ERP 461: How to Increase Psychological Flexibility for Healthy Relationships — An Interview with Dr. Steven Hayes
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
Release Date: 01/28/2025
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Steven C. Hayes is a Professor Emeritus at the University of Nevada, Reno. An author of 48 books and over 700 scientific articles, he originated Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. His book Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life was the best-selling self-help book in the US, and his TEDx talks and blogs have been seen or read by 4 million people. He is among the 30 most cited psychologists in the world.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website.
In this episode
04:53 Exploring the origin and philosophy of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
16:07 Integrating science and spirituality within ACT.
17:06 Understanding the nature of learning and vulnerability.
21:42 The role of humility in relationships and life.
23:38 Using psychological flexibility to navigate intimacy.
28:55 Embracing a beginner's mind in everyday life.
30:05 Active engagement and personal responsibility in values-driven actions.
36:22 The importance of validation and accountability in relationships.
37:45 Aligning values with actions for intentional living.
41:34 Breaking down the components of psychological flexibility.
45:28 Tuning into life’s demands through psychological flexibility.
48:19 Continuous learning and personal growth: available resources.
Mentioned
Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
A Liberated Mind: How to Pivot Toward What Matters (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
Doing What Matters in Times of Stress (*World Health Organization link)
Evolve in Love (link) (program)
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