Paper Napkin Wisdom
In the last few Edge of the Napkin episodes, we’ve been building something deliberately. Not a formula. Not a personality profile. Not another leadership “style.” We’ve been unpacking something more fundamental—what I’ve been calling the Magnetic Growth Aura. An Aura isn’t what you say. It isn’t your title. It isn’t even your expertise. It’s what people experience when they’re around you. And...
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Some wisdom doesn’t shout. It waits. It waits patiently until you’re ready to stop running… until you’re willing to turn around… until facing it finally becomes worth it to you. That’s exactly what Edgar Jones brought to the Paper Napkin Wisdom table. On his napkin, Edgar wrote: “Keep your commitment to yourself!!! You will face it when it’s worth it to you.” At first glance, it feels simple. But as you’ll hear in this conversation, that...
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Some leadership traits are easy to spot. Confidence shows up quickly. Calm is noticeable under pressure. Contribution is visible in results. Congruence is different. You don’t always notice it when it’s present — but you always feel it when it’s missing. In Episode 334 of the Paper Napkin Wisdom Podcast, and #22 in the Edge of the Napkin series, Govindh Jayaraman explores the second pillar of the Magnetic Growth Aura: Congruence — the quiet discipline that makes...
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Introduction: The Power of a Small Stone Sabine Hutchison has lived a life shaped not by grand plans, but by small, courageous moments — moments where she spoke an idea out loud, asked for help, or chose possibility over certainty. Sabine is the author of Beyond the Ladder, the founder of the Ripple Network, and a longtime leader working at the intersection of science, leadership, and advocacy for women. Born in the U.S. to a German mother, her life has unfolded across countries, industries, and identities — from chemistry labs to the world tour of...
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Introduction: When Confidence Quietly Turns Into Pressure Most leaders I work with don’t lack confidence. They’re capable. They’ve proven themselves. They’ve built something real. And yet… there’s a familiar pattern I see again and again. When the outcome isn’t coming, they don’t pause. They push. They work longer hours. They inject more of themselves into the system. They become more present in every decision. They try to force...
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Introduction: When the Light Is Almost Invisible Denise Cesare didn’t bring a complicated napkin. She didn’t bring a framework. Or a system. Or a clever phrase designed to sound insightful. She brought a sentence that could only come from lived experience: “Always look for a glimmer of light.” At first glance, it feels gentle. Comforting. Almost obvious. But as this conversation unfolds, you realize this isn’t encouragement spoken from the sidelines. It’s a survival...
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Introduction: When Effort Isn’t the Problem There comes a point in leadership where doing more stops working. You’re focused. You’re aligned. You’re taking action. And yet—momentum feels heavier than it should. Trust takes longer to build. Progress happens, but it doesn’t compound. This episode lives in that space. Not to offer another tactic or system, but to explore something quieter and more foundational: why some leaders seem to carry gravity, while others—with...
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Introduction: Seeing Beyond What We See Susan Asiyanbi is one of only two guests in the history of Paper Napkin Wisdom to draw eyes on a napkin. Not symbols. Not words alone. Eyes — complete with lashes — and a simple phrase beneath them: “Help me see what you see.” At first glance, it feels poetic. But as this conversation unfolds, you realize it’s not poetic at all. It’s practical. It’s disciplined. And it may be one of the most underutilized leadership skills...
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We are drowning in leadership wisdom. Quotes. Frameworks. Podcasts. Books. Slides. Ideas stacked on top of ideas — each one sounding right, useful, even necessary. And yet, if we’re honest, something feels off. We’ve never known more about leadership… and rarely have we lived less of it. This isn’t a crisis of information. It’s a crisis of integration. We confuse motion with progress. Exposure with understanding. Volume with mastery. And nowhere is...
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Some ideas don’t need to be polished. They don’t need to be optimized. They don’t need a strategy deck or a five-year plan. They just need to be true. When Liza Roeser wrote her napkin for this conversation, she didn’t overthink it. She didn’t hedge it. She didn’t soften it. She wrote: If it’s not a Hell Yes, it’s an easy No. At first glance, it sounds obvious. Almost too simple. But...
info_outlineEntrepreneurs often try to win alone. We push, grind, and carry the weight of the business on our shoulders. But every once in a while, someone shows up with a piece of wisdom that reframes the entire game. In Episode 315 of Paper Napkin Wisdom, Brandon Bagley brings that shift in the simplest and most powerful way possible: a blue-ink message on a napkin that reads “WE > ME — Stronger Together.”
Brandon is a leader who has built people-centered cultures for years, especially through his work with AlphaGraphics Chandler, where collaboration is not a slogan — it’s a system. His background in athletics, leadership, and now the world of print, design, and communication has given him a front-row seat to how teams transform when the focus shifts from individual achievement to collective strength.
The napkin he brought is not a clever motto. It’s a lived belief. And in this conversation, Brandon walks us through what it looks like when leaders commit to building a culture where we really does matter more than me — and how everything changes when that becomes the foundation.
The Power of “We” in Action
From the very first moments of the conversation, Brandon returns to one theme: people want to belong to something meaningful. Entrepreneurship is hard enough without trying to do it alone — and yet so many leaders instinctively isolate themselves. Brandon has seen the opposite work better every time.
He shares stories from the shop floor to client relationships, illustrating how collaboration isn’t just a feel-good principle — it’s a performance multiplier. In one segment of the transcript, he talks about how the team rallies when challenges arise:
“When people know you're in it with them, they show up differently — not because they have to, but because they want to.”
That’s the heart of WE > ME.
It’s not about distributing tasks.
It’s about shared ownership.
And shared ownership, as Brandon says, “changes the energy of every room.”
He describes moments where team members stepped into leadership without being asked, clients leaned in more deeply because the rapport felt like partnership, and the business grew not because of a single hero but because everyone contributed to the win.
Creating Environments Where “We” Thrives
Throughout the episode, Brandon keeps returning to a pattern:
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People contribute more when they feel seen.
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People trust more when they feel supported.
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People stretch more when they know they won’t be punished for trying.
His napkin isn’t a motivational poster — it’s a blueprint.
He shares a piece in the transcript where he reflects on team communication:
“If your people don’t feel safe telling you what they see, you’ll never actually know what’s going on inside your business.”
And later:
“The best ideas in any organization almost never come from the top.”
Brandon’s leadership emphasis is simple and powerful:
Build a team where ideas flow freely, feedback is welcomed, and success is genuinely shared — and you’ll always outperform the organizations built around a single dominant personality.
Entrepreneurship Without Isolation
One of the standout themes from the transcript is Brandon’s honesty about how lonely entrepreneurship can be. Even leaders with teams often cut themselves off emotionally, believing they have to carry the burden alone.
He challenges that directly:
“Why would we choose to be alone when being together is both easier and better?”
This isn’t theoretical. He describes periods where collaboration literally changed the trajectory of the business — where the strength of the team covered gaps, generated momentum, and turned challenges into opportunities.
“Stronger Together” isn’t a tagline.
It’s a survival strategy.
And it’s a growth strategy.
When he talks about the environments he tries to build inside AlphaGraphics Chandler, everything revolves around this idea:
empowered teams are unstoppable teams.
5 Key Takeaways from Brandon Bagley
(Each with a Take Action item for entrepreneurs and leaders)
1. WE > ME is a strategic advantage, not just a belief.
Teams outperform individuals — consistently and predictably.
Take Action: Identify one area in your business where you’ve been operating alone. Invite your team into that process this week.
2. Psychological safety fuels innovation.
People won’t share ideas if they fear being judged or dismissed.
Take Action: Ask your team: “What’s one thing you see that I don’t?” Then listen without interruption.
3. Shared ownership creates shared momentum.
When the wins belong to everyone, the effort comes from everyone.
Take Action: Celebrate one team-driven win publicly — emphasize the collective effort.
4. Leadership is a relationship, not a role.
Influence grows through connection, not authority.
Take Action: Have one non-transactional conversation with a team member this week — no agenda, just connection.
5. Collaboration must be intentional.
“Stronger Together” happens by design, not by accident.
Take Action: Choose one system, meeting, or workflow and redesign it to include more voices.
About Brandon Bagley
Brandon Bagley is a seasoned leader known for building collaborative cultures and helping organizations unlock the potential of their people. He is part of the leadership at AlphaGraphics Chandler, a high-performing Arizona-based print, design, and marketing communications center known for delivering exceptional client experiences through team-driven execution.
You can learn more about him here:
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linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bagleybg/
Call to Action
Brandon’s napkin is an invitation: look at your business, your team, and your leadership — and notice where “me” is still winning over “we.”
Then shift it.
Strengthen it.
Open it up.
And when you capture your insight, write it on a napkin, snap a picture, and share it with the world using #PaperNapkinWisdom.
Because we really are stronger together.