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The Importance of Visibility An Interview with Chris Tompkins

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Release Date: 12/08/2024

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In this interview, author, advocate, and therapist Chris Tompkins shares his personal journey of self-discovery as a gay man raised in a religious environment. He discusses the challenges of reconciling his identity with his faith, the impact of religious trauma, and the importance of awareness in parenting to support LGBTQ+ children. Chris talks about why he wrote his book, “Raising LGBTQ Allies,” and emphasizes the need for open conversations and practical strategies for parents to create a supportive environment for their kids, ultimately leading to a more inclusive society.

 

Takeaways

  • Chris was raised in a religious family with conflicting beliefs.

  • He experienced religious trauma and internalized homophobia.

  • His coming out journey was deeply intertwined with love and acceptance.

  • Chris emphasizes the importance of awareness in parenting.

  • Parents can inadvertently perpetuate fear-based associations.

  • Books and open conversations can help educate children.

  • Creating safe spaces for discussions is crucial.

  • Understanding societal messages is key to supporting LGBTQ+ kids.

  • Chris's book aims to help parents change harmful narratives.

  • Healing from religious trauma is a journey that requires introspection.

 

Chapters

(02:40) Chris's Journey of Self-Discovery

(10:13) Reconnecting with Faith and Spirituality

(16:32) Understanding Religious Trauma

(22:30) The Importance of Awareness in Parenting

(27:54) Supporting LGBTQ+ Kids: Practical Strategies

(35:00) Conclusion and Resources



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