Everyone’s Saying Adult Friendships Are Hard: Do This
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Release Date: 09/29/2025
The ER Moment That Exposed My People Pleasing
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. If you’ve ever found yourself reading the room, adjusting your behavior, or avoiding asking for what you need because you “don’t want to be a burden,” this episode is for you. I’m unpacking why high performers, especially enterprise sellers, fall into people pleasing, how it...
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How to Start When You Have Zero Motivation
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. Ever stare down your to-do list knowing exactly what to do, and still not do it? You're not lazy, broken, or alone. In this episode, we unpack the real reason you can’t seem to start, why your brain is working against you, and the tactical tools you can use to shift momentum...
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How I Got in the Best Shape of My Life... In a Way I Never Thought Would Work
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. If you’ve ever set a goal, hyped yourself up, made the perfect plan and then watched it fizzle, you’re not alone. In this episode, I share how I finally got in the best shape of my life not by doubling down on discipline, but by taking a radically different approach: self-compassion....
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How To Plan Out Your Year Without Having To Fix Yourself
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. If the pressure of New Year’s resolutions is already dragging you down, this episode is your permission slip to ditch the hype. I’m walking you through how to plan your year in a way that actually sticks, based on your rhythms, not someone else's checklist. By the end,...
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How I Personally Do All Of My Planning As Someone With ADHD
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. If you’ve ever felt like your to-do list is never-ending, your brain is overloaded, or you're spinning your wheels without real progress, you’re not alone. In this episode, I’m walking you through the exact planning system I use to stay focused, reduce overwhelm, and...
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I Got Braces Again… and It Changed How I Measure Success
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. Today is story time. And yes, it involves braces. But this isn’t really about teeth. It’s about the moment you realize your younger self would be absolutely blown away by the life you’ve built… Even if you don’t feel successful day-to-day. In this episode, I share a personal...
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Top Performers Still Feel Imposter Syndrome (Here’s What They Do Anyway)
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. If you’ve ever assumed top reps are just built differently, this episode is going to be a relief. I was on a call with a client recently and told them I experience imposter syndrome, too. Their reaction was basically, “Wait… YOU?” And honestly, that’s exactly why I wanted to record this....
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The Simple Planning Shift That Gives Sellers 2 Hours Back Every Day
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. If planning feels heavy, annoying, or like one more thing on your to-do list, this episode is for you. Most sellers either: • Don’t plan at all and spend the day putting out fires, or • Try to follow someone else’s “perfect system” and assume they are the problem when it doesn’t...
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How to Stop Letting Achievement Define Your Worth (For Enneagram 3s & High Performers)
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. If you’ve ever taken the Enneagram and discovered you’re a Type 3 (The Achiever) or if you simply act like one, this episode will feel like someone finally put words to your inner world. Achievers push themselves relentlessly. They hit goal after goal. They look wildly successful from the...
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The (plant!) Framework That Finally Shows You If You Should Stay Or Switch Jobs
The Achievers Podcast: Get out of your own way and find success
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. You’re not broken because your last few jobs haven’t worked. You’re not flaky because you’re already thinking about leaving… again. You’re not “bad at work” because your current role feels like slogging through wet cement. You might just be a really great plant… in the...
info_outlineWelcome to the The Achievers Podcast.
I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success.
I’m weirdly passionate about adult friendships, mostly because no one teaches us how to do them.
As kids, friendships just happen. You sit next to someone in class, or play on the same team, and boom! BEST FRIENDS. But as adults? It feels awkward. You want deeper friendships, but how do you even start? You can’t exactly walk up to someone at the park and say, “Hey, want to be my best friend?”
Here’s the good news: friendships aren’t magic. They’re built. And there’s actual research, practical strategies, and even some scripts that make it so much easier.
🎯 In this episode, I riff on:
↠ Why adult friendships feel harder than childhood friendships
↠ The research: how many hours it really takes to move from acquaintance → friend → best friend
↠ Why you don’t need one “perfect best friend” (and how to build a friendship portfolio instead)
↠ How to practice showing up, even when messy and awkward
↠ Catchphrases and conversation starters that actually work
↠ How to move past surface-level small talk and into a deep, lasting connection
↠ Why vulnerability is the key to being fully seen in your friendships
↠ The quirky mindset shift that helps me revive friendships, even after 10 years apart
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