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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Release Date: 08/13/2025

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In this steamy QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite lifestyle couple takes a cheeky, unfiltered dive into the question: How much sex is too much… and how little is too little? Adam and Pris pull back the sheets (literally) to share their own hyper-sexual reality — averaging multiple sessions a day — and compare it to national averages showing most couples only get intimate once or twice a week.

This fun, candid conversation covers mismatched libidos, how to keep sex exciting after years together, the realities of high sex drive relationships, and how lifestyle couples often break the mold. They discuss “wrong” times for sex, how menopause can shift desire, and even the role of toys, lube, and experimentation in keeping the spark alive. Adam and Pris also touch on the emotional side — insecurities, communication, and what to do when one partner just isn’t in the mood.

Whether you’re having daily “bang-a-thons,” enjoying slow-burn intimacy, or wondering how to spice things up, this episode blends humor, honesty, and practical advice for couples in and out of the lifestyle. It’s equal parts sexy banter, relationship insight, and playful oversharing — just the way Beyond Monogamy listeners love it.


Show Notes:

Topics Covered:

  • Adam & Pris’s personal sex frequency (spoiler: it’s a lot) vs. national averages

  • Why lifestyle couples may naturally have more sex than vanilla couples

  • “Wrong” times for sex (and why Adam thinks they don’t exist)

  • How high libidos can be both a blessing and a scheduling challenge

  • The effect of menopause, stress, and life changes on sexual desire

  • Strategies for keeping sex fresh after years together — toys, positions, new experiences

  • Navigating mismatched sex drives and maintaining intimacy

  • The emotional side: insecurity, compersion, and lifestyle dynamics

  • Pills, patches, and creams — medications that can help with libido issues

  • Fun personal stories, including why ribs and milkshakes once led to truck hookups


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