QSE Listener Questions 6 - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 60
Release Date: 11/16/2019
Queer Sex Ed Podcast
This is a live workshop with Sara from the Southwest Love Fest conference in Phoenix, AZ. Discussions include finding overlapping desires, consent as a practice instead of a one-time agreement, safe words, and pain calibration (with a live demo). Follow along with the slides at and please share this with anyone who needs this information! Welcome back to QSE, everyone. I've missed you.
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A message from Sara about what to expect for the QSE relaunch and teasing upcoming content in the feed! This is different from the previous reintroduction episode from January for reasons that I discuss in the show. Welcome back to QSE!
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Sara and Jay finish our discussion of justice-centered sex ed! We discuss moral panics and provide structure, guidance, and questions to ask yourself if you're doing sex ed.
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This week, Sara and Jay talk about the difference between doing trans-inclusive sex ed and building sex ed based on a justice framework. Also inclusion, virginity, life-long sex ed, and reproductive justice.
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Join Jay and Sara as we explore the innies and outies of genital torture play. We'll talk about pain tolerance, dysphoria, safety tips, and give examples of play you might never have thought about!
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Sara and Jay jump into the first topic discussion of Season 2, how to navigate sex and dysphoria as a trans person! We discuss strategies, validate the struggles, and give some tips from our experience.
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Season 2 kicks off with a question episode catching up on your emails to us over the break! We discuss endometriosis, herpes transmission, identity-based humiliation play, and more! We are so excited to be back in your podcast feed. Transcript: https://otter.ai/s/p3FKnWmQTyS8jynNBQ_Mvw
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Jay and Sara talk about the changes people can expect on testosterone or estrogen, progesterone, and spiro as hormone replacement therapy (HRT). Also discussed: muffing
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Jay and Sara answer more questions from you, the listeners! Questions include bondage for disabled folks, lower sex drive on SSRIs, period sex, coming out to a partner, and Fetlife tips. Also discussed: new HHS regulations that discriminate against LGBTQ people.
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Sara and Jay spend this week's episode discussing the legal and political movement to outlaw abortion in the United States, including the propaganda strategy of CPCs, the history of US abortion law, the current state of abortion rights, and how you can help protect abortion access in your area.
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Transcript: https://otter.ai/s/p3FKnWmQTyS8jynNBQ_Mvw
Segments:
2:35 - Season 2 changes to QSE
6:18 - Endometriosis and Testosterone HRT
20:11 - Identity-based Humiliation Play and Slurs
32:26 - Patreon Message
36:32 - Oral Herpes Transmission and Communicating Boundaries
53:21 - STI Risk with New Tongue Piercing
1:05:53 - Wrap Up
1:09:51 - Bonus! An Anti-Fascist Rant
Show notes:
[Last Week Tonight, Bias in Medicine]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TATSAHJKRd8
https://www.history.com/news/chamberlain-kahn-act-std-venereal-disease-imprisonment-women
https://www.akpress.org/pleasure-activism.html
Editors note: I accidentally left the same small clip of audio in the show at the end twice. I don't know how it happened, but I can't redo it without redoing the entire time-coded transcript so I'm leaving it in. I'll try and be more careful in the future.