You're 'Wrong': How Ableism Impacts Depression In Neurodivergent Kids
Release Date: 02/26/2025
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info_outlineYou've got to hear this episode! It's all about the dangers of internalized ableism. It happens all the time, and it chips away at our children's mental health. I'm bringing this episode back because it's one we need to revisit often. Join me as I talk about signs of internalized ableism and how we can better support Autistic and ADHD children. I also provide examples and practical strategies! Please share this episode far and wide so we can help even more children:)
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Holly Blanc Moses - The Mom/Neurodivergent Therapist
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