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Ep 10: Why We Apologize Too Much and How to Stop

Business Baddies Podcast

Release Date: 04/20/2021

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Do you find yourself over-apologizing, sometimes for things that aren’t even your fault? Other than habit, there may be deeper reasons for why you do that… In this episode of Glow Up Season, I highlight the reasons why people over-apologize, how to stop over-apologizing, and how saying sorry too much affects us as women. I share some alternative ways to say, “I’m sorry,” along with a fun challenge you can participate in that will help you implement this into your life.

“By apologizing, we try to avoid conflict, we try to stop the conflict before it even starts. We apologize so no one gets offended or so that no one gets mad at us. Phew! The tea is scorching today, my sistas!”

The need to please people, low self-esteem, perfectionism, a trauma response, or feeling responsible for other people’s mistakes might all be reasons why you say sorry too much. Saying sorry might seem like it’s polite, but it’s actually hurting you and making you appear smaller and more timid that you really are.

Are you tired of apologizing for everything? 

Do not apologize for your feelings. Do not apologize for taking time for yourself. Do not apologize for being your true, authentic self. Do not apologize for leveling up, growing, and GLOWING UP!

Share this episode and challenge your loved ones to stop this habit of over-apologizing! Start TOMORROW. Doing it together will have an even more powerful, healing effect on your life.

In This Episode You Will Learn:

How over-apologizing comes off and how it impacts us as women (6:18)

A tip for easing the anxiety that comes with apologizing too much (16:12)

What you should and shouldn’t apologize for (27:12)

Alternative ways to say “I’m sorry” (30:56)

Questions Answered:

Why do women say sorry too much? (9:50)

How do I stop over-apologizing? (26:29)

Resources:

Alternative to saying sorry: https://theglowupseasonpodcast.com/alternatives-to-saying-sorry/

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