Pleasure, Power & Birth: Vibrators As A Tool For Pain Relief, Ease, and Oxytocin Enhancement with Molly Moon
Release Date: 05/14/2025
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Ep 149 Description:
“The way to start to feel comfortable with it in birth is to become comfortable with the vibrator before your birth.” —Molly Moon
For too long, vibrators have been shrouded in shame and stigma, viewed solely as sexual devices. But the truth is, these powerful tools have the potential to transform the birthing experience.
Molly Moon is a yoga teacher, doula, and sacred songstress who brings the timeless wisdom of the feminine into her work. Her passion for guiding spiritual awakening has been reignited by the birth of her own child, inspiring her to explore nature-based education
Tune in as Debra and Molly share how self-pleasure can be used as a powerful pain management tool, how it helps increase oxytocin—the essential hormone of labor, and how we can normalize vibrators as a shame-free support tool for birth preparation and beyond.
Connect with Debra!
Website: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orgasmicbirth
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YouTube https://www.youtube.com/c/OrgasmicBirth1
Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@orgasmicbirth
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/debra-pascali-bonaro-1093471
Episode Highlights:
02:43 Meet Molly: Incorporating Pleasure Into Birth
09:39 Molly’s Birth Experience
14:14 Vibrator for Pain Management
21:28 Addressing Shame and Normalizing Vibrators
23:26 Postpartum Benefits of Vibrators
27:39 Tips for Birth Prep
Resources:
💗 Pleasure VIBE: the first ever vibrator for birth.
Meet the FIN PleasureVibe, a wearable finger vibrator that can be used in pregnancy, labor, birth, and postpartum for pleasure, oxytocin enhancement, pain reduction, and healing. Check out our new tool for birth and beyond: https://www.orgasmicbirth.com/fin-pleasurevibe/
About Molly:
Molly Moon is a yoga teacher, doula, and sacred songstress who brings elements of the forest and the wild, mysterious feminine into her music and life. She has been living the practice of yoga for over 20 years, and her passion for guiding the wild awakening spirit is now being re-inspired by her toddler as she works on studies in Forest and Nature School Leadership. Molly is also an Emotional Intuitive, offering Heart Readings for Spiritual healing and growth.
Website: https://www.medicinewomanyoga.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/medicinewomanyoga/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/molly.moon111
Listen to Molly: https://soundcloud.com/spirit-woman-molly-moon/tracks