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Trans Justice and Sex Ed - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 63

Queer Sex Ed Podcast

Release Date: 01/20/2020

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Transcript: https://otter.ai/s/yxW1Eq_tTeefHcc5G02ZVg

Segments:
1:30 - Intro
3:22 - Accountability Corner
17:57 - Word of the Show: Inclusion
25:00 - "The Language of Appeasement" Article Discussion
35:09 - Patreon Message
36:40 - Main Topic Intro
41:41 - What's Wrong With Sex Ed?
54:12 - Why Make Sex Ed Better?
1:04:59 - Being Justice-Centered 
1:15:03 - Risk Aware Sex Ed
1:28:00 - Sex Education isn't a Biology Class

Show notes:

www.them.us/story/sex-with-acrylics-is-safe

www.twitter.com/DrDLStewart 

www.insidehighered.com/views/2017/03/30/colleges-need-language-shift-not-one-you-think-essay

www.zora.medium.com/when-black-women-go-from-office-pet-to-office-threat-83bde710332e

www.queersexed.org/archive/2018/4/20/reproductive-justice-and-family-building-queer-sex-ed-podcast-episode-21

www.queersexed.org/archive/2018/1/18/identifying-desire-asexuality-and-aromanticism-queer-sex-ed-podcast-episode-9

www.queersexed.org/archive/2018/2/5/sharing-your-desires-queer-sex-ed-podcast-episode-11

www.queersexed.org/archive/2019/4/21/biological-sex-and-expanding-the-trans-medical-model-queer-sex-ed-podcast-episode-53

www.medium.com/@QSE/the-xx-xy-lie-our-social-construction-of-a-sex-and-gender-binary-4eed1e60e615

www.coloradoindependent.com/2019/05/23/colorado-laws-sex-ed-consent/

Audre Lorde Reads Uses of the Erotic: www.youtube.com/watch?v=xFHwg6aNKy0 (CW: cissexism, anti-pornography) Text version: https://uk.sagepub.com/sites/default/files/upm-binaries/11881_Chapter_5.pdf

www.akpress.org/pleasure-activism.html

www.medium.com/@JessieRaeFisher/on-neopronouns-eec46705c5dc

www.nonbinary.miraheze.org/wiki/English_neutral_pronouns

www.cnn.com/2010/HEALTH/10/01/guatemala.syphilis.tuskegee/index.html

www.siecus.org/sex-ed-is-a-vehicle-for-racial-justice/