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Stop Trying to Be Everything for Everyone (The 3M Framework) | Ep. 429

Release Date: 06/02/2025

7 Lessons I Learned in Prison | Ep. 444 with Todd & Melanie Durkin

Todd Durkin IMPACT Show

I just got back from prison. Yep—you read that right. Melanie and I, alongside legendary author & philanthropist Bob Goff and the Love Does team, spent a full day inside San Quentin State Prison in northern CA. And let me tell you, it was one of the most powerful, life-changing experiences you could only imagine. Today’s episode is raw, real, and fresh—we recorded it just days after getting back. You’ll hear from both me and Melanie as we share what we saw, what we felt, and the incredible lessons we learned from the men inside those walls, many of...

ENERGY 100: Your Journey from Exhausted to Energized | Ep. 443 with Brett Klika

Todd Durkin IMPACT Show

You’re in for a very special conversation today. I’ve got my man Brett Klika back in the IMPACT house. You may remember him from Episode 327 where he shared his raw, heart-wrenching story of love, loss, and life after the sudden passing of his wife, Lisa. That was nearly three years ago. And today, Brett’s back—and this time, he’s bringing some incredible news, wisdom, and HOPE. Brett has just released his brand-new book Energy 100, and let me tell you—it is powerful. It’s already a bestseller and it’s changing lives left and right. This isn’t just a book;...

Mindset, Mentors & Multiplying Your Impact | Ep. 442 with Brady Hutchins

Todd Durkin IMPACT Show

If you’ve ever wondered how to fully step into the best version of yourself — before the world even sees it — this episode is for you. One of my mentees, Brady Hutchins flips the script and interviews me on everything from overcoming limiting beliefs, to staying present in every interaction, to finding your God-given purpose. You’ll hear raw, behind- the-scenes, never before told stories from my experiences coaching elite athletes like Drew Brees, LaDainian Tomlinson, and Jordan Love, as well as lessons that apply to anyone — from pro athletes to...

Writing Your Next Chapter | Ep. 441 with Strength Coach Bennie Wylie

Todd Durkin IMPACT Show

What happens when life takes a surprise hard left turn and suddenly you’re staring at a brand-new chapter? Do you crumble… or do you rise up and write the next page with faith, grit, and purpose? This week, I sit down with my great friend, powerhouse coach, and brother-in-iron, Bennie Wiley. Bennie and I worked together on NBC STRONG several years ago and I recently conducted this podcast interview just weeks after Bennie’s tenure as the Head Football Strength & Conditioning Coach at USC (U. of Southern California) ended. Bennie’s story is one of perseverance, transition,...

Who’s in Your Corner? 5 Moves to Win the Fight You’re In | Ep. 440 [Spittin’ Fire]

Todd Durkin IMPACT Show

Ding-ding. Let’s get ready to rumble. We are in the octagon today and in the fight of your life. Sometimes life will punch you in the gut. You’ll take hits financially, relationally, in business, or in your health. You might even sometimes feel like you’re getting knocked out. But here’s my question… Who’s in your corner? The people you surround yourself with in both the good times and the bad times will make or break you. And today, I’m sharing a message that recently hit me at 1:30 in the morning, and forced me to pop-up, write down my thoughts, and...

Becoming “Wealthy & Well-Known” with Rory Vaden | Ep. 439

Todd Durkin IMPACT Show

Do you often feel called to share your story, inspire others and make a greater impact in the world? If so, you are what we call a "Mission-Driven Messenger." The challenge however is that we live in a world that's saturated with information and chock-full of "influencers" making it nearly impossible to stand out from the crowd. Everyone from students to CEOs are scrambling for likes, views, followers, and the ever-elusive "viral breakthrough." Well, If you’ve ever wondered how to grow your influence, multiply your time, and expand your impact without burning out — you’re going...

Deep Thoughts from 35,000 Feet: the Marine Corps, Speaking, & the Highs & Lows of Life | Ep. 438

Todd Durkin IMPACT Show

I’m coming at you mid-flight after one of the wildest weeks of my speaking career — and today, I’m giving you a look behind the curtain of what the keynote life really looks like. From missed flights and sleeping on airport benches… to one of the greatest honors of my speaking career: speaking to the United States Marine Corps. This episode is raw. Real. And straight from 35,000 feet. It’s a story of extreme lows and unbelievable highs. It’s a reminder that leadership, energy, and purpose aren’t just for the stage — they’re for the trenches. And...

How This Mindset Coach Discovered More Peace, Energy & Fulfillment | Ep. 437 with Andrew Simpson

Todd Durkin IMPACT Show

We are flipping the script today. We have my great friend, fellow mindset coach & high performance leader Andrew Simpson back on the podcast. In this conversation, we actually go back and forth on faith, burnout, leadership, mindset, spiritual alignment, and how to build systems that support not just your success… but your soul. If you’re tired of running on fumes, if you’re craving clarity, and if you want to serve your people from a place of overflow — this one is for YOU. Here’s what we’re unpacking in today’s episode: Why ‘peace’ is the real...

From Success to Significance: Building a Life & Legacy That Matters | Episode 436 [Part 3 of 3]

Todd Durkin IMPACT Show

Buckle-up boys & girls. Today we are talking about building massive success and significance in your life. This is Part 3 of our series on the 4 S’s (Survival → Stability → Success → Significance). And today we’re diving all the way in on that 4th and final stage — the one we’re all ultimately striving for: Significance. So let me ask you a question: Have you ever tasted success but still felt something was missing? Maybe you were a bit empty or you knew you were made for even more. Like you were doing “the thing,” but your soul was craving...

From Stability to Success: Systems, Structure & Soulful Wisdom | Ep. 435 [Part 2: Success Series]

Todd Durkin IMPACT Show

Welcome back to the IMPACT SHOW, and you better believe we’ve got a BARN BURNER of an episode today. This is Part 2 of our powerful 3-part series: Survival → Stability → Success → Significance… and today, we’re going deep into what it really takes to move from stability into SUCCESS — in your business, your mindset, and your LIFE. Let me be real with you — success isn’t just about more hustle. It’s about systems. It’s about structure. It’s about scaling your impact. And most importantly, it’s about living in alignment with your purpose. And...

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Mornin’ mornin sunshines. Wakey wakey!!! It’s time to FIRE IT UP! This episode today is special for YOU—the high achiever, the leader, the go-getter—who’s trying to do it all. But guess what? You can't lead everyone (or anyONE) if YOU’RE lost in the process. And today, I’m dropping a coaching framework that’s going to help you recalibrate, reignite, help you get crystal clear on your priorities, and help you get some “balance” back in your life. Sound good? Good!

I actually get on the whiteboard during today’s podcast episode and coach you on my “3-Circle Check-in” or sometimes what I refer to as my “3-M Framework” that WILL help you personally & professionally.

Specifically In this episode, I coach you through:

How to stop trying to be everything to everyone.
Check out my “3-Circle Check-in” or “3M Framework”: MISSION. MARGIN. ME.
How to best assess YOUR energy, mindset, and physical health (ME).
How aligned you are with your PURPOSE (MISSION).
How your finances and financial bandwidth doing (MARGIN).
And how to make practical, strategic changes in your life & biz right NOW based on where you want to go and what your mission and vision dictates.

We’re going deep on personal leadership. I’m bringing the whiteboard heat today. Whether you're listening during a workout, a walk, or a plane ride—this is a good “heart-to-heart” talk on some specific things you can do to recapture your mind, body, soul…and LIFE!

No more trying to be everything for everyone. Get back to YOU! The best version of YOU. Let’s be sure to create margin, stay on mission, and let’s create MASSIVE impact together!

Thanks for listening. Please be sure to share your big takeaways or AHAS from this episode on your Instagram Stories. Please tag me (@ToddDurkin) and let me know how this episode hits you! IG: @ToddDurkin

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** TEXT ME. Remember, you can text me any questions you have at 619.304.2216. This is my personal text and I will text you back. Give it a shot today!!

Your COACHING CHALLENGE This Week:
1. Where is “ME, MISSION, or MARGIN” showing up strong or weak in your life right now?
2. Choose at least ONE of the 3Ms to go deep on this week and take ACTION on it. Please report back or text me your feedback on your actions.
3. Please share a quick pic on your IG story and please tag me @ToddDurkin. I will return the favor and reshare your story.

Additional Information from this episode:
1. A HUGE shoutout to our 2025 Impact Foundation Scholarship Winners—over $350K awarded since we started. THIS is what living your mission looks like.

2. A personal invite to my High-Performance Mastermind Group. This is for ALL leaders, business owners, or business entrepreneurs (ALL fields/industries). Check out www.ToddDurkin.com/xxx

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a. The TD High-Performance Mastermind. The best Mastermind in the business…bar none.
b. If you are looking how you can generate an additional $100K in 6 months—guaranteed—check out our Gym Profit Coaching Program.

Check out www.ToddDurkin.com or set up a quick complimentary Discovery Call with Kelli Watson at [email protected]

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