American Sex
Changing America’s dysfunctional relationship with sex one laugh at a time, this award-winning podcast gets to the meat of what fuels our deepest, darkest turn-ons. Sex isn't just sex; it’s about everything – identity, power, politics, taboos, and the shame our culture thrives on. Recognizing how these elements seep into our bedrooms makes all the kinky, “weird” stuff we’re secretly into seem not so weird after all. Host Sunny Megatron is an acclaimed Clinical Sexologist, BDSM Educator, and Showtime TV host. Equal parts hilarious and informative, Sunny & her guests serve up real talk about kink, polyamory, sexual ethics, and more. From practical sex tips to candid conversations on sexual empowerment to the war on reproductive rights and sexual freedom, each topic is approached with a lightheartedness that’s second to none. On American Sex Podcast, Kink is Customizable™ and education is the new punk rock. The personal is undeniably political and tinkle-your-pants laughter is the antidote to sexual shame. Together, we’re on a mission to harness the power in our pleasure, embrace the subversion in our perversion, and challenge the puritanical, backward-ass views on sex that are as American as apple pie. ----- Visit americansexpodcast.com & sunnymegatron.com for more ------ Submit your sex questions by email: [email protected] TikTok: @SunnyMegatron, Twitter: @AmericanSexPod, Intsa: @AmericanSexPodcast, Patreon: patreon.com/americansex All Links: direct.me/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact [email protected]
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Dom & sub Dynamics Free Kink & BDSM Education Summit - Bonus
03/25/2024
Dom & sub Dynamics Free Kink & BDSM Education Summit - Bonus
Amazing news! Registration is now open for the FREE Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit! Reserve your free spot here: The Rundown 4-day online BDSM conference, free! 5 sessions per day + supplemental class tools & materials April 8-11th 2024 Watch live (no student cameras so you can attend anonymously) -OR- stream recordings of the classes you want to take within 24 hours Some of the educators: Midori, Luna Matatas, Evie Lupine, TheDutchy, Miriam Green from Wicked Grounds, Princess Rara from Pink Kink Podcast, Marla Rene-Stewart, Justine Cross, Loving BDSM, D/s Living, Pleasure Mechanics & more Some of the sessions: Punishment & Rewards In D/s, Navigating Misconceptions & Embracing Your Brat, Little Space & Age Play Dynamics, Dealing With Drop, Discovering Your Soft & Hard Limits in BDSM, Seducing Your sub & Creating Erotic Tension, Kinky Skills For Switches, Introducing Kink In Your Relationship, Creating Successful Protocols, BDSM Scene Building, Polyamory & BDSM, Kink + Trauma: Using BDSM For Healing, Female Led Relationships - FLR, How To Create A BDSM Contract & More The D/s Summit is FREE for people 18+ (all educational, not visually graphic, and does not encompass adult entertainment) so please feel free to share with friends, in kink groups you belong to, etc: See you there! Sunny :)
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What's a Kinky Switch? w/ Queen Ana Blue - 213
11/11/2023
What's a Kinky Switch? w/ Queen Ana Blue - 213
Curious about the role of a switch in kink & BDSM? Some say switches are really just confused doms or subs that haven’t figured out their true identity yet. Others believe they’re less skilled and aren’t as dedicated to exclusively topping or bottoming. In this episode, Queen Anas Blue busts these myths and gets deep into the switchy nitty-gritty. Some of the topics we cover: Switching styles & traits Switch erasure Switch drop Challenges cis men face embracing their switchy side Overcoming switch imposter syndrome & more Guest Bio – Queen Ana Blue Queen Ana Blue identifies as a Pansexual, Sadomasochistic, Black, Leather, and a Polyplayer. She is a Pro-Dominantrix and Lifestyle Switch. As a Professional BDSM worker, Queen Ana Blue enjoys creating personalized scenes where people can live out their desired fantasies and feel accepted and heard. As a Lifestyle Switch, she enjoys the connection and vulnerability involved in exploring all sides of the slash with her partners. Queen Ana enjoys teaching because she enjoys talking to people and helping others feel welcome and safe. BDSM education should not be a secret and she excels at making people feel accepted, important, and at helping people understand they have power and beauty, no matter what side of the slash they may be on in their kinky journey. Episode 213 Helpful Links & Resources Queen Ana Blue Instagram Queen Ana Blue Website Queen Ana Blue LinkTree Open Deeply Podcast Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Open Deeply Podcast Episode 213 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! Green Chef’s best deal of the year! $250 off with code sunny250 at Breaking the OCD cycle takes effective treatment. To get started, go to to book a free 15-minute call. Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY
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Introducing Holly Randall Unfiltered – Adriana Chechik on Her Wild Career
11/01/2023
Introducing Holly Randall Unfiltered – Adriana Chechik on Her Wild Career
Are you a fan of adult entertainment? Then, you've got to listen to one of our favorite podcasts: Holly Randall Unfiltered. In this sample from Holly's show, the iconic performer Adriana Chechick joins Holly for an interview that shows Adriana's MANY sides! You’ll hear about her upbringing in foster care, her honest reflections on career regrets, and why she finds gangbangs empowering. Adriana will surprise you with her brutally honest insight on a storied career that brought her so much fame, and why she has decided to leave it all behind. Holly Randall Unfiltered is available anywhere you listen to podcasts, as well as on YouTube, Instagram, and TikTok. Find out more at .
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Fluid Relationships vs. Polyamory with Kate Loree - 212
10/29/2023
Fluid Relationships vs. Polyamory with Kate Loree - 212
Ever felt confined by the choice of monogamy or polyamory? What options lie between those two ends of the spectrum? And what happens if what’s right for you changes over time? Sex- positive psychotherapist Kate Loree joins Sunny to talk about navigating and customizing fluid relationship dynamics. Some of what’s covered: The significance of intention in customizable relationships Anxiety & Jealousy in non-monogamy Parenthood & fluid relationships Honesty in relationship dynamics Mindfulness & communication Couple’s privilege Fluid relationships vs relationship anarchy & more Guest Bio – Kate Loree, LMFT Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities. She is also the author of . In addition to her master’s in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE-certified sex educator and an EMDR-certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. Kate is the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships and cohosts the sex-positive podcast of the same name, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron. She’s been featured in Buzzfeed videos and has guested on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Nerd Sandra. She’s written for Good Vibrations, Hollywood Magazine, and is a frequent public speaker. Episode 212 Helpful Links & Resources Kate Loree Website: Kate Loree Facebook Kate Loree Twitter Kate Loree Instagram Kate Loree YouTube Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships book Open Deeply Podcast Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Open Deeply Podcast In Loving Memory of Jackie “Bebe” Harris Decriminalizing BDSM with NCSF, National Coalition For Sexual Freedom – Ep 185 Episode 212 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY
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Kink Education Freestyle Reddit Edition - Sunny Megatron 211
10/13/2023
Kink Education Freestyle Reddit Edition - Sunny Megatron 211
Host, Clinical Sexologist & Kink Educator Sunny Megatron Is back for a third installment of free-style BDSM education. This time she weighs in on BDSM reddit. Topics discussed: Am I a bad sub for not liking pain or degradation? What’s a praise kink? When Is humiliation play healthy and when is it detrimental? Where & how to find 1-on-1 BDSM instruction and “exploratory sessions” for kink newbies? How can I safely do breath play to the point of passing out? New partner advice: Is this how TPE and CNC works? Or is this a red flag? Guest Bio – Sunny Megatron is an award-winning Clinical Sexologist, BDSM & Certified Sexuality Educator, and media personality. She’s the host & executive producer of the Showtime original series, , co-hosts AASECT Award-winning and , and was 2021's XBIZ . Currently, she’s the Editor-in-Chief of kink-focused . Known for her one-of-a-kind, build-your-own-adventure approach to sex, kink & relationships, Sunny coined the BDSM community catch-phrase, Kink is Customizable™. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous teaching style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping others overcome shame and find their power through play and pleasure. She’s also working on her first book, “Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Adult Play.” Episode 211 Helpful Links & Resources Sunny Megatron All Links Sunny Megatron Website Hot and Healthy Erotic Humilation Recorded Class Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook BDSM Advice Subreddit BDSM AITA Subreddit Midori, Kink Educator Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Open Deeply Podcast Episode 211 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Go to and use code sunny60 to get 60% off plus free shipping Shameless Sex Podcast Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: --More at
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Emotional Dysregulation in Relationships with Megan Bhatia - Ep 210
10/06/2023
Emotional Dysregulation in Relationships with Megan Bhatia - Ep 210
Relationships, at their core, are about relating – with other people, our surroundings, our past, our future. But the truth is, most of us kinda suck at it! Enter the spiral of emotional dysregulation… In this episode, Megan Bhatia gets right to the juicy center of relating and its role in safety, power dynamics, and agreements in our relationships. Some of what we cover: Recognizing & managing emotional dysregulation Head knowledge vs. embodied knowledge Jealousy in non-monogamy Creating safety in our relationships for "No" Navigating feelings of rejection The dom and sub within ourselves When one partner's trigger sets off another's & more From monogamy to polyamory, kinky to vanilla, and even in our non-romantic relationships, understanding the nature of relating can change *everything!* Guest Bio – Megan Bhatia Megan Bhatia is the host of Amory podcast, where she and her two partners share vulnerably about their experience navigating polyamory. Viewing life through the lens of relating, Megan believes that there are endless ways to deepen our awareness when we see and understand the patterns of relating. She now works with people one-on-one and in groups to develop healthy, loving relationships starting with themselves. After traveling with her twins and two partners to over 14 countries in the last 5 years, she now happily calls Costa Rica her home. Episode 210 Helpful Links & Resources Megan Bhatia/Amory Podcast Website main website: Megan Bhatia/Amory Podcast IG FREE Self-Love mini-course Self-Love 6-month Small Group Journey The Nature Of Relating Costa Rica Retreat More on The Karpman Drama Traingle: Book - Unbound: A Woman’s Guide To Power by Kasia Urbaniak Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Open Deeply Podcast Episode 210 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: --More at
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Body Fluid Fetish & Fantasy with Luna Matatas - 209
07/07/2023
Body Fluid Fetish & Fantasy with Luna Matatas - 209
Have you ever wondered why we eroticize certain bodily fluids but consider others disgusting? Luna Matatas dives into the why and how behind body fluid fetish & fantasy Find out if squirt is really pee plus learn creative ideas for squirt play. Discover why people are into golden showers– is it humiliation? Dominance? Something else? Learn how to explore piss play safely and some surprising things about diaper play (nope, they aren’t only for adult babies). We also talk spit, tears, sweat, lactation, snot jobs, tips for negotiating fluid play with a partner, and more. Guest Bio – Luna Matatas Luna Matatas is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 15 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. She celebrates body confidence, self-adoration, and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom. She teaches a wide range of topics; including threesomes, BDSM, and sexual confidence. Luna hosts The Plug Podcast, an anal sex podcast by b-Vibe. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise. Episode 209 Helpful Links & Resources Luna Matatas Website Luna Matatas Twitter Luna Matatas Instagram Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Open Deeply Podcast Episode 209 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY Go to and use code sunny50 to get 50% off plus free shipping Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: --More at
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BONUS Introducing: Erotic Short Stories "The High-Class Escort"
06/27/2023
BONUS Introducing: Erotic Short Stories "The High-Class Escort"
We’re excited to introduce you to another show on the Pleasure Podcasts network called, . (Yes, the audio is NSFW so choose your listening time & place accordingly!) If you’re a fan of erotica and looking for a place to indulge in your wildest fantasies, then you need to listen to Erotic Short Stories. Each week, Mia will tell you a sensual story in a silky-smooth voice that will surely get you in the mood. Check out more wherever you get your podcasts.
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Mental Health & Polyamory with Kate Loree - 208
06/23/2023
Mental Health & Polyamory with Kate Loree - 208
Sex-positive psychotherapist, Kate Loree joins us to talk about managing mental health within polyamory and consensual non-monogamy -- specifically how mood and personality disorders like anxiety, depression, BPD, NPD, etc., can impact these relationships. According to NAMI one in five American adults experienced mental illness in 2020. When we combine this with consensual non-monogamy (CNM), things can become even more complex. As Kate points out, CNM tends to poke at unresolved attachment injuries more than is typical in monogamous relationships plus polyamory involves more people which means there’s more to navigate. While this conversation is geared toward non-monogamous relationships, the strategies Kate discusses can be adapted to various relationship styles, including kink dynamics and monogamous relationships. Kate Loree, LMFT Bio Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities. She is also the author of . In addition to her master’s in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE-certified sex educator and an EMDR-certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. Kate is the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships (release date 4/19/22) and cohosts the sex-positive podcast of the same name, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron. She’s been featured in Buzzfeed videos and has guested on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Nerd Sandra. She’s written for Good Vibrations, Hollywood Magazine, and is a frequent public speaker. Episode 208 Helpful Links & Resources Kate Loree Website: Kate Loree Facebook Kate Loree Twitter Kate Loree Instagram Kate Loree YouTube Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships book Open Deeply Ep 7 “Overgivers to Change Agents” Open Deeply Podcast Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Episode 208 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: --More at
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Ask Yourself About Consent with Kitty Stryker - 207
06/09/2023
Ask Yourself About Consent with Kitty Stryker - 207
As a culture, we’ve come a long way in our understanding of consent. It’s discussed in schools, on TV shows, and in popular media. But through this mainstreaming of consent, we’ve also lost some important nuance along the way. This conversation with Kitty Stryker is all about that nuance. From the complexities of consent within various power dynamics to the ways it shows up in every relationship, consent situations seem to be everywhere. Kitty lays down frameworks to help us reevaluate our personal relationships with consent and use what we learn to strengthen our bonds with friends, family, co-workers, romantic partners, and more. Kitty Stryker Bio Kitty Stryker is the author of "Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook" and the editor of "Ask: Building Consent Culture", both from Thornapple Press. She was among the first to coin the term "consent culture", writing in 2010 about the radical act of defining what you want to move towards instead of just what to avoid. A queer nerd, an asexual sex worker, an anarchist journalist; Kitty is often found blurring the edges of communities to forge coalitions and welcome more people in. She aspires to be Baba Yaga when she grows up. Episode 207 Helpful Links & Resources Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook Kitty Stryker Website Kitty Stryker Twitter Kitty Stryker Facebook Kitty Stryker Tiktok Kitty Stryker Instagram Kitty Stryker Patreon Touchy Subjects Podcast Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Episode 207 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: --More at
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Mutual Masturbation May with jessica drake - 205
05/26/2023
Mutual Masturbation May with jessica drake - 205
jessica drake joins us for an International Masturbation Month chat about mutual self-pleasure. In this conversation, we unpack the shame surrounding both solo and mutual masturbation. Plus, jessica gives tips for: Getting out of your head & into your body Prioritizing our own pleasure Building bedroom confidence Fantasy sharing & dirty talk Introducing toys & porn Compassionate & validating communication with partners Sunny & jessica go well beyond the basics, sharing important revelations gleaned from their own self-exploration and offering practical info for people anywhere on their sexual journey. jessica drake Bio Award-winning Performer, Sex Worker, Sex Educator, and the creator and producer of jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex, an award-winning educational series that delivers shame-free, consent-based Sex Ed. She has been in the adult industry for 20 years and uses her real-life experience to advocate for sex worker rights. jd (she, her) also occupies board positions with two non-profits, Feed The Streets and Tending The Garden. She is currently emerging from a three-year cocoon and is redefining her core purpose and mission, discovering the freedom that comes from possessing less fucks. Episode 206 Helpful Links & Resources jessica drake Twitter jessica drake Instagram jessica drake Onlyfans Wicked Sensual Care Website jessica drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex Website Holly Randall Unfiltered Removed from Youtube Dr. Joycelyn Elders on American Sex Podcast Open Deeply Podcast with Kate Loree & Sunny Megatron Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Episode 205 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 50% off yearly pass during the month of May (and 40% the other months of the year) and use code SUNNY Get 20% off + free shipping at with code SUNNY Go to and use code sunny60 to get 60% off plus free shipping Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: --More at
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BONUS Double Teamed with Cami & Niki - Missing Kink, Prioritizing Partners, and Restructuring FWBs Preview
05/25/2023
BONUS Double Teamed with Cami & Niki - Missing Kink, Prioritizing Partners, and Restructuring FWBs Preview
In this bonus mini-episode, we're previewing Double Teamed with Cami & Niki. Here the twins talk about their recent journeys with kink & power exchange. Hope you enjoy! Get more at
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How to Love Yourself with Lee Harrington - Ep 205
05/12/2023
How to Love Yourself with Lee Harrington - Ep 205
Most of us know how important things like self-care, self-compassion, and self-love are. But knowing and doing can sometimes be two different things. Lee Harrington not only talks about why these things are so vital but also teaches us HOW to do them. Lee walks us through forging the path to self-forgiveness, compassion, care, healthy boundary setting, and becoming our own beloved through self-courtship and deepening our most important relationship -- the one we’re in with ourselves. As a bonus for kinky folks, the tools Lee lays out can easily be adapted to your self-collaring journey too. And as a bonus for everyone, this process not only helps strengthen your relationship with yourself, it can help you become a better friend or partner to others too. Lee Harrington Bio Lee Harrington (he/they) is an internationally known spirituality, identity, relationships, and personal authenticity author and educator. He brings a combination of playful engagement and thoughtful academic dialogue to a broad audience, having taught classes, shared presentations, and delivered keynotes worldwide for over twenty years. An award-winning author and editor on gender, sexual, and sacred experience, his many books include “Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond,” “Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macrame,” and “Traversing Gender: Understanding Transgender Journeys.” He has been blogging online since 1998 and has been teaching since 2001. You can check out Lee’s adventures, as well as his podcast, tour schedule, free essays, videos, and more, over at . Episode 205 Helpful Links & Resources Become Your Own Beloved: A Guide to Delighting in Self-Connection by Lee Harrington Lee Harrington Website Lee Harrington Twitter Lee Harrington YouTube Lee Harrington Patreon Lee Harrington Instagram Lee Harrington Facebook Lee Harrington Fetlife Passion And Soul Podcast Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Episode 205 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY Holly Randall Unfiltered Podcast Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: --More at
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Authentic Kink & BDSM Community Lessons w/ Mollena Williams-Haas Ep 204 (Pt. 2)
04/28/2023
Authentic Kink & BDSM Community Lessons w/ Mollena Williams-Haas Ep 204 (Pt. 2)
How do you live your authentic kink life when your needs don't match up with the BDSM community status quo? In part 1 (ep 203) Mollena Williams-Haas told us how returning to the leather community after parting ways sparked an unexpected journey of healing and growth. In this discussion, Mollena shares practical advice for digging past the stereotypical BDSM “supposed to’s” in order to identify your needs and honor them. D/s relationships are about making life better for both doms and subs -- but how exactly do we go about that? Mollena has some helpful answers … Mollena Williams-Haas Bio Mollena is a writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller, sobriety fiend since March 2007, and Award-Winning Executive Pervert. Owned & collared by renowned contemporary composer Georg Friedrich Haas, she serves as his beloved slave, submissive, wife, servant, and Muse. February 2016 saw a groundbreaking piece about their relationship featured in the . They are also both the subject of the documentary . As a two-time leather title holder and kink educator, Mollena's viewpoints on Kink-related issues are frequently sought after by sources like , , , , etc. A frequent guest expert on Dan Savage’s “,” Tristan Taormino’s “”, and Margaret Cho’s “” podcast, she’s even spoken about Kink at Harvard, Yale, and Princeton. Mollena is also the co-author of the “” and “. A professional stage performer since age 5, Mollena’s credits include and co-starring with Danny Bonaduce in underground cult-classic Her short film, , won “Cinekink’s Best Experimental Film." Mollena’s latest performance piece and movie is Hyena, a collaboration with her husband. Mollena also appeared on . Her latest endeavor is . (Mollena's Full Bio: ) Episode 204 Helpful Links & Resources Part 1 of this discussion, Episode 203 All That and Mo, Podcast hosted by Mollena Lee Williams Haas Kink Doula Mollena Lee Williams Haas Website Mollena Lee Williams Haas Facebook Mollena Lee Williams Haas Instagram Mollena Lee Williams Haas Twitter Mollena Lee Williams Haas Patreon Mollena on RISK! Episode 442 “Slave” Hyena Teaser Trailer The Artist and the Pervert Trailer The Artist and the Pervert Documentary on Amazon The Restrict Act Bill S. 686 ResistBot Find & Contact your Legislators Chat GPT Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Episode 204 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 40% off Beducated’s yearly pass and use code SUNNY Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY Go to and use code sunny60 to get 60% off plus free shipping Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education:
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Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas - From Sluts & Scholars Podcast
04/27/2023
Peg the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas - From Sluts & Scholars Podcast
Today we are sharing a preview from one of our favorite podcasts that we think you’ll enjoy. On Sluts and Scholars, therapist and sexologist Nicoletta Heidegger talks with diverse professionals about all things pleasure and sexuality. In this preview, strap in for some strap on information with Sex and Pleasure Educator Luna Matatas. Nicoletta and Luna talk about pegging, anal play, and why it is so hard to just receive pleasure. Join these slutty scholars as they help to make your sex smarter, and your smarts sexier. Listen to Sluts and Scholars at and follow them on Insta @slutsandscholars
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Gaslighting, Red Flags & Manipulation - Cultivating H.E.R Space Podcast Preview
04/18/2023
Gaslighting, Red Flags & Manipulation - Cultivating H.E.R Space Podcast Preview
Today we’re sharing a preview of a new podcast we’re enjoying and we think you will too! On this episode of the Cultivating H.E.R. Space podcast, Dr. Dom and Terri have a deep conversation about the truth of gaslighting, red flags, and manipulation. Maybe you’ve heard these terms recently, but do you really know what they mean? Accessing the language around these pieces of the cycles of abuse can help you create a toolkit that can help you identify them earlier in your relationships. Knowing these terms can also help you identify when you have been the initiator of potentially harmful behavior. Listen to this episode with your journal and a ton of grace and self-compassion. Terri and Dr. Dom clearly lay out the signs so that you can see them early and make decisions from a centered place. Listen to Cultivating H.E.R. Space at Enjoy!
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Lessons from the BDSM Leather Community with Mollena Williams-Haas - Ep 203
04/14/2023
Lessons from the BDSM Leather Community with Mollena Williams-Haas - Ep 203
Mollena Williams-Haas, a.k.a. The Kink Doula, is back to serve up a slice of community healing. As a BDSM Leather community veteran and legend, Mollena understands the challenges of living your truth when it falls outside of the alt-sex status quo. In this convo, she shares how her rocky relationship with a community she once loved transformed into an unexpected journey of healing and growth. And, in true Mollena fashion, the insights she gleaned from this transformative, powerful experience are life lessons we can all benefit from, no matter our chosen community or family. This is part one of our two-episode extended conversation. Mollena Williams-Haas Bio Mollena is an NYC-born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller, sobriety fiend since March 2007, and Award-Winning Executive Pervert. Owned and collared by renowned contemporary composer Georg Friedrich Haas since 2013, she serves as his beloved slave, submissive, wife, servant, and Muse. February 2016 saw a groundbreaking piece about their relationship featured in the . Active in the Leather community since 1996 and teaching since 1998, Mollena's viewpoints on Kink-related issues are frequently sought after by sources like , , , , etc. She is a frequent guest expert on Dan Savage’s “,” Tristan Taormino’s “”, and Margaret Cho’s “” podcast. She’s even spoken about Kink at Harvard, Yale, and Princeton. Molena is also a leather titleholder– and . She’s the co-author of the “.” and “. A professional stage performer since the age of 5, Mollena’s credits include singing on the soundtrack for and co-starring with Danny Bonaduce in underground cult-classic Her short film, , won the “Cinekink’s Best Experimental Film" Award. Mollena’s latest performance piece is Hyena, a collaboration with her husband. They are also both the subject of the documentary . Mollena also appeared on . Her latest endeavor is . Mollena's Full Bio: Episode 203 Helpful Links & Resources All That and Mo, Podcast hosted by Mollena Lee Williams Haas Kink Doula Mollena Lee Williams Haas Website Mollena Lee Williams Haas Facebook Mollena Lee Williams Haas Instagram Mollena Lee Williams Haas Twitter Mollena Lee Williams Haas Patreon Mollena on RISK! Episode 442 “Slave” Hyena Teaser Trailer The Artist and the Pervert Trailer The Artist and the Pervert Documentary on Amazon The Restrict Act Bill S. 686 ResistBot Find & Contact your Legislators Chat GPT Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Episode 203 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Sluts and Scholars Podcast Double Teamed Podcast Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education:
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Pornhub on Netflix & Free Speech with Mike Stabile - Ep 202
03/31/2023
Pornhub on Netflix & Free Speech with Mike Stabile - Ep 202
Mike Stabile, who appeared in Netflix’s Moneyshot: The Pornhub Story joins us to talk about important details that didn’t make it into the documentary. Some of what we discuss: The aftermath of the 2020 New York Times article that shook up the adult industry How the far-reaching consequences affect us all Who’s behind the Traffickinghub campaign, related anti-trafficking organizations & why What Pornhub did wrong & did right The role of adult performers in maintaining checks & balances in the industry The ins & outs of data collection & site moderation on Pornhub The recent surprise announcement that Pornhub was acquired by a company called Ethical Capital Partners Guest Bio – Mike Stabile Mike Stabile is an activist, journalist, and documentary filmmaker who has written about and advocated for the rights of sex workers and sexual speech for over a decade. His firm, Polari Media, has developed press and media strategies for some of the adult industry's most well-known brands. Mike currently serves as the Director of Public Affairs at Free Speech Coalition, the trade and advocacy group for the adult industry. Episode 202 Helpful Links & Resources Mike Stabile Twitter Free Speech Coalition FSC Twitter MoneyShot: The Porn Hub Story on Netflix The Restrict Act Bill S. 686 ResistBot Find & Contact your Legislators Chat GPT Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Episode 201 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY Holly Randall Unfiltered Podcast Multiamory Podcast Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education:
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Racial Inequity, BIPOC Sexuality & The Pleasure Revolution with Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons - Ep 201
03/17/2023
Racial Inequity, BIPOC Sexuality & The Pleasure Revolution with Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons - Ep 201
Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons joins us for a conversation about the ways racial inequity hurts the sex lives of BIPOC folks. Although many view sex as an escape from the stresses of real-world issues and a common experience we all share -- it’s not that simple. Orgasms are not the great equalizer. Political, cultural, and systemic societal forces have everything to do with the ways we experience pleasure. Some of what we unpack in this episode: How the belief that only men who have money deserve sex impacts BIPOC communities The importance of distinguishing between pleasure worthiness & entitlement Why sex ed in schools & adult pleasure education are key Tips for navigating cultural pressures in relationships while prioritizing pleasure, boundaries & survival Why good sex can be an act of revolution & resistance How race, capitalism, and sex intersect in complex ways What we can do as allies & PoC to shift the culture, subvert systems & more Guest Bio – Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons is an of counseling psychology at the University of Kentucky, where she studies sexual wellness and liberation. She is the host of and , a liberation podcast that asks people with multiple marginalized identities what the world would be like if it loved them. She has published over 50 research articles and has been featured in the , the APA Monitor, Good Housekeeping, , Blavity, , and the . Episode 201 Helpful Links & Resources Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons Website Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons Instagram Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons Facebook Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons Twitter F*ck the System: A Sexual Liberation Podcast FTS Podcast on TikTok How to Love A Human Podcast Women Of Color Sexual Health Network Sex Positive Families Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Episode 201 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Build your credit score with Bawdy Storytelling Podcast - CockTales Dirty Discussions - Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education:
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Gender Norms In the Kink Community with Veronika Kestrel - Ep 200
03/03/2023
Gender Norms In the Kink Community with Veronika Kestrel - Ep 200
Veronika Kestrel joins us for a conversation about creating safe & inclusive kink spaces for everyone across the gender spectrum. Despite the BDSM subculture's roots in the queer community & emphasis on inclusivity, many communities remain steeped in heteronormativity, leading to the fetishization and othering of gender non-conforming and trans people. Some of what we touch on: Why gender bias exists in kink The commodification & politicization of GNC & trans kinksters Tips for vetting communities & individuals The responsibilities of allies & accomplices Issues with sissy play & cuckolding Commonalities between marginalized groups in BDSM & more Guest Bio – Veronika Kestrel Veronika Kestrel (She/Her) is a Professional Dominatrix and kink lifestyle educator affiliated with the Los Angeles Sanctuary. A 15-year veteran of the kink lifestyle, she began her kink journey in the Denver community and relocated to Southern California in 2018, where she helped facilitate trans-focused events in the Orange County scene. Since then, she has conducted clinics for the LA Sanctuary, CancerPhase Productions, and at numerous private venues. She was a panelist at DomCon 2022, and has appeared on "Your Kinky Friends", "Pink Kink Podcast", and, of course, "American Sex Podcast"! She prides herself in her efforts to make Kink a friendlier, more ethical, and inclusive community in any way she can. She can be often found helping facilitate newbie-focused events in her local community and hosting the Kestrel Industries Monthly Doll Play munch in Anaheim, CA. Episode 200 Helpful Links & Resources Veronika Kestrel Tiktok Veronika Kestrel OnlyFans Veronika Kestrel Instagram Veronika Kestrel Twitter https://twitter.com/VeronikaKestrel Veronika Kestrel FetLife Ep 176 Dollification with Veronika Kestrel The Dom/sub Virtual Summit on demand VIP Package $99 94 Nonbinary BDSM Titles & Honorifics Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Episode 200 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! Build your credit score with Pleasure Podcasts Network Sunny’s on Demand recorded BDSM classes: 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY –To support American Sex Podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education:
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Grooming in BDSM Relationships with Sunny Megatron - Ep 199
02/17/2023
Grooming in BDSM Relationships with Sunny Megatron - Ep 199
Adult grooming is often misunderstood -- from what it looks like, to who is most vulnerable, what types of people groom, and why -- most assume it can’t happen to them. The fact is, grooming comes in many forms and can happen in any type of relationship - including BDSM dynamics. And because kink often involves power imbalances, it can be especially difficult to recognize in this context. Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned veteran, episode 199 of American Sex will give you the tools to spot unhealthy power dynamics in BDSM and deconstruct preconceived notions of what manipulative abuse looks like, who can do it, and why. You'll also learn: How the 6 stages of grooming apply to D/s dynamics How to recognize coercive abuse in BDSM relationships How pop culture kink stereotypes fuel grooming within BDSM The reasons groomers manipulate & who they are How my breakable rules analysis can help you spot unhealthy kink & more p.s. Don‘t forget to grab your FREE ticket to the Dom/sub Virtual Summit 2/20-24 where I'll be teaching my "No B.S. Approach to Consent & Safe Words." Guest Bio – Sunny Megatron is an award-winning Sexologist, BDSM & Certified Sexuality Educator, and media personality. She’s the host & executive producer of the Showtime original series, , co-hosts AASECT Award-winning and , and was 2021's XBIZ . Currently, she’s the Editor-in-Chief of kink-focused . Known for her one-of-a-kind, build-your-own-adventure approach to sex, kink & relationships, Sunny coined the BDSM community catchphrase, Kink is Customizable™. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous teaching style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping others overcome shame and find their power through play and pleasure. Currently, she’s working on her first book, “Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Adult Play.” Episode 199 Helpful Links & Resources Sunny Megatron website Sunny Megatron TikTok ? Sunny Megatron Twitter Sunny Megatron Instagram The Dom/sub Virtual Summit 2/20-24 Everything You Need to Know About Safewords by Sunny Megatron What's the Difference Between a Tradwife & Domestic Service Submissive? BDSM Test American Sex Podcast episode 193 - Safewords episode part 1 194 - Safewords episode part 2 Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook How to Tell if Your BDSM Relationship is Abusive The 6 stages of grooming Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Episode 199 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Go to and use code sunny60 to get 60% off plus free shipping Build your credit score with Shameless Sex Podcast Sex Talk With My Mom Podcast Pleasure Podcasts Network Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY _______________________________________________________________ –To support American Sex podcast/Sunny Megatron & help offset the cost of providing no-charge education: –Get friendly with us on Twitter at &
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Bonus - Free BDSM Education Dom/sub Virtual Summit
02/08/2023
Bonus - Free BDSM Education Dom/sub Virtual Summit
Here’s the quickie bonus episode link you’re looking for! Want a recap? Read on … The Dom/sub Dynamic Virtual Summit was designed to help you improve your D/s relationship & navigate the BDSM lifestyle. The Summit features 5 jam-packed days of classes from 15+ educators covering topics ranging from confidence in the bedroom to dealing with chronic illness, and everything in between. Get your free ticket to : You also have options! Attend each day during the scheduled stream with the speaker or watch the replay any time you’d like within 24 hours. You also get access to the private virtual group to talk with other attendees plus you'll get a few more free perks too. The All-Access-Pass purchase grants attendees lifetime access to the classes/materials plus a bunch of additional free education from the instructors like worksheets, passes to their paid digital classes, etc (I’m surprised at how much stuff is offered, TBH -- and I’m not easily impressed, lol!). Thanks & hope to see you there! p.s. Keep an eye on my socials for my All-Access-Pass giveaway too! And here’s the link to my @SunnyMegatron social media posts about the D/s Dynamics Virtual Summit if you'd like to share or read what others have to say: , , ,
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Global BDSM with Midori - Ep 198
12/23/2022
Global BDSM with Midori - Ep 198
Midori joins us to discuss Japanese BDSM & why recognizing fundamental differences in various cultures around the world is the key to understanding the how & why behind kink. We talk about differences in consent & safety, how differing social norms & hierarchies influence our collective play styles, and how these insights can enhance our own relationships. Most of us aren’t great at recognizing our way isn’t the only way. But even if you plan on never venturing outside your local BDSM community, a global perspective can broaden your understanding of the psychology behind what we all do, no matter where we do it. Guest Bio – Midori “Your Fairy God-Auntie of Kink. Exploding Expectations. Challenging Conventions.” Trailblazing educator, sexologist, artist, and irritant to banality, Midori founded Rope Dojo and ForteFemme: Women’s Dominance Intensive. She penned the first English instruction book on Shibari, “Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” in 2001, paving the way for the popularity of rope. Dan Savage calls her the “Super Nova of Kink,” while others affectionately call her Auntie Midori for her cool, tell-it-like-it-is, funny, reality-based teaching. She is also the author of “Wild Side Sex,” “Master Han’s Daughter,” and “Silk Threads.” Education, Coaching, Private Learning & Art: . Special membership perks! Learn, laugh, and enjoy her special online classes, events, and art at where she is working on her next shibari book! Episode 198 Helpful Links & Resources Midori Twitter Midori Instagram Midori Newsletter Midori class/event calendar Midori’s Patreon What's the Difference Between a Tradwife & Domestic Service Submissive? Dear Gen Z Tradwives: Have You Considered Kink Instead? Caning Fetish & the Surprising Reason Behind Its Popularity Everything You Ever Wanted To Know About Santa Fetish 20 Christmas Roleplay Ideas Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Zipper Magazine Instagram Zipper Magazine Twitter Zipper Magazine Facebook Zipper Magazine Youtube Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Episode 198 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Good Moms Bad Choices Podcast Private Parts Unknown Podcast Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy & 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) 10% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link and the code SUNNY at checkout 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY (and a 40% off everything Black Friday sale!) _______________________________________________________________ –Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] –To support American Sex podcast, please visit (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) –Get friendly with us on Twitter at or visit or americansexpodcast.com –Join our mailing list by visiting
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Inclusion & Race In Kink with Phrygian Monk - Ep 197
11/25/2022
Inclusion & Race In Kink with Phrygian Monk - Ep 197
Fact: The BDSM world has a race problem. Queer, Black, kink educator, Phrygian Monk joins us to talk about it. This conversation stemmed from one of their no-nuance November observations: “Kinktok is heavily segregated and pretty racist – like 1950s level.” They bring all the nuance and then some. We discuss why it’s essential for everyone to consider how different forms of play relate to POC kinksters, why we should take a pause before condemning all forms of race play, why many kinksters of color never feel fully safe playing with white folks, what those in the community can do to foster genuine inclusivity and be actively anti-racist, and more. Guest Bio – Phrygian Monk Phrygian Monk (They/Them) is a BDSM presenter and educator who is bringing diversity and a new outlook to kink education. With a 5-plus year background engaging in the kink and leather communities, Monk has decided to take the education that they have received, and pass that on to their fellow peers. With classes in subjects such as vetting, negotiation, and various forms of play, Monk hopes to connect with fellow younger kinksters and provide a space for peer learning and education. Also an activist in the kinky world, Monk uses their experiences and knowledge as a black queer individual to share about and fight for a more inclusive and safer community for all people. Having hosted and participated in various talks, discussion groups, and panels on the subject of race, racism, and how they impact the kink community, Monk hopes to see change, growth, and diversity flourish in local communities and individuals as they introspect, grow, and become active participants in fighting for a community that is for everyone. Episode 197 Helpful Links & Resources Phrygian Monk TikTok No Nut November Race & Kink Series with Marla Renee Stewart & Luna Matatas Loladex, Dirty Lola’s list of marginalized pleasure educators Challenge at the Intersection of Race and Kink: Racial Discrimination, Fetishization, and Inclusivity Within the BDSM (Bondage‑Discipline, Dominance‑Submission, and Sadism‑Masochism) Community Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Zipper Magazine website Zipper Magazine Instagram Zipper Magazine Twitter Zipper Magazine Facebook Zipper Magazine Youtube Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Episode 197 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy & 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) 10% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link and the code SUNNY at checkout 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY (and a 40% off everything Black Friday sale!) _______________________________________________________________ –Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] –To support American Sex podcast, please visit (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) –Get friendly with us on Twitter at or visit or americansexpodcast.com –Join our mailing list by visiting
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Communication & Jealousy in Polyamory with Kate Loree - Ep 196
10/28/2022
Communication & Jealousy in Polyamory with Kate Loree - Ep 196
Having difficult conversations with one partner is hard enough. When consensual non-monogamy is part of the equation it can feel overwhelming. In this episode, therapist Kate Loree gives insight and actionable strategies for working through uncomfortable emotions in polyamory/CNM like jealousy, envy, insecurity, and feeling disempowered. She also provides valuable tips on identifying & managing triggers with our partners and metamours. Some of what we touch on: Attachment injury Triggers Grounding techniques Getting into your “resilient zone” The EPIC communication model Guest Bio – Kate Loree, LMFT Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities. In addition to her master’s in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE-certified sex educator and an EMDR-certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. Kate is the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships (release date 4/19/22) and cohosts the sex-positive podcast of the same name, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron. She’s been featured in Buzzfeed videos, and has guested on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Nerd Sandra. She’s written for Good Vibrations, Hollywood Magazine and is a frequent public speaker. Episode 196 Helpful Links & Resources Kate Loree Website: Kate Loree Facebook Kate Loree Twitter Kate Loree Instagram Kate Loree YouTube Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships book Open Deeply Podcast Ken Melvoin-Berg's Thunderpants Academy Gaming Page Ken Melvoin-Berg's Twitter Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Zipper Magazine website Zipper Magazine Instagram Zipper Magazine Twitter Zipper Magazine Facebook Zipper Magazine Youtube Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Episode 196 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at For 40% off unlimited access to Calm’s entire library go to Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy & 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) 10% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link and the code SUNNY at checkout 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY _______________________________________________________________ –Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] –To support American Sex podcast, please visit (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) –Get friendly with us on Twitter at or visit or americansexpodcast.com –Join our mailing list by visiting
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Asexual BDSM with Evie Lupine - Ep 195
10/14/2022
Asexual BDSM with Evie Lupine - Ep 195
Asexuality and kink?! Isn’t that a contradiction?! Nope! Asexual BDSM is quite common. In fact, a significant segment of the kink subculture is on the ‘ace’ spectrum. On ep 195, Evie Lupine joins to talk about it. A few of the things we discuss: Asexuality vs. Responsive Desire & how to tell the difference How someone can be asexual but still have & enjoy sex Why the kink community appeals to many aces What IS sex? Do we have the definition all wrong? The relationship between sex & BDSM + why some allosexuals prefer “platonic kink” How asexuality factors into the “Kink at Pride” discourse & more Are there asexual folks in your community or life that you’d like to understand better? Maybe you’ve considered this identity for yourself? Does it blow your mind that many ace identified people practice kink & enjoy sex? We cover a lot in this episode that will help you answer those questions! Evie Lupine Bio Evie Lupine is an asexual kink educator and YouTuber that first began her journey into the lifestyle about 7 years ago. In that time, she's been a 24/7 collared submissive, a petplayer, a bondage freak, and an occasional sadist. Her passion for learning as well as her diverse interests within kink naturally led her in the direction of helping others with their own discovery processes. She focuses on supporting folks developing happier, healthier relationships while separating the fantasy from the reality of doing BDSM everyday. Episode 195 Helpful Links & Resources Evie Lupine YouTube Evie Lupine Twitter Evie Lupine Patreon AVEN Forum (Asexual Visibility & Education Network) Emily Nagoski Come As You Are (book) Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook com Zipper Magazine Instagram Zipper Magazine Twitter Zipper Magazine Facebook Zipper Magazine Youtube Open Deeply Podcast Sunny Megatron TikTok American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Episode 195 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 20% off an at-home lab test at For 40% off unlimited access to Calm’s entire library go to Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy & 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) 10% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link and the code SUNNY at checkout 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY _______________________________________________________________ –Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] –To support American Sex podcast, please visit (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) –Get friendly with us on Twitter at or visit or americansexpodcast.com –Join our mailing list by visiting Sunny & Ken, xo!
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Safewords & The Murky Messy Nuances of BDSM - Ep 194
09/30/2022
Safewords & The Murky Messy Nuances of BDSM - Ep 194
In episode 194 of American Sex Podcast, Sunny Megatron continues her deep dive into the murky, messy, nuances of kink. She examines some of the most popular kink “rules” pertaining to consent & safewords and the grey areas that cause community friction: “Never renegotiate during a scene” “When there’s a problem someone will use their safeword” “Never do heavy impact without a warm-up” “Safewords can be abused” “Safewords are for sex and BDSM” This episode will help you diversify what’s in your consent toolbox, assess risks in intimate situations, evaluate exceptions to BDSM rules, differentiate personal preferences from useful & inclusive best practices, and more. Sunny Megatron Bio is an award-winning BDSM & Certified Sexuality Educator, Certified Relationship Coach, and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, , plus co-hosts AASECT Award-winning and . Sunny was also named XBIZ 2021 and is Editor-in-Chief of kink-focused . Known for her one-of-a-kind build-your-own-adventure approach to sex, kink & relationships, Sunny coined the BDSM community catchphrase, Kink is Customizable™. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping others overcome shame and find power through play and pleasure. Currently, she’s working on her first book, “Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Adult Play.” Episode 194 Helpful Links & Resources The History of SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) vs. RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) Putting SSC in perspective TikTok Video Why do many consider SSC harmful and outdated? Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Everything You Need to Know About Safewords by Sunny Megatron ZipperMagazine.com Zipper Magazine Instagram Zipper Magazine Twitter Zipper Magazine Facebook Zipper Magazine Youtube Open Deeply Podcast Sunny Megatron TikTok Ken’s charity DnD game Mondays 4pm-7pm PT American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Episode 194 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at 20% off an at-home lab test at Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy & 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) 10% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link and the code SUNNY at checkout 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY _______________________________________________________________ –Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] –To support American Sex podcast, please visit (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) –Get friendly with us on Twitter at or visit or americansexpodcast.com –Join our mailing list by visiting Sunny & Ken, xo!
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Safe Words, Consent & Customizing Your Kink - Ep 193
09/16/2022
Safe Words, Consent & Customizing Your Kink - Ep 193
Safe words aren't as deep & complicated as we make them out to be. They aren’t necessarily as simple as we think either. In kink & sex, safe words are simple communication tools that stop the action & trigger a predetermined protocol. What they mean, how they're used & what you do after is up to you. How do you decide that? Episode 193 of American Sex Podcast will help you figure it out. This convo was inspired by a listener suggestion to unpack some of the fiercest kink community debates about consent, how BDSM *should* be done, and the customizability of kink. Sunny Megatron explores ways you can evaluate BDSM rules and decide if, when, and how much to customize them to fit your own needs. She does this entirely through the lens of safe words and consent. This is also the first show back from summer hiatus and in the intro, Sunny announces some big changes for the future of both American Sex and their family. Episode 193 Links Everything You Need to Know About Safewords by Sunny Megatron Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook ZipperMagazine.com Zipper Magazine Instagram Zipper Magazine Twitter Zipper Magazine Facebook Zipper Magazine Youtube Open Deeply Podcast Sunny Megatron TikTok Ken’s charity DnD game Mondays 4pm-7pm PT American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Episode 193 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! For 40% off unlimited access to Calm’s entire library go to 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at 20% off an at-home lab test at Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy & 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) 10% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link and the code SUNNY at checkout 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY _______________________________________________________________ –Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] –To support American Sex podcast, please visit (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) –Get friendly with us on Twitter at or visit or americansexpodcast.com –Join our mailing list by visiting Sunny & Ken, xo!
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The BDSM Test w/ Midori & Joe Zarate-Sanderlin - Ep 192
06/27/2022
The BDSM Test w/ Midori & Joe Zarate-Sanderlin - Ep 192
“The BDSM Test” is infamous in the kink community and beyond. Since 2014, thousands have proudly posted results like a badge of honor on FetLife profiles. We use it as a roadmap, educational tool, and kink negotiation starter. It’s even gone vanilla as the focus of social media challenges and pop magazine writeups. But is this kink subculture phenomenon all it's cracked up to be? While some find it helpful & validating, many say it’s othering, stigmatizing, and normalizes red-flag behavior disguised as “kink.” Midori & kinky therapist Joe Zarate-Sanderlin join us on ep 192 to deconstruct the BDSM test question by question + explore its wider impact. Why don't we scrutinize it the same way vet other educational sources? Who wrote this kink test, why, and what are they using the massive amount of data they’re collecting about our deviant desires for? Turns out, it’s a bit of a mystery… Midori Bio “Your Fairy God-Auntie of Kink. Exploding Expectations. Challenging Conventions.” Trailblazing educator, sexologist, artist, and irritant to banality, Midori founded Rope Dojo and ForteFemme: Women’s Dominance Intensive. She penned the first English instruction book on Shibari, “Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” in 2001, paving the way for the popularity of rope. Dan Savage calls her the “Super Nova of Kink,” while others affectionately call her Auntie Midori for her cool, tell-it-like-it-is, funny, reality-based teaching. She is also the author of “Wild Side Sex,” “Master Han’s Daughter,” and “Silk Threads.” Education, Coaching, Private Learning & Art: . Special membership perks! Learn, laugh, and enjoy her special online classes, events, and art at where she is working on her next shibari book! Joe Zarate-Sanderlin Bio "Joe Zarate-Sanderlin, an Assigned Male at Birth non-binary person (pronouns: they/them/theirs), came of age in the New York City kink scene in the late 1990s and early 2000s and they have connections in the Boston and San Francisco kink communities. They are a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a private practice in San Francisco where they specialize in working with gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity. They teach several courses at Golden Gate University and were recognized as an Outstanding Adjunct Professor for 2022. They provide training and consultation regarding Talking to Clients about Sex, Gender in Psychotherapy, Open Relationships, BDSM Relationships, and other topics. In addition to private practice, their clinical experience includes being supervised by Dossie Easton for two and half years plus volunteering at a Catholic school for three years, a continuation high school for one year, and at a low-fee clinic for four years. They worked for the Burning Man Emergency Services Department for ten years, both in the Nevada desert and in the streets of San Francisco. In their spare time, they ski, coach and referee soccer, brew kombucha, dance to 80s music, and parent elementary-aged old twins." Episode 192 Links Midori Twitter Midori Instagram Midori Newsletter Midori class/event calendar Midori’s Patreon Joe Zarate-Sanderlin Twitter Joe Zarate-Sanderlin Website Joe Zarate-Sanderlin Email: [email protected] Joe Zarate-Sanderlin GGU Presents: Empathic Communication Joe Zarate-Sanderlin Gender Inclusive Language Joe Zarate-Sanderlin Rebel Therapist: Express Yourself The BDSM Test @FocusedOnInfinity “Welcome to America” @MargaretCho “Don’t Be Scared” TASHRA -THE ALTERNATIVE SEXUALITIES HEALTH RESEARCH ALLIANCE CARAS - The Community-Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative Sexualities Sexual Health Alliance Kink Informed Certification Program for Therapists & Care Professionals Romancing the Shadow: Challenging Limiting Beliefs Through Kink- Midori Additional Links ZipperMagazine.com Zipper Magazine Instagram Zipper Magazine Twitter Zipper Magazine Facebook Zipper Magazine Youtube Open Deeply Podcast Sunny Megatron TikTok Ken’s charity DnD game Mondays 4pm-7pm PT American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Episode 192 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 15% off AND free shipping when you go to OR enter code SUNNY at checkout Get up to 2 free months of podcasting service with Libsyn using this link or use code SUNNY Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy & 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link and the code SUNNY at checkout 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY _______________________________________________________________ –Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] –To support American Sex podcast, please visit (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) –Get friendly with us on Twitter at or visit or americansexpodcast.com –Join our mailing list by visiting Sunny & Ken, xo!
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Kink & BDSM Myth Busting w/ Sunny Megatron - Ep 191
06/20/2022
Kink & BDSM Myth Busting w/ Sunny Megatron - Ep 191
Kink & BDSM stigma is alive and well in the mainstream, in our own communities, and even in professional/academic spheres. In episode 191 of American Sex Podcast, Sunny Megatron busts some of the most common kink myths + provides clinical & academic resources for therapists, academics, and skeptical naysayers. She deconstructs the following kink & BDSM myths: Kink is always sexual and platonic kink does not exist Kink is considered abnormal by psychologists & the scientific community There's a dramatic difference between academic/clinical understanding of kink (that's always more accurate) and BDSM community education Dark age play aka sexual littles' play is abusive and reenacting pedophilia Kink practitioners engage in unhealthy self-harm by proxy and/or glorify abuse Kinks are caused by unresolved trauma … and more! Sunny Megatron Bio is an award-winning BDSM & Certified Sexuality Educator, Certified Relationship Coach, and media personality. She’s the host and executive producer of the Showtime original television series, , plus co-hosts AASECT Award-winning and . Sunny was also named XBIZ 2021 and is Editor-in-Chief of . Known for her one-of-a-kind build-your-own-adventure approach to sex, kink & relationships, Sunny coined the BDSM community catch-phrase, Kink is Customizable™. In her sell-out workshops, her unique brand of “edutainment” seamlessly combines her humorous lecturing style, interactive exercises, and the latest sexuality research. Sunny’s passion is helping others overcome shame and find power through play and pleasure. Currently, she’s working on her first book, “Customizable Kink: A Strategic Guide to Adult Play.” Episode 191 Links Sunny Megatron website Sunny Megatron TikTok ? Sunny Megatron Twitter Sunny Megatron Instagram ZipperMagazine.com Science of BDSM Research Team Tell Me What You Want Dr. Justin Lehmiller Sex and Psychology Podcast Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS) TASHRA -THE ALTERNATIVE SEXUALITIES HEALTH RESEARCH ALLIANCE CARAS - The Community-Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative Sexualities AASECT - The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists Sexual Health Alliance Kink Informed Certification Program for Therapists & Care Professionals Why Good Sex Matters Book by Nan Wise, PhD Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose, Leigh Cowart Play: How it Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul, by Stewart Brown, M.D. & Christopher Vaughan The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment, Jack Morin Ph.D. Woodhull Sexual Freedom Foundation 2018 Research, Littles: Affects and Aesthetics in Sexual Age-Play (“Download” unlocks the free PDF) Why You Need BDSM's "Prime Directive" By Mollena Williams-Haas Romancing the Shadow: Challenging Limiting Beliefs Through Kink- Midori Prior Related Episodes Therapeutic Kink With Andrea Glik – Ep 189 Attachment Styles With Aida Manduley – Ep 130 The Science Of Sexual Fantasy With Dr. Justin Lehmiller – Ep 74 Kink Informed Therapists & Care Professionals W/ Midori – Ep 165 Geek Therapy With Nicki Line – Ep 155 Sex, Kink & Trauma W/ Jamila M. Dawson August Mclaughlin - Ep 173 Decriminalizing BDSM W/NCSF, National Coalition For Sexual Freedom – Ep 185 Rethinking Kink With Kate Loree & Sunny Megatron – Ep 184 BDSM Community Real Talk w/ Sunny Megatron & Kate Loree – Ep 188 Kink Education Freestyle w/ Sunny Megatron – Ep 172 Kink Education Freestyle Part 2 w/Sunny Megatron – Ep 180 Additional Links Zipper Magazine Instagram Zipper Magazine Twitter Zipper Magazine Facebook Zipper Magazine Youtube Open Deeply Podcast Sunny Megatron TikTok Ken’s charity DnD game Mondays 4pm-7pm PT American Sex Podcast Discord Community American Sex Podcast Patreon Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library Sunny’s Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook Episode 191 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY 15% off AND free shipping when you go to OR enter code SUNNY at checkout Get up to 2 free months of podcasting service with Libsyn using this link or use code SUNNY Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy & 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart & the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link and the code SUNNY at checkout 15% off most items from Stockroom with code SUNNY _______________________________________________________________ –Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] –To support American Sex podcast, please visit (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) –Get friendly with us on Twitter at or visit or americansexpodcast.com –Join our mailing list by visiting Sunny & Ken, xo!
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