EP244 – How Changing Your Behaviour Can Get You More Sales with Graham Stead & Ian Luckett

Graham Stead knows a thing or two about MSPs. He ran his own for over 20 years before selling it in 2016, and since then he’s been leading sales and marketing teams and helping other MSP owners make better decisions, build stronger habits and get more sales. It was great to hear his story and experience, but more importantly, we unpacked the very specific actions MSPs can take to improve their sales performance by changing what they do every day. 

One of the first standout moments in our conversation was when I asked Graham the number one thing MSPs need to do to get more sales. Without hesitation, he said, change their behaviour. Not build a pipeline, not sort out their marketing. Change their behaviour. And that really stuck with me. Because as Graham explained, it’s not about what happens at the end of the sales process, it’s what happens every day, every week, in the run up to that conversation. He used a brilliant analogy with Usain Bolt. Bolt doesn’t win because he sprints the final 2 metres the hardest. He wins because of the four years of training, nutrition and planning that lead up to that 10 second race. And it’s exactly the same in MSP sales. 

Graham Stead shared some incredibly valuable insights around time management. One of his most powerful tools is something he calls the cookbook. A simple weekly spreadsheet where you track your sales activities. It sounds basic, but most MSPs who try it realise they are doing far less outreach and demand creation than they thought. And it’s that consistency, those small daily actions, that create real momentum. Whether that’s reaching out to a client contact, following up with a lead or booking a new meeting, it all adds up. Graham reminded us that building this habit might only start with 15 minutes a day. But it needs to be done consistently, and it needs to be protected. If something gets in the way, double up the following day. That’s how new habits stick. 

We also talked about the importance of linking your sales behaviour to your bigger goals. If you’re not clear on your personal why, whether that’s retiring well, supporting your family or simply building a business you’re proud of, it becomes far too easy to skip the sales work and stay in your comfort zone. Graham Stead was very clear here. Connect your daily activity to your future goals and the motivation to do the work becomes far stronger. 

The episode also covered four powerful sales habits that every MSP should adopt. The first was the demand creation habit. This is about creating conversations and building relationships, not just waiting for inbound leads. Graham gave some practical examples of how expanding your contact base within existing clients can lead to real value. If you’re only speaking to the MD, you’re missing opportunities with heads of department who have their own tech needs and budgets. 

The second was the qualification habit. Time is your most valuable resource, so stop chasing poor fits. Graham shared the mindset shift of looking for reasons not to work with a prospect, respectfully and early. That simple shift can protect your time and help you focus on the right opportunities. 

The third was the effective questioning habit. Better questions lead to bigger orders. But it’s not only about what you ask, it’s about learning from each conversation. Graham Stead encouraged us to create a bank of useful questions, review sales calls and continuously improve. Whether the deal was won or lost, there’s always a lesson. 

And finally, the agreed next steps habit. Sales momentum comes from clarity and commitment. Every meeting needs a clear purpose, a next step and an action plan. Graham also highlighted the importance of accountability. Whether it’s a colleague, coach or peer, having someone to hold you to your habits can make all the difference. 

This was one of those episodes that really brings together mindset and action. Graham Stead didn’t talk in theory. He brought practical, easy-to-implement habits that make a measurable difference in sales performance. If you’re an MSP owner stuck in the weeds, finding it hard to build a consistent pipeline or frustrated with unpredictable sales, this episode will give you the tools to get back in control. 

You can connect with Graham Stead on LinkedIn by clicking HERE, and follow his updates from Growth Habits and book an advisory call if you want more tailored advice on changing your own sales behaviour. 

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Connect on LinkedIn HERE with Ian and also with Stuart by clicking this LINK 

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Until next time, look after yourself and I’ll catch up with you soon!