117 Interview with Cindy Bidar: Finding Success With A Role Model Archetype
Release Date: 09/21/2023
Strategic Storytelling
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Have you ever faced a blank page, saying to yourself, “I know I need a story…a good story…for business. But I keep drawing a blank.” And most of the story prompts—those questions beginning “Tell me a story about” are not designed for business. They’re designed to get your personal stories. So you get prompts like, “What was your proudest moment…” which rarely helps your business. As I’ve said many times, a business story serves a purpose. It doesn’t just amuse and entertain. It supports your strategy…which is rarely about helping you feel good about yourself....
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Angela Wills created her Life Style Freedom business by making connections. She believed business doesn’t dictate your lifestyle: your lifestyle creates your business. “I’m really passionate about helping business owners find a business model that supports their lifestyle.” - Angela Willis Angela is a very down-to-earth business owner who’s built her business by understanding her clients. She understands the juggling act of being a parent and a business owner. “That is a skill," she says. "To me, it comes naturally now…the ability to connect with telling...
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Solopreneurs often get advised to show their real selves--to come out from behind the website and reveal who they really are. And one way to do this is to tell stories. What's wrong with this advice? First of all, "Just tell a story" means, "Curate a good story portfolio." A story may represent your self...but you have many selves. The first part of this podcast talks about this point. Which self is the Real You? At about 5.0, you'll get 3 tips to share authentic stories: 1 - know what "be yourself" really means 2 - why "I understand where you're coming from" can mean "I'm clueless" (and what...
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When you tell stories, do you ever think, "That's all well and good for life coaches with personal stories. But I'm a technical person who wants to help people discover new ways of thinking about their actions. Talking about finance seems to call for discussions of numbers, trends and charts with percentages in three colors. Jacquette Timmons brings a different perspective. She's a financial behaviorist, someone who helps people deal with issues related to money, income and investments. Money reflects what's going on in people's personal lives. If you want to understand money conflicts, you...
info_outlineThere's a lot of confusion about branding for small businesses and solopreneurs. Your brand influences the stories you tell, the promises you make, and even the advice you give your clients.
Cindy Bidar has achieved considerable success in a relatively short time frame. Her brand builds on her story archetype - the Role Model.
Cindy didn't set out to brand with this archetype. Very few people even know this framework exists!
But, like many successful businesses, her marketing consistently reflects this archetype. She shares personal stories to support her promise, "If I can do it, you can do it." Her decision to start her business was based on this principle.
You'll enjoy Cindy's warm, down-to-earth style as we dig into her storytelling decisions and reveal how she uses stories to build her marketing success.
Some highlights from the episode:
9:23 - how Cindy decides what to share and what to hold back on
11:48. “That’s my sweet spot!"
13:20 - Ask this question when you’re having trouble coming up with ideas for emailing your list (I've never heard this one before)
14:40 - "Best way to write interesting content? Do interesting things.”
15:30 - Using Julia Cameron’s “artist date” to refill the well
17:15 Deciding what to discuss and not discuss (the key is business alignment)
18:30 - Common story mistakes in email marketing (based on bad advice)
20:20 - What Cindy teaches that's completely in sync with the role model archetype
21:30 - The heart of Cindy’s message about success…”If I could share just one thing…”
24:30 - When Cindy just got started: what was her guiding principle
30:00 - You don't want to hear, "That's not what I signed up for."
32:00 - The Big Takeaway
Website: CindyBidar.com
Cindy's Membership Site (I'm a member)
Learn about story archetypes here on this page.
Julia Cameron - The Artist’s Way
Dorie Clark - Entrepreneurial You
Dorie Clark - The Long Game
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