How To Be More Resilient with Missi Blue | Ep. 65
Bound By Art: A Tattoo Artist's Survival Guide
Release Date: 01/14/2026
Bound By Art: A Tattoo Artist's Survival Guide
Twenty years into my tattoo career, I can finally say I've built a business doing exactly what I love—and it happened because I stopped trying to please everyone else and started being a "Missi Blue pleaser." This episode is my origin story, from a scrappy 19-year-old apprentice working double shifts to opening Blue Bird Tattoo Studio and becoming known for pet portraits that capture each animal's soul. I'm sharing the messy middle, the moments of doubt, the role spite played in my success, and the practical steps that allowed me to go all-in on specialization without losing myself in the...
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When I was an apprentice flipping through tattoo magazines, Jesse Smith's work stopped me in my tracks. Fast forward to today, and I'm sitting down with the man himself, someone who's spent over 25 years proving that unconventional paths can lead to extraordinary outcomes. Jesse started tattooing with a prison-style gun made from a toothbrush and Walkman motor, learned by trial and error, and built an empire that includes Loose Screw Tattoo, the Richmond Tattoo and Arts Convention, and the Richmond Tattoo Academy. This conversation isn't about shortcuts or hacks—it's about the real work that...
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Building resilience isn't something you're born with—it's a skill you develop through experience, self-awareness, and intentional practice. In this episode, I'm breaking down what it really means to be resilient in business and how you can strengthen this critical muscle. From my own experiences of opening Blue Bird Tattoo Studio one month before COVID shut everything down to navigating a traumatic accident that left me out of work for a month, I've learned that resilience is about more than just surviving hard times; it's about how quickly you bounce back and keep moving...
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When I opened Blue Bird Tattoo Studio, I truly believed I'd just show up, tattoo, go home, and do whatever I wanted. I thought I'd work alone because I was tired of dealing with other people's energy. Looking back, that was incredibly naive. I would have gone insane working by myself all day with no one to talk to except my clients. The reality of opening and running a shop hit me fast, and I had to figure everything out the hard way. From understanding the different types of shop models to learning actual business management skills, setting clear expectations with my team, and finally...
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"You can't do nothing and expect people to just find you and give you their money to tattoo. You either need to get on board with social media or talk to people in person—one or the other." Here's the reality: if you're crushing it at conventions but struggling to book local clients, the problem isn't oversaturation in your market. We have 14 tattoo shops within a quarter mile of Bluebird Tattoo Studio in a town of 16,000 people, and we stay consistently busy. The difference isn't luck or location, it's intention. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what we do differently to attract...
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I'll be honest—I've been a serial project-starter my entire career. From expanding Bluebird Tattoo Studio to opening the Bluebird Art Collective gift shop, I've chased plenty of shiny objects that pulled me away from what really mattered. This episode is about recognizing when you're spreading yourself too thin, understanding why we're wired to chase new ideas, and learning how to channel that creative energy into focused, sustainable growth. If you've ever felt like you're running in place with a dozen unfinished projects, this conversation will help you refocus on what actually moves your...
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"You can wish and hope and dream for your goals, but that alone is not getting you anywhere." As we head into a new year, I'm reflecting on what worked, what didn't, and how I'm going to show up differently in 2025. This year taught me something crucial: feelings are terrible leaders. When I let how I'm feeling dictate what I do each day, nothing gets done. After recovering from a skull fracture and completely uprooting my office setup, I've been struggling to get back to my routine—and it's made me realize that the only way to win is to build systems that work regardless of how I feel. In...
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"Every convention for me is a chance to just do better, to do a better tattoo, to meet more people, to get new inspiration, to find a new opportunity. Even when it's a bad convention, it still serves a purpose." I get asked all the time for advice on doing conventions. How to prepare, what to expect, what actually works. And honestly, in the moment, I never know where to start because there are a thousand things that could make or break your experience. So I sat down and really thought through everything I've learned from years of doing conventions, and I'm sharing it all with...
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"It's lonely being the boss. And yes, I get that I asked for this, that I did this to myself. I understand that, but why is it like this?" Missi Blue A coworker's offhand comment stopped me in my tracks recently; something about how I'm "never in a good mood" when I walk into the shop. That hurt. Not because it was entirely true, but because it highlighted something I've been carrying quietly for years: being the boss is incredibly isolating. I show up with my serious face on because I'm walking into whatever needs to be handled that day, carrying the weight so my team doesn't have to. But...
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Perfectionism isn't about high standards—it's procrastination in disguise that keeps tattoo artists from taking action on their biggest goals. Learn why waiting to feel "ready" is holding you back and how to push past fear to actually grow your career, even when things get messy. "You're never gonna feel ready. The only way to truly feel ready and confident and prepared for the things that you've already experienced and had some success with in the past." Let's talk about the elephant in the studio: perfectionism. We tell ourselves it's about having high standards, but here's...
info_outlineBuilding resilience isn't something you're born with—it's a skill you develop through experience, self-awareness, and intentional practice.
In this episode, I'm breaking down what it really means to be resilient in business and how you can strengthen this critical muscle. From my own experiences of opening Blue Bird Tattoo Studio one month before COVID shut everything down to navigating a traumatic accident that left me out of work for a month, I've learned that resilience is about more than just surviving hard times; it's about how quickly you bounce back and keep moving forward.
I'll walk you through the seven core components of resilience, share how understanding your need for control can actually help you let go, and give you actionable strategies for turning setbacks into stepping stones.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
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The seven Cs of resilience (competence, confidence, connection, coping, control, character, and contribution) and how to strengthen each one in your business
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Why resilience is a learnable skill built through experience, not an innate personality trait you either have or don't have
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How taking calculated risks and getting out of your comfort zone creates the data you need to build confidence in your problem-solving abilities
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The connection between control issues and resilience, and why accepting what you can't control is essential for moving forward
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How to detach from your ego so setbacks don't become personal failures that stop you in your tracks
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Practical questions to ask yourself during difficult times, including "How can I turn this into a win?" and "How can I use this as practice for next time?"
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Why "failure can't hit a moving target" and how to keep momentum even when things don't go according to plan
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The difference between coping with emotions and avoiding them, and why managing feelings is just as important as solving problems
Learn how to build genuine resilience in your tattoo business with proven strategies that help you bounce back from setbacks faster and stronger. Missi shares the seven core components of resilience, personal stories of overcoming adversity, and practical tools for managing stress, emotions, and uncertainty as a business owner.
Links:
instagram.com/tattoosbymissiblue
instagram.com/boundbyartproject
instagram.com/bluebirdtattoostudio
Music: Unknown Road - The Harp Project