Why Comedy Might Be the Best Medicine For Mental Health
Release Date: 08/16/2026
Why Comedy Might Be the Best Medicine For Mental Health
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info_outlineFirst aired August 16, 2026
For over a decade, Dave Mowry couldn't get out of bed, couldn't shower, and couldn't walk to his own mailbox without waiting until dark so a neighbor wouldn't catch the look in his eyes. In 1994, a psychotic break sent the successful businessman and family man into a depression so deep it cost him his house, his career, and 14 years he calls his "lost years." He slept in his clothes for months at a time. At parties, he'd stand against the wall and pray no one came over to talk to him.
Then, at his wife's urging, he walked into a stand-up comedy class for people living with mental illness, and by the second session, something shifted: he started looking for the joke inside the pain. Dave is now a bestselling author, a blogger with over a million reads, a peer support specialist, and, in his own words, "a comic who shatters stigma one joke at a time."
We get into what clinical depression actually feels like from the inside, why his wife is the true hero of his story, how a ten-week comedy class became group therapy in disguise, the gentle suicide joke that helped save a young man's life, and why people in the mental health field need to stop trying to "protect" the very people they're meant to be supporting.
In this episode
- Why a 1994 psychotic break sent a successful businessman into 14 "lost years" of homelessness and depression
- What clinical depression actually feels like: the showers he couldn't take, the mailbox trips timed for after dark, and the panic attacks that came out of nowhere
- Why "just do something small," like sitting in a different chair, was enough to keep Dave from getting stuck in hopelessness
- What family members need to understand about mental illness, and how Dave's wife became "the hero of his story"
- How a NAMI stand-up comedy class turned Dave's pain into laugh-out-loud jokes, and eventually a sold-out show at Helium Comedy Club
- Dave's gentle suicide joke, why it works, and the night it helped save a young man's life
- Why people in the helping professions need to stop trying to "save" people with mental illness and start supporting them instead
Timestamps
- (00:01) Welcome and guest intro: meet comic and mental health advocate Dave Mowry
- (01:16) The 1994 psychotic break, and the 14 "lost years" that followed
- (03:56) What clinical depression actually feels like: showers, blending into the wall, panic attacks
- (07:10) The exhausting weight of "just getting out of bed"
- (08:41) Don't get stuck: the small, deliberate choices that kept hope alive
- (10:15) What family members need to understand: it's not a moral failing
- (11:26) Dave's wife, the true hero of his story
- (14:34) Finding NAMI's stand-up comedy class, and the moment humor clicked
- (17:59) Selling out Helium Comedy Club, and becoming "a thing"
- (19:51) Blogging, "OMG, that's me," and shattering stigma one joke at a time
- (25:32) Teaching comedy: the setup, the punchline, and getting students to open up
- (26:10) Dave's gentle suicide joke, and the night it helped save a life
- (32:42) Boundaries, mania, and giving himself permission to say no
- (37:25) Where to find Dave, his books, and how to reach him
About Dave Mowry
Dave Mowry is a bestselling author, blogger, and stand-up comic who shatters stigma one joke at a time. After a 1994 psychotic break led to 14 "lost years" of severe depression, homelessness, and hospitalization, Dave found his way back through NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) and a stand-up comedy class for people living with mental illness. He went on to sell out Portland's Helium Comedy Club, teach comedy classes to people living with mental illness, and become a peer support specialist. He's the author of OMG, That's Me! and Healing with Humor, and his blog for bphope.com has been read over a million times.
Learn more and get in touch at Dave's website, or reach him directly at davemowry2@gmail.com.
Favorite quotes
"It's not a moral failing. It's a medical condition." —Dave Mowry
"Afterwards, I called my wife for help. She said, 'There are more pills under the sink.'" —Dave Mowry, on the gentle suicide joke that's helped save lives
"We don't need to be saved. Support us and all that, but don't try to save us. We don't need it." —Dave Mowry
Resources mentioned
- Dave's website: home to his books and a contact form
- OMG, That's Me!: Dave's bestselling book on what it's really like to live with a mental illness, available on Amazon and Kindle
- Healing with Humor: Dave's newest book, telling the story of six comedy-class students and their transformation
- NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness): the organization that connected Dave to the comedy class that changed his life
- Helium Comedy Club (Portland): where Dave's class sold out a 185-seat show
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