321. Dating Smart: The Real Reason Successful Women Struggle in Love, with Laura Nagiel
The Game On Girlfriend Podcast
Release Date: 02/24/2026
The Game On Girlfriend Podcast
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info_outlineYour success isn't scaring men away. But the energy you had to adopt to build that success? That might be creating a problem you didn't know existed.
In this episode, Sarah talks with Laura Nagiel, a dating and confidence coach who works specifically with high-achieving women. Laura shares why being "twice as masculine as the men around you" at work can completely backfire when you're trying to build a romantic connection—and what to do about it.
They explore the "second gear" successful women need to shift between work mode and dating mode, how to actually assess someone's level of ambition (spoiler: it's not about asking five-year plans), and why self-love—not just self-confidence—determines what you'll actually accept in relationships.
Laura's been through it herself. After a successful PR career and years of dating frustration, she took a year off to study her own patterns. The very first date after that year? Her life partner. Now she helps women understand the psychology of attraction, the masculine-feminine polarity, and how to create the conditions for finding an aligned partner.
This conversation is practical, honest, and refreshing. If you've ever felt like you can build a six-figure business but can't seem to get dating right, this episode is for you.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN
- Why your success isn't the problem—but the masculine energy you developed to achieve it might be
- The "second gear" that lets you be powerful at work AND open in relationships
- How to assess someone's actual level of ambition through their actions, not their words
- The crucial difference between self-confidence and self-love (and why you need both)
- Why "leaning back" reveals more about compatibility than interviewing over wine
- How past relationships shape your current dating mindset—and what to do about it
SPECIAL GIFT FROM LAURA NAGIEL
Take Laura's free dating audit to discover what your biggest problem is in dating right now and the 3 specific steps you need to take to fix it. The audit takes 3-5 minutes and helps you move from chaos to clarity in your dating life.
→ Get the free audit: https://lauranagiel.involve.me/audit
CONNECT WITH LAURA NAGIEL
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauranagiel/
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauranagiel/
- Website & DREAM Framework: https://resources.lauranagiel.com/dream-framework
ABOUT LAURA NAGIEL
Laura Nagiel is a dating and confidence coach for high-achieving women. She's the author of the DREAM Framework™, a practical five-step method that offers a precise strategy for navigating dating in a way that brings fast but sustainable results.
After years of struggling with dating herself—despite success in PR and building a thriving coaching business—Laura took a year off dating to study her own patterns. The very first date after resuming? Her life partner. Now she helps women understand the psychology of attraction, masculine and feminine polarity, and why people bond the way they do, so they can finally experience their dream relationship and truly have it all in life.
READY TO BUILD A BUSINESS THAT SUPPORTS YOUR LIFE?
Book a free consultation with Sarah to talk about where you are in your business and see if working together feels right.
→ Schedule here: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=13047670&appointmentType=34706781
FREE GIFT FROM SARAH
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LEARN FROM SARAH
Explore Sarah's online courses and free resources to start building your business with confidence.
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CONNECT WITH SARAH
- Website: https://sarahwalton.com/podcast
- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheSarahWalton
- Instagram: https://instagram.com/thesarahwalton
ABOUT SARAH WALTON
Sarah Walton is a business coach, podcast host, and mentor who helps women entrepreneurs build businesses they love. She's the creator of the Abundance Academy, Effortless Sales, and the Game On Girlfriend® podcast. Sarah's mission is to put more money in the hands of more women while teaching authentic, heart-centered business strategies.
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