745 | Closing the Door Behind Your Emotions with Jared Scott
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
Release Date: 08/22/2024
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
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info_outlineIn this episode, we speak with Entrepreneur, Keynote Speaker and Mental Health Motivator Jared Scott. Jared’s motivational movement, which began at the age of 15, marked the Welcome to today's episode, where we dive deep into the powerful and inspiring story of Jared, a public speaker, counselor, husband, father, and musician. Jared's journey began at age 15 when a tragic event shook his world and made him realize the importance of vulnerability and connection.
Jared shares how the loss of his best friend's girlfriend to suicide opened his eyes to the hidden struggles that people face behind their smiles. He reflects on his own experiences growing up in a split-parent home and feeling isolated in his emotions despite being surrounded by others. This realization sparked a sense of urgency in Jared to make a difference and help others who are silently suffering.
Through his work as a public speaker, Jared has spoken at over a thousand schools, empowering students to find their voice and create positive change in their communities. He emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, authenticity, and connection in overcoming challenges and building a supportive community.
Jared's approach to addressing mental health and emotional well-being in schools involves helping students identify and process their negative emotions, challenge their limiting beliefs, and embrace their true identities. By creating a safe space for students to express themselves and share their struggles, Jared encourages them to break free from the cycle of pretending to be someone they're not and find strength in their uniqueness.
HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:00 - Introduction and Background: Jared shares his background and the motivation behind his work.
00:05:30 - Importance of Vulnerability: Jared discusses the importance of vulnerability in his work with students.
00:09:40 - Impact of Regret: Jared emphasizes the importance of avoiding regret and the significance of taking responsibility.
00:15:08 - Power of Forgiveness: The discussion shifts to the power of forgiveness and its impact on mental health.
00:22:01 - Addressing Negative Emotions: Jared explains the process of identifying and addressing negative emotions in students.
00:26:39 - Suicidal Thoughts and Self-Identity: Jared delves into the topic of suicidal thoughts and self-identity in adolescents.
00:32:40 - Embracing Differences: The conversation explores the concept of embracing individuality and supporting one another in a community setting.
[00:38:05] - Personal Tragedy and Inspiration: Jared reflects on a personal tragedy that inspired his journey to help others.
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Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster
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