Ep. 209 - Money Matters: How to Stop Financial Fights and Strengthen Your Marriage with Deb Meyer
Thriving in Tandem: The podcast for married entrepreneurs
Release Date: 04/08/2025
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info_outlineWhy Money Arguments Are Tearing Marriages Apart—and How to Stop Them
Money is one of the top sources of conflict in marriage. From debates over spending and saving to disagreements about investing and earning, financial differences can strain even the strongest relationships. These disputes are often at the root of divorce or emotional disconnection.
Why do couples struggle so much with money conversations, and how can they work together to find common ground?
This week, we’re joined by Deb Meyer, a Certified Financial Planner and founder of WorthyNest®, a wealth management firm specializing in family-focused financial planning. Deb shares the most common reasons couples clash over money and offers practical strategies to help you and your spouse align your financial goals, reduce conflict, and build a stronger partnership.
Don’t let money arguments define your marriage—tune in to learn how to turn these tough conversations into opportunities for growth and connection.
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Key Takeaways:
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It's important to frame financial discussions in a fun way.
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Creative budgeting can enhance the spending experience.
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Memories created as a family are more valuable than gifts.
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Regular conversations about money can reduce tension in relationships.
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Budgeting is just one aspect of a comprehensive financial plan.
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Couples can forge a new financial future together.
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Faith can guide financial decision-making.
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Experiences often provide more satisfaction than material possessions.
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Engaging children in financial discussions can be beneficial.
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Regular check-ins on financial goals are essential for progress.
Deb Meyer, CFP®, CPA, and CEPA, is the award-winning author of Redefining Family Wealth, host of the Beyond Budgets® podcast (we were on Episode 19), and founder of WorthyNest®, a fee-only, fiduciary wealth management firm that guides parents through important financial decisions using a values-based approach.
Deb has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, and CNN Business and is a contributor to Kiplinger. She is a 2019 CPA Practice Advisor “40 Under 40 Honoree” in Accounting and received the 2018 AICPA Standing Ovation Award. Deb lives in Missouri with her husband Bryan and three sons.
Want to live a better balanced life and win in marriage AND business at the same time? Purchase our (audio) book Tandem: The married entrepreneurs’ guide for greater work-life balance. https://www.thetandembook.com/
Need to create more time to dedicate to your marriage? Download this free guide. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/boundaries
Need some insight into how to balance it all? Schedule a free discovery call. https://marriedentrepreneur.co/lets-talk