340. How To Be Awesome At The Best Sleep Of Your Life With 3 Hacks
How To Be Awesome At Everything Podcast
Release Date: 12/09/2025
How To Be Awesome At Everything Podcast
I learned the craziest life lesson this week, and I cannot believe it took me 44 years on the planet to actually realize this. I’m so excited to share it because I think, in some way, it applies to everybody in at least one area of life. For me, this shift came through organization. I’ve always told myself that I’m a creative person. I’m always building things, creating things, and planning adventures, so I’m not organized. I’m creative, not structured. But here’s what I realized: my comfort zone was actually a cage I put myself in without even realizing it. And the wildest part...
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If you are someone that sometimes gets caught up in drama… this podcast is going to be so great for you. The sneaky thing about getting involved in drama is that it doesnt feel like it’s taking anything away from you… but its actually taking away so much. First, the time… time spent on drama is time not spent on other things. And other things that make you feel alive and bring you joy… or that feel like progress towards your goals. Simply a minute spent doing one thing is a minute not spent doing something else. And the toll it takes on our headspace is so sneaky...
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One question in this podcast… just one. I think it’s one of the most powerful questions we can ask ourselves and if we really listen to the answer, it can be the unlock to your big dreams, no exaggeration. Here it is…. What would you do if you knew you could not fail? Because the truth is… the answer to that question is the blueprint for the life you’re actually meant to live. But most people never chase it. Most people talk themselves out of their dreams before they ever take a single step. They convince themselves they’re being “realistic.” Someone...
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The idea of traditions can feel heavy and like once you do it you’re stuck doing them forever… I wanted to do a fullll podcast episode that would give you lots of ideas that feel light and fun and can be so special to your family. Things that make you all feel more connected… and that feel so unique and important to your family. It’s easy for parenting to feel like a constant sprint sometimes… school, sports, meals, naps… it’s a refreshing change to lean into special things that your family does. I realized how precious this is when one of my kids wrote a little paper...
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Today we are talking about approaching one thing you do in a new way… that will positively benefit your life in lots of ways. It’s the way you plan your meals. It’s the shift of thinking about food or meals when you start to feel hungry or when it’s about time to eat… to thinking about meals ahead of time.. sometimes a few hours and other times a few days before. It’s actually EASIER than doing it last minute because you can plan for a few meals at once rather than each meal like a fire drill when its time to eat… it can be cheaper because you aren’t having...
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Your Pep Talk For An Awesome Mindset We all need a good peptalk sometimes when life is really hard or when life is confusing and we’re not sure what the next right move is… And sometimes it’s hard to peptalk yourself and the people you love might not peptalk you in the way you need… So that’s what this episode is today. It’s your peptalk to listen to now and then again whenever you need it, the reminder that you’re freaking incredible and you can do absolutely anything you want to do if you’re willing to work hard enough for it. Because...
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I get my blood work done every 90 days and I swear it’s the ultimate tip for health in the short term and in the long term and just feeling your best on he daily. So, today I’m going to try to convince you to do the same. Because there is a huge difference between being “not sick” and being truly healthy and if you aren’t getting your bloodwork done at least once a year, you really don’t know what’s going on. Most people only get blood work done when something is wrong. When they feel bad. When they are exhausted. When a symptom won’t go away. When a doctor orders it because...
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This podcast is all about the last 4 hours of your day, everyday. There is so much focus on morning routines. What time you wake up, what you drink, what you journal, what workout you do, what affirmation you say. But the truth is, your day doesn't start in the morning. Your day starts the night before. Most of us begin the day with good energy, good intentions, and some level of clarity. But by the end of the day, we are tired. We are mentally full. We have made hundreds of decisions. We don’t have the same motivation, discipline, or emotional capacity. ...
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The silver lining in spending so much time in hospitals with my husband for his heart condition is that I’ve adapted what I now call… a hospital bed perspective. It’s basically like this… If I was stuck in a hospital bed today… What would I be dying to do? What would I make time for? Who would I make time for? What would I prioritize? It’s easy to be in our routine and put things off or not realize that we aren’t prioritizing the things and people that we really enjoy the most... But all of a sudden, when you can’t do those things, it becomes really...
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This podcast episode is about being delusional in the healthiest way possible I really think the worst advice I’ve ever been given is be realistic Because it’s such a dream killer and creates this cycle of limiting beliefs in your mind I just think that too often we put ourselves in a box without realizing it and the moment we break out of that box and realize just how capable we are- we can really accomplish anything we want. if we just keep going, just keep getting back up just never stop I believe so much in thoughts become things and the story you tell yourself becomes the life you...
info_outlineGood sleep so complicated. There are endless tips about screens and supplements and gadgets that promise better rest, but most of us aren’t thinking about the three biggest levers that actually move the needle. The quality of your sleep is really a reflection of how you lived your day. When you challenge yourself physically, challenge yourself mentally and clear the things that are weighing on you, your body naturally shifts into deeper, more restorative rest. Sleep improves when your body is tired in the right ways, your mind has worked enough to want a break and your stress is addressed instead of pushed to the side. Today we are breaking sleep down to three simple, powerful habits that human performance experts say will help you get the best sleep of your life by focusing on how you show up during the day.
Hack 1: Exhaust yourself physically during the day
• When your body is physically spent, you fall asleep faster and sleep deeper.
• Being busy is not the same as being physically active. Movement creates real sleep pressure.
• Getting steps in, lifting something heavy, walking more, sweating a little and staying on your feet helps your body crave rest at night.
• Huberman and Matthew Walker both explain that daily movement increases adenosine, which builds the urge to sleep.
• Kelly LeVeque and Casey Means show how balanced blood sugar from movement reduces nighttime cortisol spikes.
• Gary Brecka talks about completing the physiological stress cycle so the nervous system knows it’s safe to shut down.
• Examples: long walks, workouts, organizing or cleaning days, anything that gets your heart rate up or keeps you consistently moving.
Hack 2: Exhaust yourself mentally by challenging your brain
• Most people feel mentally busy but not mentally challenged, which leaves the brain restless at night.
• Learn something, solve something, try something new, figure something out, read, study, dive into a topic.
• When you grow mentally and make progress, your brain feels complete and ready for rest.
• Chris Williamson says nighttime overthinking often comes from not using the mind in a meaningful way during the day.
• Alex Hormozi emphasizes that progress, even small progress, lowers internal friction and mental clutter.
• Casey Means explains how real cognitive engagement stabilizes dopamine, which lowers the nighttime seeking behavior that keeps people scrolling instead of sleeping.
• Neuroscience research shows that learning increases the brain’s need for REM sleep because it needs to file those memories.
• Examples: learning new systems, improving a process, starting a new skill, working on something that feels mentally tricky or step heavy.
Hack 3: Solve your problems during the day so your mind can rest at night
• Nothing disrupts sleep more than unresolved stress or conversations that still need to be had.
• The crumbs metaphor works perfectly here. Just like crumbs irritate you all night, unresolved issues do the same mentally.
• Have the conversations, apologize, forgive, clear the air, make progress on debt, take one step toward the thing you’ve been avoiding.
• Gary Vee talks often about how anxiety comes from avoiding the very thing we know we need to do.
• Dave Ramsey points out that money problems are one of the biggest sleep killers and even a simple plan reduces that load.
• Gary Brecka explains how mental stress raises cortisol and keeps your system in high alert, which blocks deep sleep.
• Huberman suggests cognitive unloading, writing everything down, to calm the brain before bed.
• Matthew Walker reminds us that sleep cannot negotiate with an anxious mind.
• Suggestions: write everything down, even if you can’t talk to the person yet, get clarity in writing, pick one step toward solving your biggest stressor so you can rest knowing you are in motion.
•Inhale the good, exhale the bad.