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The Pleasure Practice: Rekindling Desire After Baby with Dr. Diane Mueller - Ep. 173

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Release Date: 01/19/2026

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In this episode of the Orgasmic Birth Podcast, Debra Pascali-Bonaro sits down with Dr. Diane Mueller—board-certified sexologist, naturopathic doctor, acupuncturist, and host of The Libido Lounge—to explore how pleasure can become your most powerful mindfulness practice and a lifeline for intimacy after baby. Dr. Diane shares how slowing down, savoring sensation, and weaving pleasure into everyday moments can reset stress hormones, support mental health, and rebuild connection in long-term relationships.

Together, Debra and Dr. Diane unpack why passion often fades over time (and especially postpartum), how “new relationship energy” and dopamine work, and why many women need arousal before desire—not the other way around. You’ll learn what “libido codes” are, how mismatched turn-on styles can lead to feeling rejected, and how to use simple, doable practices—like five-minute sensual check-ins—to bring back warmth, curiosity, and sexual vitality, even when you’re exhausted.

If you’re ready to move beyond obligation and “just getting through it” and instead cultivate presence, pleasure, and playful intimacy in this season of life, this conversation is for you.


In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why pleasure is a powerful (and fun) form of mindfulness that helps reset stress, support hormones, and bring you back into your body.

  • How new relationship energy, novelty, and dopamine shape long-term desire—and ways to reawaken that spark without sacrificing stability.

  • What libido codes are, why partners often miss each other’s turn-on cues, and how to begin decoding your own.

  • Why many women experience arousal before desire and how this changes the way we approach sex after birth.

  • Gentle, realistic practices for postpartum couples: sensual touch, micro-doses of pleasure, and scheduled “pleasure dates” that feel nourishing, not pressured.


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