ERP 426: How To Consider & Discuss End Of Life Care In Relationship — An Interview With Dr. Bob and Elizabeth Uslander
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Release Date: 05/28/2024
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info_outlineNavigating end-of-life conversations can be emotionally challenging and riddled with uncertainties. Many individuals and families struggle to broach topics surrounding preferences for care, leaving them ill-prepared for crucial decisions during times of crisis.
In this episode, we embark on a journey to explore practical strategies and insights aimed at facilitating these delicate discussions with compassion and clarity. By providing actionable guidance and fostering a deeper understanding of end-of-life care, this episode equips listeners with the tools needed to approach these conversations thoughtfully, empowering them to honor personal values and preferences with confidence.
Dr. Bob and Elizabeth Uslander co-founded Empowered Endings, a unique palliative and end-of-life care model addressing the physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual needs of patients and families. Bob Uslander, MD, received his Medical Degree from the UCLA Geffen School of Medicine and practiced medicine in Emergency, Palliative, and end-of-life care for over 30 years.
Elizabeth Uslander, MSW MTS, received her BA cum laude from Georgetown University and earned her Master's degrees at USC and Wesley Theological Seminary.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website.
In this episode
03:49 Bob’s transition from emergency medicine to palliative care and the founding of Empowered Endings with Elizabeth.
09:12 Elizabeth’s journey in spiritual care and social work shaping palliative and end of life care focus.
11:47 Integrating end-of-life doulas in comprehensive care planning and support.
18:48 The importance of having proactive, intentional discussions about end-of-life preferences within couples.
32:54 The role of spiritual practices and emotional connection in navigating end-of-life conversations within relationships.
38:29 Cultivating readiness and practical tools for end-of-life conversations.
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