- Why one simple word can ruin your self-confidence
- How we convince ourselves that we're powerless... when we're not
- The mistake we make that makes us miserable... no matter what we do
- How we talk ourselves out of success
- Why your rivals can be your greatest allies
... and so much more.
RELATED LINKS:
The 5 Things You Need To Know To Succeed At Dating
What "Forged In Fire" Can Teach Us About Manhood
"Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success"
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