Genital Torture and Trans Bodies - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 62
Release Date: 01/12/2020
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This is a live workshop with Sara from the Southwest Love Fest conference in Phoenix, AZ. Discussions include finding overlapping desires, consent as a practice instead of a one-time agreement, safe words, and pain calibration (with a live demo). Follow along with the slides at and please share this with anyone who needs this information! Welcome back to QSE, everyone. I've missed you.
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Happy 8th Birthday to QSE!
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A message from Sara about what to expect for the QSE relaunch and teasing upcoming content in the feed! This is different from the previous reintroduction episode from January for reasons that I discuss in the show. Welcome back to QSE!
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Building Trans Justice Into Sex Ed - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 64
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Sara and Jay finish our discussion of justice-centered sex ed! We discuss moral panics and provide structure, guidance, and questions to ask yourself if you're doing sex ed.
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Trans Justice and Sex Ed - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 63
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This week, Sara and Jay talk about the difference between doing trans-inclusive sex ed and building sex ed based on a justice framework. Also inclusion, virginity, life-long sex ed, and reproductive justice.
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Genital Torture and Trans Bodies - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 62
Queer Sex Ed Podcast
Join Jay and Sara as we explore the innies and outies of genital torture play. We'll talk about pain tolerance, dysphoria, safety tips, and give examples of play you might never have thought about!
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Dysphoria and Sex as a Trans Person - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 61
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Sara and Jay jump into the first topic discussion of Season 2, how to navigate sex and dysphoria as a trans person! We discuss strategies, validate the struggles, and give some tips from our experience.
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QSE Listener Questions 6 - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 60
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Season 2 kicks off with a question episode catching up on your emails to us over the break! We discuss endometriosis, herpes transmission, identity-based humiliation play, and more! We are so excited to be back in your podcast feed. Transcript: https://otter.ai/s/p3FKnWmQTyS8jynNBQ_Mvw
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Body Changes on Hormones - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 59
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Jay and Sara talk about the changes people can expect on testosterone or estrogen, progesterone, and spiro as hormone replacement therapy (HRT). Also discussed: muffing
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QSE Listener Questions 5 - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 58
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Jay and Sara answer more questions from you, the listeners! Questions include bondage for disabled folks, lower sex drive on SSRIs, period sex, coming out to a partner, and Fetlife tips. Also discussed: new HHS regulations that discriminate against LGBTQ people.
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Abortion Laws and Crisis Pregnancy Centers (CPCs) - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 57
Queer Sex Ed Podcast
Sara and Jay spend this week's episode discussing the legal and political movement to outlaw abortion in the United States, including the propaganda strategy of CPCs, the history of US abortion law, the current state of abortion rights, and how you can help protect abortion access in your area.
info_outlineJoin Jay and Sara as we explore the innies and outies of genital torture play (sometimes called CBT). We'll talk about pain tolerance, dysphoria, safety tips, and give examples of genital torture play you might never have thought about before!
Transcript: https://otter.ai/s/Bjuvrzx9T2mvJ37L3CWrAQ
Segments:
1:30 - Intro
7:21 - Word of the Show: Pain Tolerance
14:40 - How Do You Find Your Pain Tolerance?
22:40 - Patreon Message
25:57 - What is Genital Torture Play?
29:48 - Why Not Just Use "CBT"?
33:23 - Types of GT Play
52:42 - Trans-Specific Tips for GT
1:10:28 - Harm Reduction Safety Tips
1:23:04 - Negotiating GT
Show notes:
https://www.npr.org/2019/01/31/690363402/how-the-cia-overthrew-irans-democracy-in-four-days
https://www.teenvogue.com/story/anal-sex-what-you-need-to-know
https://theprincessfantasy.com/blogs/news/figging-101-from-ancient-punishment-to-modern-pleasure
https://sextoycollective.com/best-sex-machines/sybian-saddle/