Us vs. Them: Choosing Your Own Life Path
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
Release Date: 03/17/2026
Belonging When You’re Infertile and Childless
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
Belonging When You’re Infertile and Childless What happens when fertility treatments end and there’s no baby? It’s a question that rarely gets discussed in the infertility world, yet it’s the reality so many women face after IVF fails, fertility treatments end, or you make the painful decision to stop trying. In this episode of The “So Now What?” Podcast, I’m sharing the exact speech I recently gave at the Seeds of Hope Fertility Luncheon. What made this event especially powerful is that many women in the room ultimately became mothers after infertility. Their stories looked...
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How to Make Friends When You’re Childless After IVF Failed with Guest Melissa Miller
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
If you’ve ever felt like friendships got harder after infertility, you’re not imagining it. When IVF failed and your life didn’t include children, you didn’t just lose the dream of motherhood. You also lost the built-in ways friendships often form. No school drop-offs. No sports schedules. No automatic community. So now you’re left wondering… how do you actually make meaningful friendships as a childless woman? In this episode, you hear a real, honest conversation about what it looks like to create connection when your life doesn’t follow the traditional path. 💛 What You’ll...
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IVF Failed and No One Followed Up? The Study That Could Change Care for Childless Women After Infertility
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
If you went through IVF or fertility treatments and didn’t leave with a baby, you already know this part of the story. The treatments end… and then what? No follow-up. No plan. No one checking in to ask how you’re doing after years of trying. In this episode, you hear the truth that so many women experience but rarely say out loud. When fertility treatment ends without a baby, you are often left to figure out your life on your own. You’ll hear why this gap in care exists, how it impacts women who are childless after infertility, and most importantly, how you now have the opportunity to...
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Us vs. Them: Choosing Your Own Life Path
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
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Rebuilding Your Body After Infertility When IVF Failed (with Holly Perkins)
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
Rebuilding Trust With Your Body After Infertility When IVF Failed (with Holly Perkins) When IVF failed and fertility treatments ended without a baby, you did not just lose a dream. You often lost trust in your body. After years of hormones, medical procedures, weight changes, and emotional whiplash, it can feel almost impossible to want to care for yourself again. Movement can feel loaded. Exercise can feel like punishment. And sometimes the quiet thought underneath it all is: Why should I take care of you? In Episode 200, you are getting a grounded, practical conversation about rebuilding...
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How to Enjoy Being You When You’re Childless After IVF Failed
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
When you’re childless after IVF failed, life can look steady on the outside. You go to work. You answer emails. You show up to events. You keep functioning. But inside, something feels different. You might find yourself thinking, “I don’t know how to enjoy being me anymore.” When fertility treatments end without a baby, people assume the hardest part is over. The injections stop. The appointments end. The constant waiting slows down. But when you’re childless after IVF failed, this is often when the identity questions begin. Who am I now? What does my future look like? How do I build...
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The Grief Plateau After IVF Failed
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
When IVF ends without a baby, life does not always fall apart. Sometimes it goes quiet. You may still be showing up to work, keeping plans, and getting through your days, yet something feels off. You are functioning, but not fully connected to your life. In this episode of The “So Now What?” Podcast, you are introduced to the concept of a grief plateau and why it is so common for women who are childless not by choice after infertility and IVF failed. A grief plateau explains why life can feel paused after fertility treatments end. Not dramatic grief. Not constant sadness. But a flat, stuck...
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Childfree or Childless? You Get to Decide What That Means
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
Childfree or Childless? You Get to Decide What That Means If you don’t have kids, you’ve probably noticed the words childfree and childless everywhere. They show up on social media, in podcasts, in articles, in movies, and in conversations about women’s lives after infertility. And even if no one has ever asked you directly how you identify, you’ve likely felt something when you hear those terms used. Maybe you pause. Maybe you feel tension. Maybe you think, I don’t know how I feel about that. In this episode of The “So Now What?” Podcast, you slow that moment down and look at...
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Post-Traumatic Growth After Infertility
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
What Happens When the Future You Planned Doesn’t Happen When fertility treatments end without a baby, you don’t just grieve the child you hoped for. You grieve the future you were building your life around. In this episode of The So Now What? Podcast, you explore post-traumatic growth after infertility and why it matters for women who are childless not by choice. Not in a toxic-positivity way. Not as a lesson you were supposed to learn. But as a way to understand what happens after years of trying, waiting, and living in a fertility holding pattern. If you’ve ever thought, I’m not the...
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Childless After Infertility and Growing Older: Moving From Fear to Intention
IVF Failed You - The "So Now What?" Podcast
If you’re childless after infertility and growing older feels unsettling, this episode invites you to move from fear to intention and imagine a future that feels grounded and meaningful. Childlessness after infertility and growing older can bring up fears you never expected to carry. When motherhood didn’t happen, aging is often framed as something to brace for rather than something you get to shape. In this episode of The “So Now What?” Podcast, you’re invited to move from fear to intention as you explore what it means to grow older without children, reconnect with your body after...
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