PPP 435 | The Power of Gracious Assertiveness, with Yasmin Davidds
People and Projects Podcast: Project Management Podcast
Release Date: 09/10/2024
PPP 459 | Redefining Success: Why IQ Might Not Matter as Much as You Think, with Adrian Kelly
People and Projects Podcast: Project Management Podcast
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People and Projects Podcast: Project Management Podcast
Summary In this episode, Andy welcomes Elizabeth Lotardo, author of . Drawing on insights from her book, Elizabeth shares a practical and empowering framework for navigating the everyday challenges that can drain energy and joy from our work lives--things like imperfect bosses, lethargic coworkers, and overwhelming workloads. The conversation explores how we often start a role with excitement, only to find ourselves disengaged over time--and what we can do about it. You’ll learn the key differences between purpose and passion, how to counteract unhelpful workplace narratives, and what it...
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PPP 456 | Navigating Ambiguity with Confidence, with Kevin Eikenberry
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People and Projects Podcast: Project Management Podcast
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PPP 450 | Why Most Leaders Fail—And How to Avoid Their Mistakes, with Mark Miller
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In this episode, Andy interviews Dr. Yasmin Davidds about her book Graciously Assertive: How Becoming a Better Human Makes You a Better Leader. They discuss the importance of assertiveness in leadership, particularly in multicultural environments, and the need for leaders to benefit from diverse perspectives and promote a sense of belonging. Dr. Davidds shares insights on what she calls gracious assertiveness, including her personal journey and the pillars of gracious assertive leadership. She also addresses common themes in diversity and inclusion, the concept of holding space, and the impact of these ideas on both professional and personal relationships.
In a world where diversity and inclusion have been politicized and often seem primarily about the numbers, this discussion makes it all much more practical. You will learn practical strategies for becoming more assertive and creating inclusive environments.
Sound Bites
- "Graciously assertive is the ability to self-advocate, to communicate in a way that holds space for the other side, that allows everyone in the conversation to feel heard."
- "If we can be gracious and be more accepting and receptive to other people's messages without taking it personal, we would have a much better workplace."
- "We just show up different. We don’t need our armor here."
- "Establishing healthy boundaries is important for individuals to prioritize their energy and create a space where they can be their best selves."
- "Self-judgment is a reflection of when you judge other people."
Chapters
- 00:00 Introduction
- 02:26 Start Of Interview
- 02:37 How A Crisis Counselor Saved Yasmin's Life
- 04:54 Understanding Gracious Assertiveness
- 08:20 The Pillars Of Gracious Assertive Leadership
- 10:47 Self-Compassion And Overcoming Self-Judgment
- 12:40 Overcoming Self-Doubt
- 15:07 The Importance Of Healthy Boundaries
- 18:22 Graciously Assertive Communication Model
- 23:18 Negotiation Strategies With Difficult People
- 24:03 DEI Mistakes
- 29:33 Understanding And Implementing 'Holding Space'
- 33:20 Developing Graciously Assertive Children At Home
- 35:46 End Of Interview
- 36:06 Andy's Comments After The Interview
- 40:29 Outtakes
Learn More
You can learn more about Dr. Davidds and her book at DrYasminInstitute.com/dr-yasmin-davidds/.
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Talent Triangle: Power Skills
Topics: Assertiveness, Diversity, Inclusion, Leadership, Self-awareness, Curiosity, Empathy, Project Management, Cross-Culture
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Music: Summer Morning Full Version by MusicLFiles
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Music: Synthiemania by Frank Schroeter
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