014 - What is The Meaning of The Map is Not The Territory
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
Release Date: 12/16/2017
023 - Reframing in NLP
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
Reframing is a core element of NLP. It's a simple yet powerful process that can mean the difference between you have a stressed and uptight life or one much more enjoyable one. Seriously, it really is that good. And the great news is, you'll already do this in some shape or form.
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022 - Deletions in NLP
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
There are 3 areas that I'll separate out for Deletions. These are Nominalisations, Unspecified verbs and Simple deletions.
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021 - Generalisations in NLP
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
Generally speaking, generalisations are everywhere. Learn this and begin to spot generalisations in NLP.
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020 - Distortions in NLP
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
There are five main distortions in NLP seen in the Meta model.
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019 - What Is the NLP Meta Model
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
The NLP Meta model is a linguistic process that was developed back in the 70s by Richard Bandler and John Grinder. The Meta model gives you a set of questions that allow you to gain some high-quality information. By now, you probably understand that each of us represents the world very differently. We have our own map. The Meta model allows you to question a person's map to discover more detail and more of what is
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018 - NLP Beliefs of Excellence - Part 2
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
This is part 2 of the NLP beliefs of excellence. Here is Part 1
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017 - NLP Beliefs of Excellence - Part 1
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
What and how we believe can dramatically change the way we live our lives. And the great thing about beliefs is we can change them at any time that we choose.
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016 - NLP Nominalisations
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
Nominalisations happen whenever a person describes a process (Verb) as a thing (Noun). Usually, a thing that cannot be picked up. You will hear NLP'ers talk about nominalisations is nouns that you can't put in a wheelbarrow.
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015 - Learning Frames of NLP - And How To Apply Them
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
The is session number 15. This is about learning frames of NLP.
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014 - What is The Meaning of The Map is Not The Territory
NLP In Action - Mike Sweet - 10 Minute Coach - Rapid Practical NLP
This is session number 14 and no doubt if you've delved into NLP you will have heard, "The Map is Not The Territory". With its roots set in 1931 Science & Sanity, this is an essential part of understanding subjectivity. But what is the meaning of the map is not the territory?
info_outlineThis is session number 14 and no doubt if you've delved into NLP you will have heard, "The Map is Not The Territory". With its roots set in 1931 Science & Sanity, this is an essential part of understanding subjectivity. But what is the meaning of the map is not the territory?
But what the hell does it mean and why is this such an important part of NLP?
NLP is the study of excellence and the study of subjective experience. This last piece the study of subjective experience is where the map is not the territory kicks in.
No map regardless of how detailed will ever be a true representation of the actual terrain.
No amount of explanation of a personal experience will ever be the experienced in the same way by another person. A couple on the same holiday for two weeks, who spend every second together from the time they leave home, until the time they get back home. Will have very different interpretations of that holiday. Different memories, different likes and dislikes different experiences.
No movie watched by 2 people will ever be remembered in the same way either. Even the same movie watched again for the same person will lead to a different experience.
No NLP training will ever be experienced the same way by two people on the same course.
So consider the implications when most people respond to abstract communication. I saw an accident on the way to work! Think for a moment what that conjures up for you? Think how you are lead to assume so much information based on your own map.
Car accident, spilt coffee, a person with trousers on the wrong way!
Perhaps you do ask "What kind of accident?" and it turns out to be a car accident. But that's only that persons map and experience and not what happened.
Their map told them it was a car accident which they then related to you as a car accident. However, it could have been infinitely different from another persons map or reality!
- Stunt driver in town on set filming
- Broken down car
- Previously damaged car just parked funny
- and on.....
When you appreciate we all have our own maps you can begin to explore a person map in more details and begin to discover more.
Think about this in terms of disagreements, fights, and wars. These usually come from a misunderstanding of intention. A failure to recognize all factors, all opinions, and from relying on their maps of reality. When 2 maps don't align tension raises.
How many times have you heard people say, "Well, why didn't you just say so" in that moment when 2 realise they were on about the same thing!