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312. How To Be Awesome At Not Giving Away Your Free Time

Release Date: 12/30/2024

323. How To Be Awesome At Seeing Everything You’ve Done Up To Now As The Pre-Game

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Quick story to explain this - I was testing out a new business and I was talking to my husband about this product and the cost of goods and profits and the industry and I was explaining about the strong positioning I’ll have in the marketplace and he was like many sold last month and what was the net profit? And when I told him - he’s like your time is worth more- that’s not big enough - and I’m like totally - but I haven’t even gotten started. He’s like but you have sales- I was like I know, but I’m in the pre-game like I haven’t even gotten started....

322. How To Be Awesome At The Vacation Reset

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This episode is all about The Vacation Reset. How to come home, take a fresh look at your routine, and use everything you felt and experienced on your trip to make your everyday more fulfilling. So rather than having post-vacation blues you have this fresh perspective on everything - what you’re eating, what you’re spending your free time doing, and what makes you feel the most alive. It a post-vacation breakthrough podcast. 1. Why Vacation Is Such a Powerful Reset You break your routines naturally — new places, new foods, new experiences. You slow down...

321. How To Be Awesome At Not Snipping At Your People

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Here are some key strategies to help you plan ahead, manage stress, and respond with patience instead of snapping at your loved ones: Why We Get Snippy & How to Prevent It Lack of Time = Lack of Patience – When we’re rushed, our tolerance drops. Planning ahead creates space for calmer interactions. Stress & Overload – When our mental/emotional load is too heavy, small things set us off. Managing stress proactively prevents snippy reactions. Not Meeting Our Own Needs – When we’re tired, hungry, or overstimulated, we’re more likely to react negatively. ...

320. How To Be Awesome At Tracking Your Best Days To Design More Of Them

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This episode is all about documents your highs in life, so you can create more of them. As a person who’s thought a lot about joy and happiness and fulfillment - if we just try to simplify all of that - I really think it comes down to stringing as many awesome days together as you can. Identifying what made you feel the happiest, the strongest, the most fulfilled… all of it. You probably know I’m obsessed with designing our days rather than letting our days just happen and all of that starts with first figuring out what we actually love, have the most fun doing and what and who makes...

319. How To Be Awesome At Being Unaffected By Chaos

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Today we are training to be unaffected by chaos! How to get through it without anxiety or stress or losing your cool. I love topics that make us make a plan ahead of time, so when we are in a situation like this, we react exactly as we want to because we’ve thought through it ahead of time. We aren’t reacting out of emotion, but out of a place of control and strategically. You probably know I always talk about reacting based on what you want the outcome to be, not how you feel in the moment. We’re applying that concept to this situation and...

318. How To Be Awesome At Having A Succeed-Or-Die-Trying Attitude

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This podcast topic might seem a little extreme, but I honestly think it’s the difference between planners and doers. Between amateurs and pros. It’s this attitude that I will succeed at this or I will die trying. Said differently - I won’t stop until it works. Because everything takes a long time and it will eventually work if you try hard enough and do enough repetitions and fail enough and learn enough lessons. Sometimes the original plan is what ends up working and sometimes you pivot 50 times and keep adjusting the plan until it’s the winning...

317. How To Be Awesome At Saving An Hour A Day

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Most of us feel like we simply don’t have enough hours in the day to do all the things. To do the things we WANT to do and also the things we HAVE to do. Today we are talking through overall strategies we can use to make the most out of our days… and also very specific examples of ways you can do things more efficiently so that you simply have more time. If we can eliminate decision fatigue, schedule specific times for tasks, do things faster, do things ahead of time, eliminate things that don’t need to be done and batch work similar items together - we will wind up...

316. How To Be Awesome At Becoming Unoffendable

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There is this incredible freedom that comes when you simply cannot be offended. You have more inner peace, stronger relationships and just more joy in your days. In order to never be offended by something someone says, I think we need to first put them in one of two buckets, then unpack from there. They are either in your inner circle or not in your inner circle. If they are - then you love them unconditionally and you know they aren’t perfect, just like all of us, and we have bad days or bad moments or less than ideal reactions. Or we let our...

315. How To Be Awesome At Designing Your Days Using The 2.0 Habit System

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This podcast episode is a full education on how habits work and what experts say about the importance of planning and consistency and how to set yourself up to do the tiny daily things that support your big goals. This is a walk through of the 2.0 Habits System that I created- so if you are already a part of our community - you’ll love learning more about how to really make the system work best for your life. If you’ve thought about organizing your days this way or you just want to learn strategies about being intentional about how you spend your time- you’ll...

314. Really Awesome Valentines Ideas!

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To me Valentine’s is so much more impactful when it feels like a season of extra love, rather than a mandatory date night on a certain day. At the entrance to our wedding in 2009, when I was 27 years old, I hand rhinestoned letters to go over the arch walking into our reception in Mexico that said CELEBRATE LOVE because that’s literally my life mantra. Love is what we all want to feel and experience and it’s one of the greatest life gifts. This podcast episode is all about ways to use this time to really have fun with your people - show them how...

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When someone asks you if you can attend an event or party or get together, what’s the first thing you do?

You check if you’re free! If you’re available at that day and time.

And then, if you are free, you’ll probably say yes.

How could you say no, you aren’t busy then.

This is where it happens! We feel like we owe it to them to go, because we aren’t busy. But we could end up spending that half a day doing something really fulfilling and invigorating, instead of going to the obligatory baby shower for our cousins friend.

I think we often feel like there just isn’t enough time in a day, because we are giving too much of it away!

This podcast episode is the best reminder of how precious your time is and the best strategies for deciding how you spend it.

Let’s go!

Here’s the deal with how you decide how to

If you don’t want to go, don’t go.

Alex Hormozi said-

Just because you have free time, doesn’t mean that anyone who asks for it is entitled to it.

If you see that you have an empty day, mis people assume if someone asks for that time, its theirs.

Its only not theirs when someone else has claimed it

Which means that your time only belongs to other people.

And then you’re surprised that your investment of time has yielded nothing for you.

You’ve given your most important asset - your time.

Your calendar is the best way to tell where you are going to be in a year.

You can see by what you are doing today, what your life will look like in a year.

The life that you are living today is a result of the work you did 6-12 months ago.

Just like people want an immediate reward, they see their current condition as a reflection of what you’re doing today. It’s not - it’s a reflection of what you did 6 months ago.

It helps you make better decisions with your time now.

Going to the gym is the best example! The change isn’t immediate. If you skip all of your workouts, you don’t see or feel it right away- but you do in 6 months. It also works the other way.

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