ERP 407: Things To Consider (Biologically) When Engaging In The HookUp Culture — An Interview With Dr. Joe Malone
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
Release Date: 01/16/2024
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
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info_outlineThe hookup culture is a societal shift characterized by casual, short-term sexual engagements, highlighting a reluctance to commit to long-term relationships. This cultural phenomenon, especially prevalent among young adults and college students, poses challenges rooted in an insufficient understanding of the physiological and emotional aspects involved. The immediate pursuit of pleasure, combined with societal expectations, frequently results in miscommunication, unmet expectations, and emotional turmoil, reshaping the dynamics of modern relationships.
In this episode, Dr. Joe Malone and Dr. Jessica Higgins share valuable insights and actionable steps to navigate this complex landscape, providing a nuanced perspective on fostering healthier connections amid the complexities of contemporary dating norms. Join us as we unpack the intricacies of the hookup culture and discover strategies to cultivate more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.
Dr. Joe Malone, The Sexual Integrity Scientist. holds a Ph.D. in Health and Human Performance with a minor in neuropsychology and a specialization in women’s health and sexual wellness. He taught at Middle Tennessee State University from 2005-2017 and has guest lectured at Vanderbilt and Princeton as well as other major universities. He’s the author of Battle of the Sexes: Raising Sexual IQ to Lower Sexual Conflict and Empower Lasting Love.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website.
In this episode
5:40 From fitness to sexual wellness advocacy: Dr. Joe Malone’s profound journey and insights into hookup culture.
13:46 The impact of technology on hookup culture and the quest for genuine connection.
22:10 The desires and challenges of young men in building meaningful relationships.
26:52 Dr. Joe Malone advocates for the vital role of marriage in young men’s lives.
34:56 The challenges young individuals face in understanding their sexual desires amid prevalent societal messages.
39:04 Exploring the influence of testosterone and oxytocin on sexual thoughts and bonding.
40:58 Empowering women to redefine relationship standards and prioritize quality over quantity.
47:23 Balancing tradition and individual expression in contemporary contexts.
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