Bound By Art: A Tattoo Artist's Survival Guide

If you’re an artist, ready to grow your business, attract the right clients, and learn how to survive this career without losing your damn mind, then you are in the right place! Every week, I’ll be bringing real talk, actionable tips, and hard-earned lessons from my own journey, with a side of good vibes and sarcasm. Whether you’re new to the game, feeling stuck, or just need a kick in the ass to reignite that spark-this is the show for you. Let’s get to work!

Sobriety, Partnerships & Finding Your Purpose with James Boag and Missi Blue | Ep. 57 11/19/2025

Sobriety, Partnerships & Finding Your Purpose with James Boag and Missi Blue | Ep. 57 "I didn't die because of tattooing. There were days where I ran with some bad people... and I think the only reason I didn't overdose constantly was because I had appointments to go to. I had a job to show up for. I had somewhat of a purpose." - James Boag This conversation wasn't planned. James and I were trying to squeeze in a podcast recording all weekend at the Tampa convention, but life kept getting in the way. Finally, we said forget it. I grabbed the microphones and headed to the beach on Monday. What started as a casual hangout turned into one of the most honest conversations I've had on this show. We covered everything from how the industry has changed to James's personal journey through addiction and recovery. I learned things about my friend that I didn't know after all these years, and honestly, that's what made this episode special. It's raw, it's real, and it's exactly what happens when two tattoo artists just share REAL talk. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How modern convenience is eroding the tattoo community - Why the shift from scrubbing tubes and tuning machines to disposable everything has unintentionally eliminated the bonding experiences that brought tattoo artists together The relationship between creativity and constant comparison - How scrolling through endless Instagram feeds dilutes your authentic artistic voice and why drawing from real life (not other tattoos) is essential for developing your own style James's raw story of addiction and recovery - How tattooing literally saved his life by giving him appointments to show up for, a purpose to pursue, and a reason to keep going when everything else was falling apart Why finding something bigger than yourself matters - The practical role that spirituality, higher power, or simply helping others plays in both recovery and building a sustainable career that doesn't consume you The reality of business partnerships in tattooing - How James and his business partner divided responsibilities based on their actual strengths, why clear roles prevent partnership disasters, and how having someone to ground your wild ideas can save your bank account What makes a successful apprenticeship program - Why James believes in complete retraining even for artists with previous experience, and how connecting management responsibilities to apprenticeship progression creates genuine investment The importance of networking in today's tattoo industry - Why building relationships with other artists isn't just nice to have anymore, it's essential for surviving in an industry where loyalty is disappearing and artists are constantly shop-hopping Creating authentic shop environments - Why so many modern tattoo shops feel soulless despite looking pristine, and how adding genuine artistic elements and personality makes your space memorable instead of just another white-walled salon Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/39081745

Building a Team That Actually Works: Lessons Learned with Missi Blue | Ep. 56 11/12/2025

Building a Team That Actually Works: Lessons Learned with Missi Blue | Ep. 56 "If I don't know the job myself, how can I train someone to be successful in it? And how can I even know if they are successful?" After letting go of my manager at Bluebird Tattoo Studio, I knew I had two choices: point fingers or take a hard look at where I went wrong. This episode is me pulling back the curtain on every mistake I made in that hiring process—from undefined roles to missing training systems to inconsistent feedback. I'm walking you through my entire mental framework for analyzing failures, taking accountability, and building better systems so this never happens again. If you've ever hired someone who didn't work out, or you're thinking about bringing on your first manager, this episode will save you months of frustration and help you understand what truly needs to be in place before you hand over responsibility to someone else. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The three critical questions to ask yourself when things go wrong in your business, and why blaming yourself first is actually the fastest path to growth Why hiring someone without a clearly defined role is setting both of you up for failure, and the specific systems you need to have in place before bringing on a manager The difference between checking in and actually checking their work, and how to build verification into your training process without micromanaging How to give feedback that lands—communicating when something is serious while still being supportive, and finding the balance between too nice and too harsh The "trust but verify" approach to evaluating skills and experience during hiring, and why you can't just take someone's word that they can handle the job Creating training plans with built-in follow-through, including how to dedicate time in your schedule for consistent check-ins during the critical first 60-90 days Building resources and documented systems that save you time in the long run by answering repetitive questions and setting clear standards Why you must understand the job yourself before training someone else to do it, and how investing time now prevents repeated hiring failures later Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/38954660

When Good People Aren't the Right Fit: A Leadership Reality Check with Missi Blue | Ep. 55 11/05/2025

When Good People Aren't the Right Fit: A Leadership Reality Check with Missi Blue | Ep. 55 "Sometimes failure doesn't look like falling apart. It looks like realizing you've been holding on to something for too long." I recently had to make one of the hardest calls as a business owner—letting go of someone I genuinely cared about. It forced me to face some uncomfortable truths about my leadership, my blind spots, and the standards I need to protect at Bluebird Tattoo Studio. This wasn't about them being a bad person; it was about recognizing that being good at some things doesn't mean you're right for the role. I've learned that when you ignore red flags and stay too busy to pay attention to what's actually happening, you're setting yourself up for bigger problems down the road. This episode is about owning our failures, learning from them fast, and making the hard decisions that move us forward instead of keeping us stuck. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to recognize when someone isn't the right fit—even when they're a good person who means well and does some things right The critical systems every tattoo shop needs: organization, communication, accountability, and coachability, and why these non-negotiables determine your shop's success Why keeping the wrong person in a role prevents you from finding the right one—and how it lowers standards across your entire team The questions to ask yourself after a failure: Where did I lose control? How did I contribute to this? What skills am I lacking? What will I do differently next time? How to shift from reactive to proactive leadership by spotting small fires before they become uncontrollable and fixing problems at their current size Why trusting too quickly without checking in can set you up for failure—and the importance of verifying, not just believing, when team members say they can handle something The power of learning from every mistake: practical steps to analyze what went wrong, take accountability, and build better systems so you don't repeat the same patterns When to trust your gut: if you have that feeling something isn't right, it probably isn't—and waiting only makes the decision harder Ready to level up your leadership and build a stronger shop? Take an honest look at what's working and what isn't in your business right now. If something feels off, don't wait—address it. The longer you put off hard decisions, the harder they become. Remember: you can't attract the right people if the wrong ones are taking up space. Be proactive, be honest with yourself, and keep raising the bar. Your future self (and your team) will thank you. Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/38911440

Working Less, Achieving More: A Tattoo Business Wake-Up Call with Missi Blue | Ep. 54 10/29/2025

Working Less, Achieving More: A Tattoo Business Wake-Up Call with Missi Blue | Ep. 54 Coming back to record this episode was harder than I expected. Five weeks away from the mic after a fall that left me with a fractured temporal bone, dislocated ear bones, a concussion, and a seizure—yeah, it was a lot. But here's what nobody tells you about forced time off: sometimes the best thing that can happen to your business is being physically unable to work in it. I'm not saying you need to injure yourself to grow (please don't), but this experience revealed something crucial that I'd been avoiding for way too long. I was so deep in the day-to-day operations that I couldn't see which projects actually mattered. Three weeks off gave me the space to finish my seminar that I'd been writing for a year, complete my online course, hire an incredible assistant, and secure the space next door for my tattoo Airbnb. In this episode, I'm sharing the full story—the scary parts, the lessons learned, and the concrete changes I'm making at Bluebird Tattoo Studio to build something sustainable instead of just grinding harder. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The real reason why taking time off is so difficult (spoiler: it's not about the money—it's about identity, control, and the discomfort of sitting still with your thoughts) How Missi went from resisting rest to recognizing its value through Leila Hormozi's perspective on working hard when you actually love what you do, and why rest doesn't mean you're doing something wrong The critical difference between working IN your business versus ON it, and how being forced away from tattooing revealed all the high-impact projects she'd been neglecting for months Why going back to work too soon after an injury costs you more time in the long run—Missi's first concussion took three months to heal because she didn't rest; this one taught her to actually listen to her body The practical steps to transition from tattooing 4-5 days per week to 3 days while maintaining income and actually growing your business through strategic focus on one large piece per day How to handle booking day and client communication during unexpected time off, including what Missi would do differently (hint: don't try to power through when you should be resting) The unexpected wins that came from three weeks of forced rest: completing a year-long seminar project, finishing an online course, interviewing 15-20 candidates to find the perfect assistant, creating new systems, sculpting ornament prototypes, and securing a tattoo Airbnb location Why your clients are more understanding than you think when life happens—not a single one of Missi's clients was upset about rescheduling three weeks of appointments, proving that your fears about letting people down are often bigger than reality Ready to build a tattoo career that's sustainable, profitable, and doesn't require you to hit rock bottom first? The truth is, you don't have to wait for an injury to force you to work smarter. Subscribe to Bound by Art wherever you listen to podcasts, and join a community of tattoo artists who are building businesses that support their lives instead of consuming them. And seriously—drink some water. Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/38822905

How To Actually Do What You Say You’re Going To with Missi Blue | Ep. 53 10/22/2025

How To Actually Do What You Say You’re Going To with Missi Blue | Ep. 53 - Free download to help you brainstorm and structure your goals: https://boundbyart.com/goals https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/8-reasons-you-wont-achieve-your-goals-again-this-year/id1777930586?i=1000682298139 "I was super busy all the time. But was I being productive? Absolutely not. I was just kind of running in circles, feeling confused and messy." - Missi Accountability meetings completely transformed how I approach my business. Before implementing regular check-ins, I felt perpetually stuck—busy but not productive, knowing what I wanted but never getting closer to it. Once I started having structured weekly accountability sessions, I finally developed clarity about my direction and broke down my big goals into manageable steps. What's particularly powerful about these meetings is how they force you to confront your progress (or lack thereof). When I look back and see I didn't gain any followers because I posted once instead of my goal of five times, I can't blame the algorithm—I wasn't even in it. Or realizing my client loyalty program took eight months longer than planned because I kept putting off finishing the logo. Without accountability, these patterns continue unchecked. Whether you find an accountability buddy (preferably someone at a similar business stage who will call you on your BS) or create structured check-ins with your team, this practice will help you stay focused on what truly matters. Some weeks you won't get everything done—life happens—but the consistent check-ins allow you to course-correct rather than abandon your goals entirely. What you will learn in this episode: Why accountability is the single most transformative practice you can implement in your tattoo business The signs that indicate you need more accountability in your professional life How to shift from a reactive mindset (disaster, panic, recover) to a proactive approach Why having clear direction is essential before you can build genuine motivation Practical strategies for setting up effective accountability meetings and finding the right accountability partner How embracing feedback—even when it hurts—is crucial for artistic and business growth The importance of recognizing when you've taken detours from your intended goals Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/38728555

Beyond the Hype: Real Talk on Tattoo Industry Drama with Gia Rose and Missi Blue | Ep. 52 10/15/2025

Beyond the Hype: Real Talk on Tattoo Industry Drama with Gia Rose and Missi Blue | Ep. 52 "People need to stop tearing each other down in order to get to an imaginary mountaintop that just doesn't exist. You can literally collaborate with people to get there." - Gia Rose This conversation with Gia Rose goes deep into the realities of building a career in today's tattoo industry. We talk openly about the challenges of dealing with online negativity, the true value of mentorship, and why skill-sharing over gatekeeping creates a stronger community for everyone. Gia shares her personal journey through cancel culture, finding love across continents, and what it really takes to stay grounded when the internet tries to tear you apart. Whether you're just starting out or you've been tattooing for years, this episode will remind you why we do what we do, and how to keep moving forward with integrity and purpose. Gia on IG: Listen to episode 23-What Tattoo Shops Actually Look For Before Taking On Apprentices: What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to mentally handle online negativity and cancel culture without letting it destroy your career or creative spirit, including practical strategies for protecting your peace while staying authentic The critical difference between gatekeeping and valuing your expertise as a tattoo artist, and why sharing skills strengthens the industry rather than dilutes it Why conflict resolution and direct communication matter more than avoiding uncomfortable conversations, especially in apprenticeships and shop dynamics The real commitment behind taking on an apprentice, what mentors are actually signing up for and what new artists should understand before seeking mentorship How social media has changed the tattoo industry for both better and worse, and strategies for using it as a tool rather than letting it control your self-worth Why creating art for other artists' approval is killing creativity, and how to reconnect with the pure joy of making art for art's sake The importance of understanding your "why" and how it naturally evolves throughout your career, from creating for yourself to teaching and uplifting others Permission to begin again: Why changing, growing, and transforming throughout your career isn't just acceptable, it's essential for longevity in this industry Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/38583000

Surviving Apprenticeships, Mentorships, and Cancel Culture with Gia Rose and Missi Blue | Ep. 51 10/08/2025

Surviving Apprenticeships, Mentorships, and Cancel Culture with Gia Rose and Missi Blue | Ep. 51 "If you would do it for nothing in exchange, you're in the right place. That's my philosophy—if you would tattoo for nothing, you're doing it for the love of the craft." – Gia Rose After 21 years behind the machine, Gia Rose has seen it all—from making her own needles and mixing pigments to navigating the brutal world of online attacks. In this raw and honest conversation, Gia breaks down what it really takes to build a lasting career in tattooing, why traditional apprenticeships are evolving (and getting harder to land), and how to protect yourself in an industry that's changing faster than ever. We talk about the emotional toll of cancel culture, the legal protections every artist needs, and why asking yourself "why do I tattoo?" might be the most important question of your career. This isn't about quick fixes or shortcuts—it's about understanding the real trade you're getting into and coming out stronger on the other side. Gia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/giarosetattoo/ What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why traditional apprenticeships have fundamentally changed as technology has eliminated much of the hands-on shop work that used to be the foundation of learning the trade How to handle online negativity and cancel culture with strategic silence, legal protections like mutual NDAs, and focusing on the support systems that actually matter The hidden value exchange in apprenticeships that many newcomers miss—understanding that you're receiving decades of shortcuts and hard-earned lessons condensed into months or years Why being a female tattoo artist presents unique challenges at every career stage, from apprentice to shop owner, and how to navigate double standards with confidence The importance of asking "would I do this for free?" as your compass for staying authentic and grounded when the industry gets chaotic or overwhelming How teaching makes you a better tattooer by forcing you to break down your instinctive process into teachable systems and refining your own techniques in the process Legal protections every modern tattoo artist needs including mutual NDAs, proper contracts, and understanding your vulnerabilities in an increasingly corporate industry The primacy effect and why your first instinct to defend yourself publicly is usually wrong—learning when to stay silent and let the noise burn out on its own Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/38500590

When Your Apprentice Becomes Your Equal (What she taught me) with Missi Blue and Vicky Stoner | Ep. 50 10/01/2025

When Your Apprentice Becomes Your Equal (What she taught me) with Missi Blue and Vicky Stoner | Ep. 50 When Vicki first started working at Bluebird Tattoo Studio as our shop manager, I honestly never planned on taking an apprentice. But watching her work ethic, her hunger to learn, and her genuine connection with our clients made me reconsider everything I thought I knew about teaching someone to tattoo. Fast forward three years, and she's one of the most consistently booked artists in our shop, with nearly 95,000 followers on TikTok and a waitlist of clients who trust her vision completely. What makes Vicki's story so valuable isn't just that she found success quickly—it's how she did it. She built her career on genuine relationships, relentless consistency on social media, and a willingness to evolve her style without losing her identity as an artist. This conversation digs into the real strategies behind staying booked, the mental shifts that separate hobbyists from career artists, and why putting your clients first will always matter more than chasing viral moments. Vicky’s TikTok: Vicky’s Instagram: What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to discover and develop your signature tattoo style without getting trapped in one niche or turning away opportunities to grow as an artist The social media strategy that actually works for tattoo artists—including how Vicki built a following of 95K on TikTok, when to post, and how to batch-create content in just 10-15 minutes Why booking out too far in advance can hurt your business—and how to structure your booking schedule to prevent burnout while keeping your calendar full The difference between getting engagement from other tattoo artists versus actual paying clients—and how to shift your content strategy to attract the right audience How to build a loyal clientele that books repeatedly by creating exceptional client experiences and starting conversations about the next project before they leave What separates successful tattoo artists from those struggling to stay booked in today's saturated market, including mindset shifts and business habits that matter more than talent alone Why treating tattooing like a 9-to-5 job will limit your success—and how to find balance while still putting in the creative work that builds a sustainable career The power of sharing your journey, not just your finished work—how documenting your progress, challenges, and evolution keeps your audience invested in your story and ready to support you through style changes Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/38411620

Surviving the Slow Season with Missi Blue | Ep. 49 09/24/2025

Why your tattoo shop NEEDS community partnerships with Missi Blue and Sutton Lockheart | Ep. 48 09/17/2025

Why your tattoo shop NEEDS community partnerships with Missi Blue and Sutton Lockheart | Ep. 48 Running a tattoo shop isn't just about creating incredible art—it's about building systems that work, fostering community connections, and staying consistent even when the business side feels overwhelming. I was lucky enough to sit down with my friend Sutton, owner of Self Care Tattoo, to work through some of the real challenges he's facing as a shop owner in small-town Pennsylvania. We dive deep into the difference between being two weeks booked out versus two months, why community marketing might be more powerful than social media for local shops, and how tracking your client sources can completely change your business strategy. This isn't theory—it's a live coaching session where we problem-solve together and brainstorm actionable solutions that any artist or shop owner can implement immediately. Self Care Tattoo - Instagram: Self Care Clothing Company - TikTok: What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why being booked only 2 weeks out attracts more impulsive, unreliable clients and how extending your booking timeline naturally filters for serious customers The power of community partnerships over social media marketing, including specific tactics for building relationships with local businesses How to create effective aftercare bags that promote local businesses while positioning your shop as a community hub Why tracking where your clients come from is essential, and how to use that data to double down on your most effective marketing channels The importance of loyalty programs and referral systems, plus real examples of what works in small markets How to leverage community events and flash days to convert one-time customers into lifelong clients Strategies for managing staff roles effectively, including how to help your manager focus on revenue-generating activities Why consistent communication with clients before appointments can dramatically reduce no-shows and last-minute cancellations Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/38241435

Working Harder, Getting Less Done: Sound Familiar? | Ep. 47 09/10/2025

7 Career Moves That Took Me from Unknown to Booked Out with Missi Blue | Ep. 46 09/03/2025

7 Career Moves That Took Me from Unknown to Booked Out with Missi Blue | Ep. 46 "All of these moments were scary as hell for me at first. I pushed through and did it anyway. None of these moments were comfortable, or easy, or came naturally to me. I had to put myself in uncomfortable situations so that I could grow." Looking back at my career journey always gives me perspective, but this time I found something that really stopped me in my tracks—a note from 2017 with my "big" career goals that honestly make me laugh now. Not because they were silly, but because I had no idea what I was actually capable of achieving. Today I'm breaking down the specific moments that transformed my career from barely making $500 a day to running a successful shop, launching a non-profit, and creating this podcast you're listening to right now. But here's the thing—it's not just about what I accomplished. It's about how these pivotal moments happened and why growth always starts with getting uncomfortable. If you're ready to understand what it really takes to level up in this industry, this episode is going to show you the blueprint. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why your current goals might be limiting your potential and how to think bigger about your career trajectory The real impact of getting honest feedback from industry veterans (even when it crushes your spirit) How attending your first tattoo convention can completely shift your perspective and open doors you didn't know existed Why building genuine relationships in the industry is more valuable than any technical skill you can learn The unexpected lessons that come from business failures and how to use them as stepping stones How teaching others can accelerate your own growth and get you out of creative autopilot Why every major breakthrough requires stepping outside your comfort zone and embracing the discomfort The importance of community and contribution in building a sustainable, fulfilling tattoo career Ready to identify your own pivotal moments? Take a step back and look at your career journey—what uncomfortable situations are you avoiding that might be exactly what you need for your next breakthrough? Your future self is counting on the moves you make today. Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/38061375

Art vs. Ego: When Pushing Harder Isn't Always Better with Missi Blue | Ep. 45 08/27/2025

Art vs. Ego: When Pushing Harder Isn't Always Better with Missi Blue | Ep. 45 "Am I challenging myself or am I torturing myself? Am I trying to be something I'm not, and that's why it's so hard? Should I be leaning into what already works?" You know that feeling when you finish a tattoo and you're completely drained—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally too? I had this eye-opening conversation with my friend Milo after she guest spotted at Bluebird Tattoo Studio, and it completely shifted how I think about artistic growth. We dove deep into why we feel guilty for creating art that comes naturally to us, and why we think we need to torture ourselves to be "real" artists. Here's the thing: there's a huge difference between challenging yourself and burning yourself out. Sometimes the most radical thing you can do is lean into what already works for you and refine it instead of constantly trying to reinvent the wheel. This episode is for every artist who's ever felt like they're not doing enough, even when they're creating beautiful work. Here's what I need you to understand: growth doesn't always have to hurt. Sometimes the biggest breakthroughs happen when you stop fighting against your natural artistic instincts and start working with them. Your art is an extension of your soul—treat it (and yourself) with the respect you deserve. Take what resonates, leave what doesn't, and remember that you get to make the rules for your own artistic journey. What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why doing smaller, simpler tattoos doesn't make you less of an artist How to identify the difference between healthy artistic challenge and self-torture The mental and physical toll of constantly pushing beyond your natural flow Why embracing what comes naturally can actually accelerate your growth How repetition and small refinements lead to mastery faster than constant reinvention Why comparing your artistic journey to other artists is sabotaging your success Practical strategies for finding the right balance between growth and sustainability How to reframe "easy" work as smart business and self-care Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/37967605

Emotional Days at the Shop: Pro Strategies for Tough Calls with Missi Blue | Ep. 44 08/20/2025

Emotional Days at the Shop: Pro Strategies for Tough Calls with Missi Blue | Ep. 44 "The truth that no one really wants to hear is that it takes pushing through the hard days to be able to push through the hard days." Let's have an honest conversation about something we all face but rarely discuss openly - those mornings when life punches you in the gut right before a full day of appointments. After 20 years in this industry and countless days of showing up when I didn't think I could, I'm sharing the framework that's helped me navigate these impossible decisions. This episode was born from my recent experience with my dog Baxter's cancer diagnosis, which happened just days before I was scheduled to tattoo a pet memorial. What I discovered in that moment changed how I view the intersection of personal pain and professional purpose. Whether you're dealing with grief, relationship struggles, or just feeling emotionally depleted, this episode will help you create your own decision-making framework for those inevitable hard days. What You'll Learn in This Episode: The hidden cost of creative careers - Why no one prepares us for the emotional labor of performing creativity on demand, regardless of personal circumstances The decision framework - Key factors to consider when determining whether to push through or reschedule, including assessing your emotional state, work quality potential, and possible benefits for both you and your client The power of purposeful vulnerability - How sharing authentic moments with clients (when appropriate) can create deeper connections and more meaningful work Setting professional boundaries - The critical difference between relating to clients and making them your therapist, plus how to maintain professionalism during emotional times Emergency protocol strategies - How to handle true emergencies professionally, including deposit policies, rescheduling tactics, and maintaining client relationships The frequency factor - Why patterns matter more than isolated incidents, and how to identify if you're creating avoidable chaos versus experiencing genuine emergencies Building emotional resilience - How each decision to push through builds your capacity for future challenges, and why avoiding difficulty can reinforce limiting beliefs Finding purpose in pain - Real examples of how personal struggles can enhance your ability to serve clients, especially in emotionally charged work like memorial tattoos Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/37880850

Stop Doing It Alone: A Raw Talk for Stubborn Tattoo Artists with Missi Blue | Ep. 43 08/13/2025

Stop Taking Feedback Personally: Pro Tips for Tattoo Artists with Missi Blue | Ep. 42 08/06/2025

Stop Taking Feedback Personally: Pro Tips for Tattoo Artists with Missi Blue | Ep. 42 "Your worth and your value is not based on how much people like your art. At the end of the day, it's art. No one has or ever will agree on art, period." -Missi Blue Here at Bluebird Tattoo Studio, I've learned that the difference between artists who plateau and those who continuously evolve comes down to one thing: how they handle feedback. After 21 years in this industry, I can tell you that the most painful critiques often deliver the most valuable lessons. This episode dives deep into the psychology of receiving feedback, why we take things so personally, and how to transform even the harshest criticism into actionable growth strategies. I'll share the portfolio review that made me cry but ultimately changed my entire career trajectory, plus practical frameworks you can use immediately to separate your ego from your art and accelerate your progress. Ready to stop letting your ego hold you back? Start implementing these feedback strategies today and watch how quickly your work transforms. Remember, the artists who scare you the most often have the insights you need the most. Take that next step, ask for that critique, and commit to doing something powerful with what you learn. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to assess feedback sources effectively - Learn the key questions to ask about who's giving you critique, their qualifications, and their motivations before deciding how much weight to give their opinions. The crucial difference between constructive feedback and harmful criticism - Discover how to identify when someone is genuinely trying to help versus when they're just being mean, and why understanding intent changes everything. Why you can't see your own mistakes - Understand the psychological reasons you're "too close" to your own work and why outside perspective is essential for identifying blind spots and patterns you've been missing. The emotional detachment strategy that transforms careers - Learn specific techniques for separating your self-worth from your artwork, allowing you to receive feedback openly without taking it as a personal attack. How to create actionable improvement plans from critique - Get a step-by-step process for turning vague feedback into specific, measurable goals you can work on immediately, including the checklist method that revolutionized one artist's approach. The follow-up critique technique for maximum growth - Discover how to leverage initial feedback into ongoing mentorship opportunities and why asking for follow-up reviews accelerates your progress exponentially. When and how to ask the artists who intimidate you - Learn strategies for approaching high-level artists for portfolio critiques, including how to position yourself and what to do when you're scared of what they'll say. Building accountability systems that actually work - Understand how to create support networks and accountability partnerships that keep you progressing on your improvement goals long after the initial motivation fades. Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/37690420

From Reactive to Proactive: Master Your Mindset in the Tattoo Industry with Missi Blue | Ep. 41 07/30/2025

From Reactive to Proactive: Master Your Mindset in the Tattoo Industry with Missi Blue | Ep. 41 "People treat you exactly the way that you allow them to." Here's the thing that took me way too long to learn: every time you let someone else's bad mood, rude comment, or unexpected situation completely derail your day, you're essentially handing over the keys to your life. I used to be the queen of letting one small thing spiral into a week-long emotional disaster, and honestly, it was exhausting. But I've learned that the difference between thriving and barely surviving in this industry often comes down to one simple question: who's really in control here? In this episode, I'm sharing the mindset shifts and practical tools that helped me go from being a reactive mess to someone who can handle whatever curveballs life throws at me. Whether it's dealing with difficult clients, negative comments online, or just the general chaos of running a business, you'll walk away with a clear framework for taking your power back and keeping it. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to recognize when you're unconsciously giving your power away to people and situations that don't deserve it, and the simple mindset shift that changes everything The exact thought-control technique that stops negative spirals before they start: pause, name the thought, and ask yourself if it's actually true Why constantly seeking approval from others is secretly sabotaging your decision-making ability and keeping you stuck in endless cycles of self-doubt How to distinguish between helpful feedback and meaningless criticism so you can respond appropriately instead of taking everything personally The real reason boundaries don't work for most people (hint: it's not about what you say, it's about what you do when they're crossed) Why letting other people's opinions about your business success become your reality is the fastest way to fail, plus real examples from opening Bluebird Tattoo Studio The three categories of control that actually matter: your thoughts, your actions, and your boundaries, and how to master each one How to move from survival mode to intentional action so you can focus on creativity and growth instead of constantly putting out fires Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/37601745

9 ADHD Strategies That Saved My Tattoo Business From Total Chaos with Missi Blue | Ep. 40 07/23/2025

9 ADHD Strategies That Saved My Tattoo Business From Total Chaos with Missi Blue | Ep. 40 "Having ADHD does not mean we can't do hard things and we can't get shit done. We just have to lean into what works for us and away from the things that make everything worse." I spent 38 years struggling through life thinking everyone else had some secret manual I never received. Constantly scattered, forgetting appointments, leaving projects half-finished, and procrastinating until deadlines became emergencies. It wasn't until my daughter was diagnosed with ADHD that I realized I might be dealing with the same thing. Getting my own diagnosis at 38 was both validating and overwhelming, but it led me to develop the exact systems I'm sharing today. Through trial and error (and a lot of research), I discovered nine strategies that transformed my business from chaotic to controlled. These aren't just theories - they're the practical tools that keep Bluebird Tattoo Studio running smoothly and help me show up as the leader my team deserves. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to create foolproof list systems that actually work for the ADHD brain, including which apps and tools make the biggest difference in staying organized The step-by-step process for building routines that become automatic, so you can get through tasks you hate without relying on motivation or willpower Why sleep is non-negotiable for ADHD entrepreneurs and how a consistent sleep schedule dramatically improves focus, decision-making, and work quality The chunking method for breaking down overwhelming projects into manageable pieces that prevent freeze-up and procrastination How to identify and minimize your specific distractions, from choosing the right background music to knowing when to put your phone in another room The importance of designated spaces for everything in your business and how organization directly impacts productivity and professional image Which digital tools to embrace and which paper systems to ditch for maximum efficiency and accessibility Why planning ahead for inevitable challenges and your brain's quirks can make the difference between a great day and a disaster Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/37508510

Stop Chasing Goals That Kill Your Dreams: What Artists Get Wrong with Missi Blue | Ep. 39 07/16/2025

Stop Chasing Goals That Kill Your Dreams: What Artists Get Wrong with Missi Blue | Ep. 39 "If you actually want the dream you say you're after, why wouldn't you take as much of it as you were able to now and find those in-between steps to start living the dream now? What are you waiting for?" Here's something that's been weighing on my mind lately, and I think it's going to challenge everything you think you know about goal setting. What if we've become so laser-focused on our goals that we've completely lost sight of our actual dreams? I'm talking about that beautiful, colorful vision that made you pick up a tattoo machine in the first place. I've always been the queen of breaking down big dreams into actionable goals, but recently I had a wake-up call that changed everything. I've been obsessing over buying a building for Bluebird Tattoo Studio, thinking it would get me closer to home and give me more time with my kids. But here's the thing – by the time I'm financially ready to buy that building, my kids will have graduated and possibly moved out. I was so busy chasing the goal that I almost missed the entire point of the dream. This episode is about pulling back, getting brutally honest with ourselves, and asking the hard question: Are we so caught up in the "how" that we're missing the "why"? Because I've realized that most of us are guilty of constantly moving the goalpost, making promises to ourselves that we never keep, and waiting for some magical moment when everything aligns perfectly. But what if that moment never comes? What if we're wasting our lives waiting when we could be living parts of our dreams right now? What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why the traditional goal-setting approach can actually sabotage your dreams and keep you in a constant state of "almost there" How to identify when you're chasing goals instead of living your actual dream, and the simple question that will change your perspective immediately The psychology behind why we keep moving the goalpost and making bigger promises to ourselves instead of celebrating wins Practical strategies for "nickel and diming" your dreams – how to find ways to experience parts of your vision while you're still building toward the bigger picture Real examples of how to get creative with time, money, and location constraints to start living your dream life now Why specificity in your dreams matters and how to break down vague desires like "more time with family" into actionable steps The mindset shift that helps you see opportunities that were always there but you weren't paying attention to before How to stop waiting for perfect conditions and start finding those "in-between steps" that bring you closer to your dream today Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/37415100

The Real Reason Clients Aren't Booking You with Missi Blue | Ep. 38 07/09/2025

The Real Reason Clients Aren't Booking You with Missi Blue | Ep. 38 "You're only going to attract the same that you're putting out there. So if you want better options, you have to bring that same energy to the table." This episode is going to challenge you, and honestly, it might sting a little. But if you're listening to this podcast, it means you're ready to grow and figure out what's not working. I've been where you are - wondering why everyone else seems booked solid while you're struggling to fill your schedule. The truth? It's probably not the algorithm, your follower count, or bad luck. Sometimes we need to take a hard look in the mirror and ask ourselves some tough questions about how we're showing up online and in person. I'm sharing this because I believe in your potential, and I know that with some honest self-reflection and strategic changes, you can turn things around. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How to conduct an honest social media audit - Assess your posts from the last 3-6 months and identify patterns that might be repelling potential clients The 6 key areas that make or break your online presence - From approachability and relatability to avoiding desperation and aggression Practical strategies to become more approachable - Even if you have resting bitch face (like me!), you can learn to be more inviting and friendly The psychology behind positive reinforcement with clients - Why celebrating good clients publicly works better than complaining about bad ones How to be authentically relatable without trying too hard - Share your interests and personality in ways that naturally attract your ideal clients Warning signs of desperation and how to avoid them - Recognize behaviors that signal you're not worth their time or money The power of attitude in attracting quality clients - Why being a constant downer pushes people away and how to shift your energy A framework for self-assessment - Ask yourself the hard question: "Am I someone I would want to spend the day with?" Ready to stop making excuses and start making real changes? Take that honest look at your online presence, implement these strategies consistently, and watch how your energy shift attracts the right clients. Your success is in your hands - now go make it happen. Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/37335720

My Booking Day Disaster: 5 System Mistakes That Almost Broke with Missi Blue | Ep. 37 07/02/2025

My Booking Day Disaster: 5 System Mistakes That Almost Broke with Missi Blue | Ep. 37 "Systems only work to help you if you actually use them." -Missi Blue Last week reminded me why I built systems in the first place – and what happens when you think you're too experienced to follow them. My booking day at Bluebird Tattoo Studio turned into a complete scramble because I decided to wing it instead of sticking to my proven process. From ignored checklists to computer crashes at the worst possible moment, everything that could go wrong did. But here's the thing: this disaster became my biggest learning opportunity yet. I'm sharing exactly what went sideways, why it happened, and most importantly, how I'm using this experience to build even stronger systems. If you've ever thought "I know better than this" while watching your carefully planned day fall apart, this episode is for you. What you will learn in this episode: Why following your own systems is crucial, even when you think you have them memorized The specific mistakes that turned a smooth booking process into a 45-minute delay and client confusion How to turn business frustrations into actionable improvements through systematic note-taking The importance of building accountability into your processes, especially when working with team members Smart automation strategies that can eliminate last-minute scrambling and reduce human error How to create backup plans for technology failures and other unexpected disruptions The value of testing your systems with fresh eyes and documenting changes for future reference Why investing time in system updates now saves exponentially more time and stress later Ready to stop repeating the same frustrating mistakes? Start by identifying one system in your business that's causing you stress, document what's not working, and create an action plan to fix it this week. Your future self will thank you for the effort you put in today. Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/37222415

From People Pleaser to Powerful Leader: My Business Wake-Up with Missi Blue | Ep. 36 06/25/2025

Daily Choices That Define Your Tattoo Career with Missi Blue | Ep. 35 06/18/2025

The Negative Self-Talk Killing Your Tattoo Career (And How to Stop It) with Missi Blue | Ep. 34 06/11/2025

The Negative Self-Talk Killing Your Tattoo Career (And How to Stop It) with Missi Blue | Ep. 34 "Why waste your time proving over and over again how great you are when you could be getting better?" Here's the hard truth that no one wants to talk about: most of us are walking around with a voice in our head that's absolutely brutal. If we heard someone talking to our best friend the way we talk to ourselves, we'd be ready to fight. But somehow, we've normalized this internal beatdown that happens daily. As tattoo artists, and entrepreneurs, our mindset isn't just about feeling good—it directly impacts our technical skills, client relationships, and business growth. I've been there, stuck in cycles of self-doubt and perfectionism that nearly made me quit this podcast entirely. But here's what I've learned about rewiring those destructive thought patterns and why it might be the most important skill you develop as an artist. Whether you're just starting out, or you've been in the game for years, these mindset shifts can completely transform how you show up in your career. Ready to stop letting your inner critic run the show? Start with this week's homework challenge—catch one negative thought each day and rewrite it. Your future self (and your art) will thank you. Remember, you can't control the thoughts that pop into your head, but you absolutely can control how you react to them. Now get out there and show up for yourself the way you'd show up for your best friend. What you will learn in this episode: How 80% of our internal dialogue is negative and why this repetitive thinking keeps us stuck in limiting patterns that affect our artistic growth The difference between growth mindset and fixed mindset, and why believing your skills are unchangeable will keep you proving yourself instead of improving yourself Why surrounding yourself with people who challenge you is more valuable than those who just hype you up, and how to identify which type of people you currently have in your circle The destructive nature of all-or-nothing thinking and how perfectionism disguised as motivation actually leads to burnout and stagnation Practical strategies to reframe "I can't do this" to "I can't do this yet" and why this simple shift opens up possibilities for skill development How to catch and redirect negative thoughts before they become limiting beliefs that dictate your actions and career trajectory Why showing up consistently matters more than showing up intensely, and how to build resilience through progress over perfection The homework challenge: how to identify and rewrite one recurring negative thought each day to start changing your mental patterns Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/36942295

Productive vs Busy: Time Management Secrets for Tattoo Artists with Missi Blue | Ep. 33 06/04/2025

Productive vs Busy: Time Management Secrets for Tattoo Artists with Missi Blue | Ep. 33 "Being busy is not the same as being productive, and I had to learn that the hard way." As tattoo artists, we wear busyness like a badge of honor, but what if all that hustle is actually holding us back? I've been there – running around, checking boxes, feeling like I'm crushing it because my schedule is packed. But here's the reality check I needed: being busy doesn't equal being productive, and it definitely doesn't guarantee success. It’s time to get real about the difference between spinning your wheels and actually moving forward. Whether you're a new artist trying to build your clientele, an experienced professional feeling overwhelmed, or a shop owner juggling a million responsibilities, this conversation is for you. I'm sharing the exact strategies that helped me take back control of my time and start focusing on what actually matters. What You Will Learn in This Episode: The "Gold Star Trap" - Why chasing validation through busyness keeps you stuck and how to redirect that energy toward meaningful results Time Audit Fundamentals - A simple system to track where your time actually goes (spoiler: it's probably not where you think) and identify time-wasting activities The Pizza Hut Principle - Real-world examples of how "busy work" can actually set you back and why motion doesn't always equal progress Pareto's 80-20 Rule Applied - How to identify the 20% of activities that generate 80% of your results and focus your energy there Priority Decision Framework - Three key questions to ask yourself when deciding what deserves your time: Is it urgent? Is it important? Is it significant? Task Expansion Theory - Why projects always seem to take exactly as much time as you give them and how to use this to your advantage The Parent Productivity Hack - How having constraints actually makes you more efficient and focused (even if you don't have kids) Building Your Results Roadmap - A visual exercise to connect your biggest wins with the specific activities that got you there Ready to stop being busy and start being productive? The first step is awareness. Grab that Goal Getter Workbook, do a time audit this week, and see where your energy is really going. Your future self will thank you for taking control today. Remember – it's not about doing more, it's about doing what matters. Now stop making excuses and go make it happen. Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/36837170

Mental Toughness Secrets Every Tattoo Artist Needs to Know with Crush Captain and Missi Blue | Ep. 32 05/28/2025

No More DM Chaos: My One-Day Booking System with Missi Blue | Ep. 31 05/21/2025

Say What You Want or Get What You’re Given with Missi Blue | Ep. 30 05/14/2025

Stop Lying to Yourself About Growth with Missi Blue | Ep. 29 05/07/2025

Stop Lying to Yourself About Growth with Missi Blue | Ep. 29 - Free download to help you brainstorm and structure your goals "I was super busy all the time. But was I being productive? Absolutely not. I was just kind of running in circles, feeling confused and messy." - Missi Accountability meetings completely transformed how I approach my business. Before implementing regular check-ins, I felt perpetually stuck—busy but not productive, knowing what I wanted but never getting closer to it. Once I started having structured weekly accountability sessions, I finally developed clarity about my direction and broke down my big goals into manageable steps. What's particularly powerful about these meetings is how they force you to confront your progress (or lack thereof). When I look back and see I didn't gain any followers because I posted once instead of my goal of five times, I can't blame the algorithm—I wasn't even in it. Or realizing my client loyalty program took eight months longer than planned because I kept putting off finishing the logo. Without accountability, these patterns continue unchecked. Whether you find an accountability buddy (preferably someone at a similar business stage who will call you on your BS) or create structured check-ins with your team, this practice will help you stay focused on what truly matters. Some weeks you won't get everything done—life happens—but the consistent check-ins allow you to course-correct rather than abandon your goals entirely. What you will learn in this episode: Why accountability is the single most transformative practice you can implement in your tattoo business The signs that indicate you need more accountability in your professional life How to shift from a reactive mindset (disaster, panic, recover) to a proactive approach Why having clear direction is essential before you can build genuine motivation Practical strategies for setting up effective accountability meetings and finding the right accountability partner How embracing feedback—even when it hurts—is crucial for artistic and business growth The importance of recognizing when you've taken detours from your intended goals Links: Music: Unknown Road - /episode/index/show/0e7ff44a-92f6-42de-8009-b2c78de4e3ea/id/36458520

HERE'S How to Find Your Ideal Client with Missi Blue | Ep. 28 04/30/2025

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