ChatGPT and Divorce: 4 AI Traps That Could Hurt Your Case
Release Date: 08/13/2025
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🗣️ Have used ChatGPT or AI tools to write legal documents
📱 Are wondering if your chat history could be used in court
🧾 Need help drafting or planning divorce paperwork
🤯 Feel overwhelmed and are tempted to “just ask ChatGPT”
⚖️ Want to avoid serious legal mistakes caused by bad AI info
🧠 Are using AI to organize your thoughts, but unsure where the line is
More and more people are turning to AI tools like ChatGPT during their separation or divorce — but is it helping… or hurting your case?
In this episode, we explore the four major risks of using AI in your divorce process and show you how to use it safely (if at all). From the scary reality that your chats can be subpoenaed, to the truth about AI “hallucinations” in affidavits, we break it all down so you don’t get caught off guard.
We also share ways you can use AI smartly — for planning, organizing thoughts, or building checklists — but why you still need legal and emotional support from real people.
📌 Legal Disclaimer: This is general information only and not legal advice. Always consult a lawyer for your personal situation.
⏱️ Episode Timeline – What We Cover:
[00:00] – Can You Use AI in Divorce? An Introduction to ChatGPT and Legal Tech
[00:48] – Important Legal Disclaimer: Why AI tools can’t replace professional legal advice
[01:29] – What Are AI Tools Like ChatGPT? Overview of how people use AI in divorce
[02:41] – Should You Use AI to Draft Consent Orders? Key risks and considerations
[05:47] – Can ChatGPT Write My Affidavit? The dangers of AI-generated court documents
[08:14] – Why ChatGPT Isn’t a Lawyer: Understanding the limitations of AI in family law
[12:23] – Is AI Just Telling You What You Want to Hear? How emotional bias can show up
[15:35] – Can AI Be Used as Evidence in Court? Legal risks of relying on chat transcripts
[20:53] – Upcoming Webinar Announcement: Learn more about using tech in legal separation
[23:26] – Are Judges Ready for AI in Family Law? How courts are adapting to tech tools
[24:07] – What Evidence Will the Court Accept? Tips on using tech tools wisely
[24:25] – How Legal Communication Has Evolved: From letters to chat logs
[25:25] – Key AI Risks to Watch for in Divorce Cases: What the law doesn’t forgive
[27:01] – How to Use AI Safely: Smart ways to organise your thoughts and prep for court
[29:23] – Real Cautionary Tales: What can go wrong when AI replaces your legal team
[33:31] – Final Tips and Takeaways: When AI is helpful—and when it’s risky
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📌 Links & Resources Mentioned:
📞 1800 RESPECT – National Family Violence Support
📞 Lifeline: 13 11 14 – 24/7 Emotional Support
🆘 Emergency & Support Contacts:
💜 Women’s Shelter: 1800 811 811
📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis): 13 11 14
👨👧 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978
👧 Kids Helpline: 1800 551 800
🚨 DV Hotline: 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732)
📌 Legal Disclaimer: This is a general discussion and not legal advice. Please see a qualified lawyer for advice specific to your situation.