Trans Justice and Sex Ed - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 63
Release Date: 01/20/2020
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This episode Sara talks with Aura (she/her), Star (she/it), and Deluge (any pronoun) from Effigy Films about how they got started camming and making trans-only porn, get a dom who'll tell you to take your daily meds, what it means to be a non-binary lesbian, and what scenes would they want to film with an infinite budget. Find more about Effigy at and follow Deluge, Aura, and Star on Fansly, BlueSky, and Instagram. You can watch them on Chaturbate every weekday, connect on Stripchat, and buy their individual videos across the net. Queer Sex Ed is a sex education project by and for trans...
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Trans Justice and Sex Ed - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 63
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This week, Sara and Jay talk about the difference between doing trans-inclusive sex ed and building sex ed based on a justice framework. Also inclusion, virginity, life-long sex ed, and reproductive justice.
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Season 2 kicks off with a question episode catching up on your emails to us over the break! We discuss endometriosis, herpes transmission, identity-based humiliation play, and more! We are so excited to be back in your podcast feed. Transcript: https://otter.ai/s/p3FKnWmQTyS8jynNBQ_Mvw
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QSE Listener Questions 5 - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 58
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Jay and Sara answer more questions from you, the listeners! Questions include bondage for disabled folks, lower sex drive on SSRIs, period sex, coming out to a partner, and Fetlife tips. Also discussed: new HHS regulations that discriminate against LGBTQ people.
info_outlineThis week, Sara and Jay talk about the difference between "trans-inclusive" sex ed and building sex ed based on a justice framework more broadly. Also discussed, inclusion, virginity, life-long sex ed, and reproductive justice.
Transcript: https://otter.ai/s/yxW1Eq_tTeefHcc5G02ZVg
Segments:
1:30 - Intro
3:22 - Accountability Corner
17:57 - Word of the Show: Inclusion
25:00 - "The Language of Appeasement" Article Discussion
35:09 - Patreon Message
36:40 - Main Topic Intro
41:41 - What's Wrong With Sex Ed?
54:12 - Why Make Sex Ed Better?
1:04:59 - Being Justice-Centered
1:15:03 - Risk Aware Sex Ed
1:28:00 - Sex Education isn't a Biology Class
Show notes:
www.them.us/story/sex-with-acrylics-is-safe
www.insidehighered.com/views/2017/03/30/colleges-need-language-shift-not-one-you-think-essay
www.zora.medium.com/when-black-women-go-from-office-pet-to-office-threat-83bde710332e
www.queersexed.org/archive/2018/2/5/sharing-your-desires-queer-sex-ed-podcast-episode-11
www.medium.com/@QSE/the-xx-xy-lie-our-social-construction-of-a-sex-and-gender-binary-4eed1e60e615
www.coloradoindependent.com/2019/05/23/colorado-laws-sex-ed-consent/
Audre Lorde Reads Uses of the Erotic: www.youtube.com/watch?v=xFHwg6aNKy0 (CW: cissexism, anti-pornography) Text version: https://uk.sagepub.com/sites/default/files/upm-binaries/11881_Chapter_5.pdf
www.akpress.org/pleasure-activism.html
www.medium.com/@JessieRaeFisher/on-neopronouns-eec46705c5dc
www.nonbinary.miraheze.org/wiki/English_neutral_pronouns
www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/10/01/guatemala.syphilis.tuskegee/index.html