139. Alcohol and Midlife Women: To Drink or Not to Drink

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To Drink or Not to Drink in Midlife

In today’s episode, we’re talking about alcohol in midlife through a completely non-judgmental lens. If you’re still drinking, not ready to let go, or you’ve tried before and gone back, you’re not doing anything wrong. This conversation is here to help you understand what alcohol may be doing to your body, your hormones, your cravings, your mood, and your nervous system so you can make choices that feel right for you, in your own time.

I also share my personal story, including my alcohol-free date of January 24, 2022, and what I’ve learned over the years about why alcohol can feel so different after 40.

If you feel you may be dealing with addiction or dependence, please reach out to a support group, your medical provider, or a mental health professional.

Highlights

• My personal journey with alcohol and why this time it finally stuck
• Why alcohol often feels different after 40, especially through perimenopause and beyond
• The overlap between alcohol, “hangxiety”, low motivation, sleep disruption, and louder cravings
• How alcohol affects metabolism, blood sugar, hunger cues, and hormonal balance
• Why alcohol and emotional eating often go hand-in-hand as coping strategies
• Gentle reflection questions and practical steps if you’re curious about changing your patterns
• The social side of not drinking and how to navigate pressure without shame

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Key Takeaways

• Alcohol can disrupt sleep, mood, motivation, and cravings in midlife in ways that feel confusing if you don’t realize what’s happening physiologically.
• Many women use alcohol the way they use food, scrolling, or other habits: to soothe and regulate the nervous system.
• When you begin paying attention without judgment, you gain clarity and choice, which makes change easier when you’re ready.
• Simple pattern interruptions and nervous system tools can help you respond differently, even before you decide what your long-term relationship with alcohol will be.
• You are not behind. Your timeline is your timeline, and support matters.

Closing Thought

This episode isn’t about perfection or pressure. It’s about listening, understanding what your body is asking for in midlife, and creating space to choose what actually makes you feel well. If alcohol has been part of how you cope, you’re human. And you deserve support as you figure out what feels right for you.

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Resources Mentioned

• This Naked Mind by Annie Grace
• The Mocktail Mom episode (Year One Episode 3)

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/3-breaking-up-with-alcohol-in-midlife-with-deb/id1686639038?i=1000613979697

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