346. Certainty Is a Skill (And You Can Learn It)
The Game On Girlfriend Podcast
Release Date: 08/18/2026
The Game On Girlfriend Podcast
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info_outlineMost of us think certainty means confidence — that bold, "everything always works out for me" kind of energy. It doesn't.
Confidence is built on evidence: you earn it by looking back at what you've already proven.
Certainty is different. It's a deep inner knowing you can access before you have any proof at all, and it's one of the most important skills for building a genuinely wealthy life — not just a life with more money in it, but one where you trust your next move even when you can't yet explain why.
In this solo episode, I break down the real difference between certainty and confidence, why we mix the two up, and how you can start practicing certainty as an actual skill — starting this week.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
- What an Italian vineyard taught me about digging deeper roots instead of panicking when things feel scarce
- My jeans story — what it feels like when your intuition is right, even when it makes no sense at the time
- How Jamie Kern Lima built a billion-dollar company by trusting her own knowing over an investor's "no"
- Why your imagination is either your greatest asset or your biggest liability
- The negativity bias — and how to work with it instead of against it
- Two questions to ask yourself this week to start practicing certainty right now
RESOURCES MENTIONED
- Believe It by Jamie Kern Lima (referenced in the episode) — https://amzn.to/4c5mk64
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ABOUT SARAH WALTON
Sarah Walton is a wealth consciousness coach, strategic advisor, podcast host, and mentor who helps women entrepreneurs build businesses they love.
Her mission is simple: to put more money in the hands of more women.
She's the creator of the Abundance Academy, The Art of Receiving, and the Game On Girlfriend® podcast.
Sarah teaches authentic, heart-centered business strategies because when women have more financial power, they don't just keep it — they use it to take care of their families, support their communities, and build something bigger than themselves.
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- Episode 1: Don’t Live a Life of Almosts — https://sarahwalton.com/dont-live-a-life-of-almosts/
- Episode 339: Trust Your Intuition in Business — A Lesson in Serenity and the Next Play, with Bron Watson — https://sarahwalton.com/trust-your-intuition-in-business/
- Episode 331: How to Quiet the Noise and Hear Your Intuition with Diana Firth — https://sarahwalton.com/spiritual-simplicity-diana-firth/
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