Why Menopause Is Aging Your Teeth, Gums & Sleep (Dentist Explains) | Dr Carlos Melendez | #144
Release Date: 01/20/2026
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There’s a quiet shift many women notice in midlife that rarely gets talked about in the doctor’s office, changes in their mouth. Gums that feel more sensitive. Teeth that suddenly seem fragile. Dryness, inflammation, or dental issues that appear despite “doing everything right.”
I sat down with Dr. Carlos Melendez, a general dentist and practice owner, to talk about what really happens to oral health during perimenopause and menopause, and why women are so often left without explanation when changes begin.
Women are frequently told that dental issues are about hygiene alone, or that worsening gum or tooth problems are just “bad luck.” This conversation matters because it reframes oral health as part of whole-body health. When women understand the hormonal and physiological drivers behind these changes, they’re empowered to protect not just their smiles, but their overall health as they age.
We examine how this topic shows up in daily life:
- How hormonal shifts in menopause affect gum tissue, bone, and oral inflammation
- Why dry mouth becomes more common and why it matters for tooth and gum health
- The connection between estrogen loss, bone density, and jawbone health
- How chronic inflammation in the mouth can impact whole-body health
- Why routine dental changes in midlife deserve deeper evaluation, not dismissal
- How preventive dental care needs to evolve during perimenopause and menopause
- Why collaboration between medical and dental care is essential for aging well
About Dr. Carlos Melendez:
Dr. Carlos Melendez is a general dentist and practice owner with extensive experience caring for adult patients across all life stages. His work focuses on preventive care, patient education, and understanding how systemic health directly impacts oral health, especially in midlife and beyond.
Connect with Dr. Carlos Melendez:
Website: https://www.nonasmiles.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlos-melendez-473523178/
Timestamps (will update once final draft is available)
00:00:00 Intro
00:01:30 Why Dental Health Changes in Midlife
00:05:10 Hormones, Gums, and Oral Inflammation
00:09:40 Estrogen Loss and Jawbone Health
00:14:20 Dry Mouth, Saliva, and Tooth Protection
00:18:30 Gum Disease and Systemic Inflammation
00:24:10 Preventive Dental Care During Menopause
00:29:40 What Dentists Wish Women Knew About Menopause
00:35:20 Advocating for Your Oral Health
00:41:10 Practical Tips for Maintaining Oral Health
00:47:21 Sleep Apnea: Diagnosis and Treatment
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