075 : Advocating for Military Spouses with Camilla Howard
The InDependent Spouse Podcast with Jess Sands
Release Date: 06/19/2025
The InDependent Spouse Podcast with Jess Sands
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info_outlineWelcome to The InDependent Spouse podcast, your go-to place for inspiration and support in navigating modern military life. In this episode, host Jess Sands sits down with the incredible Camilla Howard: an RAF veteran, an Army spouse, a forces child, and a dedicated advocate for the military spouse community.
After 12 years in the RAF, Camilla transitioned to a civilian career with Compass Group UK and Ireland. She details how her passion for supporting military families led her to co-chair Compass Group's Armed Forces network, a role that allows her to champion initiatives for spouses and veterans.
Listen along to discover:
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Camilla's personal anecdotes about the "interesting balance" of dual-serving military careers and raising a child amidst frequent moves.
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How Compass Group actively supports military spouses through their innovative yet simple spouses policy, including endeavoring to redeploy spouses on posting, celebrating an annual Spouses Day during Armed Forces Week, and offering an extra day of leave for deployment collection or drop-off.
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The importance of the Armed Forces network's advocacy roundtables, which bring together companies to share best practices and encourage more organizations to genuinely support the military community.
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Camilla's invaluable advice for military spouses navigating career transitions: "release the pressure valve on yourself", understand your "red line areas", and leverage your network.
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Why military spouses possess unique and highly beneficial skill sets that are an asset to any company.
Camilla emphasizes that the military community is not about "pity parties", but about highlighting the incredible talent and resilience within it.
If you're a corporate interested in starting your own Armed Forces network or learning more about Compass Group's initiatives, you can reach out via [email protected]
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