Ep. 772: Signs That You Live in a Survival State
Fit 2 Love Podcast with JJ Flizanes
Release Date: 08/05/2025
Fit 2 Love Podcast with JJ Flizanes
In This Episode, You’ll Learn Why contrast (the thing you don’t want) is not personal—and not a sign you “did it wrong” How survival responses (fight/flight/freeze/fawn) can pull you out of flow automatically Why self-compassion is the “neutralizer” that helps you move from emotional intensity back to steadiness The “three buckets” model: lack → neutrality → abundance How to move from “what I don’t want” into true clarity using three powerful questions The difference between observing vs. judging—and how judgment instantly shuts off flow How...
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In this episode, JJ Flizanes welcomes back cardiologist and bestselling author Dr. William Davis to celebrate the launch of his newest book, Super Body, available starting today, December 16, 2025, wherever books are sold. Together, they explore why our culture’s obsession with quick weight-loss fixes — from low-calorie diets to trending injectables — often leads to muscle loss, more visceral fat, faster aging, and even higher long-term health risks. JJ brings in her Date Your Body philosophy to highlight why resistance training is essential for staying strong, youthful, and independent...
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Real Women. Real Results. Real Transformation. In this very special episode, JJ checks in with past participants of Date Your Body to share where they are now, what has stayed with them, and how their lives have continued to transform long after the program ended. This is more than a “weight loss” conversation. These women healed their nervous systems, rewrote emotional patterns, and finally created a loving, sustainable relationship with their bodies. And the ripple effects? They’ve touched every area of their lives — relationships, confidence, movement, self-worth, energy, and...
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If you’ve been doing all the right things—eating clean, exercising, thinking positive—and still not seeing the changes you want… This week I recorded a solo show on Weight-Loss Resistance and the REAL reasons your body isn’t changing. (Spoiler: it’s not your willpower, your discipline, or your motivation.) I break down the top 7 metabolic blocks I see over and over again, plus the missing link that most programs ignore:👉 your nervous system. Because your body cannot release weight or inflammation when it doesn’t feel safe. And to help you go deeper, I’m giving you...
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This week’s episode is a powerful and intimate conversation with my dear friend and dream expert Kelly Sullivan Walden, inspired by her newest book, Dreamifesting. I open up about some recent struggles and how my dreams have been helping me process emotions I didn’t even realize I was holding. Together, we explore the unconscious, the mirror effect, and how our lessons and wounds reflect our relationship with ourselves. If you’ve been feeling stretched, overwhelmed, or in transition, this episode may be exactly what your soul needs. About Kelly: Kelly Sullivan Walden is a bestselling...
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What if the key to transforming your relationships isn’t getting everyone else to change — but changing your own energy first? In this powerful episode, JJ Flizanes explores the science and soul behind how one person’s healing can ripple through an entire family system. You’ll hear from Mandy Bobo, a longtime member of JJ’s community who’s completed Date Your Body Beta, Rewiring Your Core Wound Patterns, Healing the Mother Wound, and Connect Couples Retreat. Through her personal transformation, Mandy didn’t just change her own life — she shifted the energy of her entire...
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In this episode, JJ Flizanes shares a powerful conversation from the Unleashing Your Manifestation Power live event — featuring members of her community who have experienced real transformation through support, accountability, and connection. This success panel explores one of the most overlooked truths about personal growth and manifestation: you can’t do it alone. We dive into: 💫 Why having the right people in your life — mentors, peers, coaches, and friends — determines how far you’ll go. 🌱 How accountability isn’t about pressure or perfection, but about being...
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If you’ve ever said, “I know what to do… I just can’t seem to do it,” this episode is for you. Today, JJ Flizanes uncovers the hidden reason most people stay stuck, no matter how much effort, discipline, or positive thinking they apply: an unsafe nervous system. Your body doesn’t change when it’s under threat — it changes when it feels safe. And the first step to transformation is understanding whether your nervous system feels regulated enough to allow change in the first place. In this episode, you’ll learn:💫 Why your nervous system—not your willpower—determines your...
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Why Your Body Won't Change Masterclass Nov 19th Use code JJ97 to get it for free 2026 Empowerment Programs Open for Applications! In This Episode, You’ll Learn: · The three phases of detoxification and how each supports your body’s natural healing. · The most common heavy metals that disrupt your hormones and energy. · How to recognize signs of heavy metal toxicity and what tests can reveal hidden...
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In this heartfelt episode, we’re bringing you straight into the energy of Unleashing Your Manifestation Power—our live event that just wrapped this past weekend. You’ll hear directly from attendees as they share their personal breakthroughs, manifestations, and what it means to finally reconnect with their authentic selves. This conversation is about coming home to you—bridging the gap between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming. It’s a reflection of the transformation that happens when you regulate your nervous system, align your energy, and open your heart to receive more...
info_outlineIf you've ever felt like you're doing everything right—visualizing, journaling, meditating—but you're still stuck in the same patterns...This week’s episode might just give you the missing piece.
Before you try to "manifest harder," ask yourself these questions:
· Do you constantly feel exhausted, even when you’re not doing much?
· Do you keep recreating the same painful patterns—in love, in money, in health?
· Do you feel like you’re always “on edge,” even when things are fine?
· Do you overthink everything, or feel frozen when it’s time to act?
· Do you feel disconnected from joy, play, passion, or possibility?
· Do you swing between hyper-productivity and complete burnout?
If you said yes to even one of those… there’s a high chance you’re living in a survival state.
And when your nervous system doesn’t feel safe, it will block the very things you’re trying to attract.
This episode is your invitation to start seeing manifestation through a new lens—a nervous system-informed lens.
👉 And if you're ready to do the real work, I’ve got a limited-time 2-for-1 offer:
🎁 Join Becoming Magnetic (6 week online program)
AND get a free ticket to my 3-day live event in October—Unleashing Your Manifestation Power.
This offer is only available until Aug 12th — and space is limited.
🔗http://jjflizanes.com/becomingmagnetic
You’re not broken. You’re not lazy.
You’re just stuck in a survival loop that was never meant to be permanent.
Let’s break it together. 💫