#156 — This Is Why Dating Sucks For Men (And How To Fix It)
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For a lot of men, dating isn't something you enjoy, it's something you endure. From trying to meet women, to getting a number, to actually getting women out on a date... it's more like pulling teeth than meeting a potential partner.
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#155 — The 5 Things That Make People Like You... Instantly.
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The most magnetic, charming and well liked people aren't popular because of their looks, their money, or their bodies. People like them because of they make others feel and the value that they bring into other peoples' lives.
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#154 — Building Incredible Emotional Strength And Powerful Confidence
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Right now, we are living through the most stressful, even outright traumatic year that most of have ever faced in our lives. It can be incredibly hard to have a positive attitude and solid confidence. It can be hard not to look around and say “how am I supposed to have the strength to keep going?"
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#153 — The Secret to Healthier, Stronger Relationships
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Have you struggled with relationships that were bad for you?
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#152 — This Is What Nobody Tells You About Having ADHD
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Growing up, I knew I was struggling with things that other people seemed to be able to do effortlessly. I thought I was just lazy, that I needed to be more disciplined and to take things more seriously. But it never worked, and I never understood why.
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#151 — The 5 Things You Need to Know About Dating
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The #1 reason why so many men struggle with dating is very simple: they don't know what it takes to be successful with women. Attraction isn't a checklist. Learning to succeed with women isn't about having the right car or the right body, it's about learning how to become your best, most desirable self.
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#150 — Stop Being Afraid Of Rejection
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Rejection hurts... but the fear of rejection can often hurt even worse.
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#149 — How Do You Know if She's Right For You?
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What makes one relationship last, while another falls apart? Why do you seem to have found your dream relationship, only to have it turn into a nightmare? Your partner may seem perfect, but it takes more than shallow commonalities to make a relationship work. Just because things are amazing in the beginning doesn't mean that everything is going to work out on it's own.
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#148 — What Avatar: The Last Airbender Can Teach Us About Finding Redemption
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It's very easy to feel like you’re forever going to be defined by your worst decisions or your biggest mistakes. But while you can't change your past, you can change your future.
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#147 — How to Talk To Anyone (At Any Time)
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One reason why a lot of guys have a hard time meeting women is because they’ve put ALL of their focus on ONLY talking to women, and even then, only women that they’re attracted to.
info_outlineHave you struggled with relationships that were bad for you?
Maybe you’ve been in a toxic relationship with somebody who was always manipulating you into ways of getting what they wanted, leaving you feeling like a doormat. Maybe you had friends who treated you badly or would pressure you into going along with jokes at your expense or doing things that made you uncomfortable or went against your values.
Or perhaps you’ve had family members who would leverage guilt or reciprocity to make you do whatever they want, even if it’s a huge inconvenience to you or emotionally draining or even damaging. Or you were constantly being made to feel as though your interests, desires or wants were unimportant or inconvenient… even if it’s simply “don’t treat me like sh*t.”
One of the most important things you can do to ensure you have strong, healthy relationships — with your wife or girlfriend, your friends, your family or even your co-workers — is to have strong boundaries.
Today, I'm going to teach you how to build strong boundaries... and how to enforce them.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:
- What one viral video teaches us about toxic relationships
- Why abusers and toxic people prey on people with weak boundaries
- How abusers trick you into lowering your boundaries for them
- How to push back when people push against your boundaries
- The most important part of maintaining healthy relationships
...and so much more
RELATED LINKS:
What Will You Put Up With? Boundaries, Self-Esteem and Dating
How Do I Avoid Abusive Relationships?
How Do I Get My Family To Respect My Boundaries?
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