The Surviving Siblings Podcast

This is a show where I share my journey about losing my brother. I realized after losing him in 2016 to a homicide and struggling for years after that there is little to no support for surviving siblings. We are expected to lose our parents and grandparents so naturally there are resources for those losses. When parents lose a child, that is one of the most tragic things that can happen and there are resources. But what happens to siblings? What happens to those of us who lose our brothers and sisters? We are deeply affected and impacted. Yet, hardly anyone talks about this topic. In the past five years, I have found half a dozen books and only one support group. I still miss my brother everyday. We don't expect to lose our siblings as we expect to go through life with them, not without them. This podcast is for you whether you have lost a brother or sister or if you are wanting to understand and support someone who has. I also dedicate this podcast to my brother, Andreas, as he was never afraid to speak his truth and tell his story. Now, I will be sharing my story of loss as a surviving sibling with you. I will also have incredible guests on the show to share their experiences as well. I hope this helps you and you know that you are not alone. XXX Surviving Siblings

Jessica Loses Jen To Addiction 06/25/2025

Jessica Loses Jen To Addiction In this heartfelt episode of The Surviving Siblings Podcast, host Maya Roffler welcomes Jessica Meyer, a bereaved sibling who lost her younger sister, Jen, to fentanyl addiction in 2021. Jessica opens up about the deep bond they shared growing up in a tight-knit Mexican-Jewish family and how addiction slowly dismantled their lives. Jen was so much more than her addiction—an empathetic, talented athlete and the life of every room she entered. Jessica walks us through Jen’s undiagnosed Tourette’s and ADHD, how she began self-medicating with Ambien as a teenager, and how this evolved into decades of addiction, multiple rehabs, and painful relapses. Jen later found purpose helping others through recovery—but her battle with addiction continued in secret. Jessica shares the heartbreaking story of Jen’s final days, her passing just 48 hours after her daughter left for college, and the raw aftermath of losing her lifelong best friend. She also reveals the shocking discovery of a drug trafficking ring tied to Jen’s death, her fight for justice, and the family’s grief journey that followed. This powerful episode is an unflinching look at sibling loss through addiction and the devastating reality of fentanyl-related deaths. Jessica’s vulnerability, courage, and passion to honor Jen’s legacy through her jewelry brand, Bullet Girl, is a tribute to both pain and purpose. In This Episode: (00:01:00) – Jessica & Jen's Bond Jessica shares their close-knit childhood, imaginative games, and growing up inseparable in a loving family. (00:03:00) – Early Signs: Tourette's, ADHD & Ambien Use Jen’s tics and impulsivity went undiagnosed for years. Ambien use in her teens became the beginning of her addiction journey. (00:08:00) – The Beginnings of Addiction Jessica reflects on Jen’s coping mechanisms, her early experimentation, and how recreational use escalated. (00:12:00) – College, Trauma, and First Rehab Jen’s assault trauma, college struggles, and introduction to harder drugs like crystal meth and cocaine are revealed. (00:19:00) – Marriage, Motherhood, and Addiction’s Grip Despite marrying and becoming a mom, Jen’s addiction deepened—leading to lost custody and deteriorating health. (00:24:00) – Boundaries, Guilt, and Tough Love Jessica painfully discusses the limits she had to set and the guilt of choosing distance the week before Jen passed. (00:28:00) – Jen’s Role Helping Others in Recovery Jen found strength in working at a rehab center—offering guidance to others, even as she privately relapsed. (00:33:00) – The Day Jen Passed Jessica walks us through the traumatic discovery of Jen’s body, the heartbreaking final hug, and the unanswered questions. (00:41:00) – Toxicology, Fentanyl, and Black Tar Heroin Jessica shares her detective work uncovering her sister’s fentanyl use, her dealer’s identity, and how evidence led nowhere. (00:49:00) – Justice Denied: The Aftermath Despite a paper trail and drug dealer identification, no legal justice has been served for Jen’s death—fueling the family’s heartbreak. (00:56:00) – Shame, Stigma, and Speaking Out Jessica talks about the stigma of fentanyl deaths, public silence, and the pain of people not seeing Jen beyond her addiction. (01:01:00) – Bullet Girl Jewelry & The Beautiful Struggle Jessica shares the story behind her jewelry line, the letter Jen wrote her, and the upcoming tribute collection called The Beautiful Struggle. (01:07:00) – Advice for Grieving Siblings Jessica urges listeners to give themselves grace, avoid shame, and stay grounded in love—not fear—through the grief journey This episode is sponsored by Bullet Girl Jewelry Connect with Jessica: Email: Instagram: Instagram: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/37067535

LeeAnn Loses Michael To Addiction 06/11/2025

LeeAnn Loses Michael To Addiction In this deeply honest and heartfelt episode of The Surviving Siblings Podcast, host Maya Roffler sits down with LeAnn Sullivan, a bereaved sister who lost her brother Michael to addiction in 2016. LeAnn shares her powerful story of love, loss, resilience, and healing after years of navigating a complicated family dynamic, her brother’s addiction, and her own journey through grief. Growing up with divorced parents and facing early separation from Michael, LeAnn always saw herself as his protector. Despite their time apart, they reconnected as young adults, building a bond that helped them raise their respective children together and create a deeply rooted sibling relationship. When Michael passed away unexpectedly, LeAnn’s world crumbled. But in the years since, she has turned her pain into purpose—becoming an advocate for families affected by addiction and a board member of the Shevlin Family Foundation. This episode explores the complexity of sibling grief after addiction, the layers of family trauma, and the power of transforming pain into community and service. LeAnn’s story is one of loss, but also of light—a testament to what it means to survive, heal, and honor a sibling’s legacy. In This Episode: (00:01:00) – LeAnn’s Early Life & Separation from Michael (00:03:00) – Reconnecting as Adults & Becoming a Team (00:08:00) – The Call That Changed Everything (00:10:00) – The Physical Pain of Loss & Funeral Experience (00:14:00) – Returning to Work Amidst Grief (00:17:00) – Helping Her Son Through Grief & Recovery (00:21:00) – Family Strain and the Power of Support (00:24:00) – Michael’s Addiction, Relapse & Fentanyl Crisis (00:27:00) – The Stigma of Addiction and Sharing the Truth (00:29:00) – A Turning Point: Losing Her Job & Finding Healing (00:31:00) – Creating Bowl for Hope & Meeting Christine This episode is sponsored by The Shevlin Family Foundation If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction help is available. Please reach out to a professional or call your local crisis line. You are never alone More About The Shevlin Family Foundation: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Linkedin: Connect with LeeAnn: Instagram: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/36886080

Jen Loses Teddy To Suicide 05/28/2025

Jen Loses Teddy To Suicide In this raw and profoundly moving episode of The Surviving Siblings Podcast, host Maya Roffler sits down with Jen, a bereaved sibling who lost her brother Teddy to suicide in 2017. Jen and Teddy shared an incredibly close bond, growing up as part of a large Sicilian family just outside of Boston. But their story begins even earlier—Teddy was a micro-preemie twin who survived against all odds, unknowingly carrying deep grief for his twin, Joseph, who died shortly after birth. Jen opens up about the fierce sibling connection they shared, their upbringing in a culture that didn’t talk about emotions, and the invisible scars Teddy carried after a childhood marked by severe bullying, trauma, and being misunderstood. Despite his vibrant, goofy, and deeply caring personality, Teddy struggled silently with mental health throughout his life. This episode explores the reality of surviving sibling suicide, the hidden pain many carry, and the complex journey of grief, guilt, and healing. Jen shares how she only began to process her loss years later during the pandemic and how therapy has helped her reframe her survivor’s guilt and begin to find peace. She also reflects on the final moments, the call that changed everything, and the weight of not getting to say goodbye. If you’ve ever felt the heartbreak of suicide loss, struggled with survivor’s guilt, or longed for healing in a family that doesn’t talk about grief—Jen’s story will show you that you are not alone, and your voice matters. In This Episode: (00:01:09) – Growing Up Sicilian Jen describes her “free-range childhood” and the powerful, chaotic closeness of growing up in a big Sicilian family, where cousins felt like siblings. (00:02:31) – Teddy’s Early Arrival & Twin Loss Teddy was born four months premature in 1975. His twin, Joseph, passed away shortly after birth—a fact Jen discovered years later on her own. (00:06:00) – Protector & Big Sister From defending Teddy against bullies to enduring the silence of their home life, Jen shares what it meant to be the older sister in a family that didn’t talk about pain. (00:12:00) – School, Stereotypes & Sibling Comparisons Jen reflects on how academic pressure, comparison, and cultural expectations shaped both her and Teddy in very different ways. (00:15:22) – Therapy & Rewriting the Narrative A family photo once filled with shame becomes a moment of healing thanks to therapy—Jen discusses the power of reframing grief and guilt. (00:19:00) – Discovering Teddy’s Twinhood Jen recalls the moment she discovered Teddy was a surviving twin and the emotional weight of finding a note he once wrote to God, asking if his brother was safe in heaven. (00:22:00) – 2017: The Year Everything Changed After losing his beloved grandmother and a close friend, Teddy's grief deepened. Jen shares how she never saw the signs of his declining mental health. (00:26:00) – A Life of Trauma and Suppression From childhood bullying to a near-institutionalization as a teen, Jen uncovers the deep traumas Teddy endured—and how their family culture of silence kept him from healing. (00:30:00) – Teddy’s First Suicide Attempt In 2003, Teddy survived a suicide attempt on Boston’s Tobin Bridge. Jen recounts the hospital call that changed everything—and how the stigma around mental health silenced the conversation for years. (00:32:00) – Saying Goodbye Was Not Easy Jen discusses the complicated decisions her family made after Teddy’s death, the tension surrounding his service, and the 400 people who came to say goodbye. (00:35:00) – The Call That Changed Everything Jen shares the moment she learned of Teddy’s death—and how her family’s avoidance of grief left her in prolonged shock for nearly three years. (00:42:00) – Grief Bubble & Delayed Healing Without the space to grieve immediately, Jen’s own grief journey was stunted. She talks about what it means to be “strong for the family” and the emotional cost of silence. (00:44:00) – The Pandemic Awakening It wasn’t until the COVID-19 pandemic that Jen was forced to sit with her thoughts—and finally begin to unpack her trauma and start to heal. This episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings. If you or someone you love is struggling with mental health or suicidal thoughts, help is available. Please reach out to a mental health professional or call your local crisis line. You are never alone. Connect with Jen: Facebook: Instagram: Website: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/36692650

Cryssy Loses Danielle To Leukemia 05/14/2025

Cryssy Loses Danielle To Leukemia In this heartfelt episode of the Surviving Siblings Podcast, host Maya Roffler welcomes Cryssy, a bereaved sibling who lost her younger sister, Danielle, to acute myeloid leukemia in 2012. As the oldest sibling, Cryssy took on the role of protector, caregiver, and advocate—navigating the heartbreak of watching her sister battle a devastating illness. Cryssy shares her deeply personal journey of anticipatory grief, the pain of losing Danielle at just 21 years old, and the complex emotions of grieving while trying to stay strong for her family. She opens up about the regret of not getting to say goodbye the way she wanted, the physical toll grief took on her body, and the creative, meaningful ways she keeps Danielle’s memory alive every day. This episode is a powerful conversation about sibling loss, anticipatory grief, and finding purpose after tragedy. Cryssy also shares how honoring her sister through traditions, a beloved stuffed animal, and small daily acts has helped her heal—and how grief can manifest physically in ways we might never expect. If you’ve ever felt the weight of grieving a sibling while being the “strong one” for others, Cryssy’s story will remind you that love endures, even through the pain. In This Episode: (00:01:00) – Danielle: A Birthday Gift Sister Cryssy shares how Danielle was born just two days before her own birthday, how they celebrated together, and how their sibling bond was filled with love, chaos, and laughter. (00:04:00) – Big Sister, Protector, Mama Bear Growing up as the oldest, Cryssy stepped into a protective role, helping raise Danielle and their brother, shielding them, and taking on family responsibilities from a young age. (00:05:00) – The Call That Changed Everything Cryssy recounts the moment she learned Danielle was being rushed to the hospital after a bloody nose turned into a leukemia diagnosis—and how she instantly began grieving. (00:08:00) – Facing Acute Myeloid Leukemia Cryssy explains Danielle’s diagnosis, the aggressive treatment process, and how she tried to stay hopeful on the outside while preparing herself internally for the worst. (00:11:00) – Holidays in the Hospital Danielle asked Cryssy to decorate her hospital room for Halloween and Christmas—keeping their family traditions alive despite spending their favorite holidays in a hospital room. (00:14:00) – The Final Christmas Together Cryssy reflects on their last Christmas, staying up all night talking, exchanging meaningful gifts, and creating treasured memories in what would be Danielle’s final holiday. (00:19:00) – Saying Goodbye Without Words Cryssy shares the experience of Danielle’s “surge” before passing, the bittersweet final days, and the deep regret of not being able to say goodbye the way she had hoped. (00:24:00) – Preparing Danielle’s Goodbye Honoring her sister’s love of style, Cryssy lovingly prepared Danielle for her viewing—painting her nails, doing her hair, dressing her in jewelry, and ensuring she looked radiant. (00:31:00) – A Dream Visit From Danielle Months after Danielle’s passing, Cryssy had a vivid dream of Danielle smiling and telling her, “It’s okay to be okay”—a powerful, healing moment that brought her comfort. (00:37:00) – Grief’s Physical Impact Cryssy opens up about how her grief manifested in physical illness, leading to hospitalization, sepsis, and a near-death experience that she believes Danielle helped her survive. (00:48:00) – Finding Purpose in Grief Cryssy reflects on how grief has shaped her purpose, giving her strength to help others and reminding her that grief is love in a different form. This episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings Connect with Cryssy: Tik Tok: Email: Instagram: Facebook: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/36516060

Stephanie Loses Quinton To A Car Accident 04/30/2025

Stephanie Loses Quinton To A Car Accident Maya is joined by Stephanie Murphy, who bravely shares the heartbreaking story of losing her younger brother, Quinton, to a tragic car accident in 2001 when he was just 18 years old. Stephanie opens up about their sibling bond, the fight that led to their last conversation, and the devastating night she learned her brother was gone. She shares how grief collided with unexpected motherhood, her battle with anxiety and alcohol, and how she found strength to heal—leading to nine years of sobriety and honoring Quinton's memory every step of the way. In This Episode: (00:01:00) – Sibling Dynamics: From Rivalry to Best Friends Stephanie reflects on growing up as the oldest sibling, her playful (and sometimes bossy) relationship with Quinton, and how their bond deepened during their high school years. (00:04:00) – An Ambitious Young Man with Big Dreams She shares how Quinton's drive and charisma made him stand out—working multiple jobs, managing at Chick-fil-A, buying his dream car, and planning for a future in business. (00:07:00) – The Fight That Changed Everything Stephanie recounts the emotional last conversation she had with Quinton after a disagreement over her relationship—and how that moment became their final goodbye. (00:11:00) – Missing His Graduation & Growing Distance Stephanie talks about missing Quinton's graduation due to work, the lingering family tensions, and sending a heartfelt letter in hopes of reconciling. (00:15:00) – “I Just Want to Cry…” The Night Before She describes the overwhelming emotions and strange premonition she felt the night before Quinton's accident—a deep knowing that something was wrong. (00:18:00) – The Knock at 4 AM: News No One Ever Wants Stephanie relives the devastating moment her mother arrived at her door to tell her that Quinton had died in a car accident—and how her world shattered in an instant. (00:23:00) – Finding the Unopened Letter While grieving at her parents’ house, Stephanie finds the card and letter she had sent Quinton—still sealed. She opens it at his funeral, turning it into a final tribute. (00:26:00) – What Happened That Night: The Truth About the Accident Stephanie shares what Quinton’s friend—who survived the crash—revealed about the events leading up to the accident, including alcohol, missed exits, and heartbreaking what-ifs. (00:33:00) – Grieving While Pregnant & The Anxiety That Followed Stephanie opens up about navigating grief while expecting her first child, the overwhelming anxiety that took hold, and how she struggled to find normalcy after loss. (00:38:00) – Turning to Alcohol: Numbing the Pain She discusses how grief and family history led her down a path of alcohol dependence—and how it became a coping mechanism for years. (00:40:00) – The Day Everything Changed: Choosing Sobriety On the anniversary of Quinton’s death in 2015, Stephanie made a life-altering decision. She shares what led to her nine years (and counting) of sobriety. (00:49:00) – Learning to Live Without Fear Stephanie reflects on how grief made her fear every phone call, every tragedy, and how she’s worked to regain peace—especially as a mother. (00:57:00) – Signs, Dreams & Spiritual Connection From vivid dreams to her son being born on Quentin’s birthday, Stephanie shares the powerful ways her brother continues to show up in her life. (01:03:00) – Acceptance, Growth & Honoring Quentin Stephanie discusses how she’s learned to live with grief, why healing doesn’t mean forgetting, and how she continues to make her brother proud. (01:08:00) – Advice for Surviving Siblings Stephanie offers heartfelt wisdom for those navigating sibling loss—reminding us that while grief never fully leaves, we can choose growth, joy, and purpose. This episode was sponsored by The Surviving Siblings. Connect with Stephanie: Instagram: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/36320360

Parul Loses Manu To Oral Cancer 04/16/2025

Parul Loses Manu To Oral Cancer Maya is joined by Dr. Parul Dua Makkar—dentist, grief coach, speaker, and author—who shares the heartbreaking journey of losing her only sibling, Manu, to oral cancer at just 34 years old. Parul opens up about the moment she knew something wasn’t right, the delays in diagnosis, what it was like navigating end-of-life care during the height of COVID-19, and how her grief transformed into a powerful mission. She also shares the legacy Manu left behind—his book Life Interrupted, a powerful collection of essays he wrote during his final months, which Parul helped complete and publish after his passing. In This Episode: (00:01:00) – Sibling Bond, Eight Years Apart Parul shares what it was like being a big sister to Manu—changing his diapers, watching him grow up, and how their love for dentistry helped them stay connected despite distance. (00:04:00) – Global Nomads & Deep Connections Raised across continents, Parul and Manu lived in different countries for most of their lives, but their bond stayed strong through regular visits, daily calls, and shared professional passions. (00:08:00) – “This Might Be Cancer…” Parul recalls the moment she saw the lesion in her brother’s mouth. (00:10:00) – The First Surgery & Fighting Back Manu underwent an eight-hour surgery to remove half his tongue, and despite it all, came back stronger—treating patients, traveling, buying a dog (named Maya), and embracing life with a new sense of urgency. (00:14:00) – COVID, Cancer & Compassion Release When the cancer returned in 2020, Parul had to fight to cross the U.S.-Canada border during COVID lockdowns. She shares the emotional story of writing her father a letter, asking for permission to say goodbye. (00:20:00) – “You Can Let Go…” On a video call, Parul tells her brother it’s okay to stop fighting. He passes away just hours later. She arrives in Canada to plan his funeral—grieving, and still under COVID restrictions. (00:24:00) – Loss Upon Loss Parul shares how, just three years later, she lost her father unexpectedly to cardiac arrest—just after Thanksgiving. She reflects on how it felt like her dad died of a broken heart. (00:30:00) – Oral Cancer Awareness & Early Detection As a dentist, Parul explains why oral cancer is often caught too late, how misdiagnosis happens, and what signs everyone should look for. She encourages early biopsies and routine checkups. (00:34:00) – Turning Grief into Purpose After Manu’s passing, Parul completed and published his book, Life Interrupted, which he had begun writing during treatment. She shares how publishing his words brought her healing and closure. This episode was sponsored by Duagoodjob. Connect with Parul: Facebook: Website: LinkedIn: Instagram: Youtube: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/36123960

Kayla Loses Ashley To Choking 04/02/2025

Kayla Loses Ashley To Choking In this deeply emotional episode of The Surviving Siblings Podcast, host Maya Roffler welcomes Kayla, a bereaved sibling who lost her baby sister, Ashley, in a tragic and unexpected medical event in 2006. At just eleven years old, Kayla’s world changed forever when her one-and-a-half-year-old sister suddenly stopped breathing—an event that would later be revealed as a preventable tragedy. Kayla opens up about the deep bond she shared with Ashley, the impact of her sister’s passing on their entire family, and how grief shaped her childhood, teenage years, and adulthood. She shares the devastating realization that Ashley’s death was caused by a misdiagnosed medical condition and how the hospital’s oversight led to a prolonged struggle for answers and justice. This episode explores the complexities of grieving at a young age, how Kayla’s family navigated immense loss, and the lifelong journey of healing. Kayla also discusses the anxiety and trauma that followed, the lasting effects of sibling loss, and how she has found strength in sharing her story for the first time. If you’ve ever experienced loss at a young age or struggled to process grief over the years, Kayla’s story will remind you that healing is possible, and you are not alone. In This Episode: (00:01:09) – The Role of a Big Sister Kayla reflects on growing up as the oldest sibling and the deep love she had for her younger sisters, Mia and Ashley. (00:02:41) – When Ashley Got Sick Kayla recalls the months leading up to Ashley’s passing, the concerning symptoms, and the repeated hospital visits where doctors misdiagnosed her condition. (00:06:20) – The Day That Changed Everything Kayla describes the morning she learned about Ashley’s passing and the shock of hearing the news from her father and stepmother. (00:12:00) – Attending School the Next Day Despite the tragedy, Kayla insisted on going to school, determined to maintain her perfect attendance and a sense of normalcy in the chaos of grief. (00:15:22) – Ashley’s Funeral Kayla shares the surreal experience of attending her sister’s funeral, seeing Ashley one last time, and the heartbreaking traditions her family developed to honor her memory. (00:18:00) – The Truth Behind Ashley’s Passing Weeks later, the autopsy revealed that Ashley had been choking on a peanut for months—something doctors had missed in her chest x-ray. (00:22:30) – The Aftermath: Lawsuits & Family Divides Kayla details how the misdiagnosis led to legal action against the hospital, the ripple effects it had on her family, and how relationships were fractured as blame and guilt took over. (00:35:00) – The Long-Term Impact of Grief Kayla discusses how losing Ashley at such a young age led to severe anxiety, control issues, and the fear of losing loved ones, as well as how therapy and medication have helped her manage these struggles. (00:47:00) – Healing & Moving Forward Years later, Kayla’s family has slowly started to mend. She shares how her father overcame addiction, her stepmother found ways to honor Ashley, and how she has learned to navigate life after loss. (00:56:00) – Advice for Young Bereaved Siblings Kayla reflects on what she would tell her younger self and encourages others to allow themselves to grieve, seek support, and embrace the healing process. This episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings Connect with Kayla: Facebook: Instagram: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/35803570

Elliet Loses Dylan To A 4-Wheeling Accident 03/19/2025

Elliet Loses Dylan To A 4-Wheeling Accident In this heartfelt episode of the Surviving Siblings Podcast, host Maya Roffler welcomes Elliet, a bereaved sibling who lost their younger brother, Dylan, in a tragic four-wheeling accident in 2003. At just eight years old, Elliet’s world was turned upside down when their best friend and only sibling was suddenly gone. Elliet shares their deeply personal journey of navigating grief as a child, how their parents' loss impacted the entire family dynamic, and the emotional weight of growing up as a surviving sibling. They open up about the lasting effects of guilt, the struggle of answering the dreaded "Do you have any siblings?" question, and how they’ve finally found peace and healing—20+ years later. This episode is a powerful conversation about sibling loss, the lifelong journey of grief, and the importance of self-discovery, therapy, and community support. Elliet also shares their experience of coming out as transgender and how it intersected with their grief journey, adding another layer of resilience to their incredible story. If you’ve ever felt like you had to carry the weight of grief alone, Elliet’s story will remind you that you’re not alone. In This Episode: (00:01:09) – Dylan: A Best Friend & Sidekick Elliet reflects on their childhood, growing up extremely close with Dylan, and the unique bond they shared as only siblings. (00:02:31) – The Day That Changed Everything Elliet recounts the last time they saw Dylan before the tragic accident and the gut feeling they couldn’t shake. (00:12:30) – The Moment of Realization Elliet describes the instant their world shattered and how they found out their brother was gone. (00:16:10) – Grieving as a Child Navigating grief at eight years old, dealing with unanswered questions, and feeling the weight of loss in an unexplainable way. (00:32:00) – Becoming the "Perfect" Child Elliet shares how they tried to make life easier for their parents, suppressing their own grief to avoid adding to their pain. (00:42:39) – Finding Therapy & Self-Discovery After years of struggling, Elliet opens up about how therapy, personal growth, and embracing their identity have led them toward healing. (00:50:54) – The 20-Year Milestone & Coming Out Elliet shares how the 20-year anniversary of Dylan’s passing coincided with their decision to come out as transgender, and how it deeply affected their relationship with family. (01:01:06) – The Truth About Grief Why grief never disappears—but instead, we grow around it. This episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings Connect with Elliet: Tik Tok: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/35682430

Jessica Loses Aaron To Drowning 03/05/2025

Jessica Loses Aaron To Drowning In this deeply emotional episode of the Surviving Siblings Podcast, host Maya Roffler welcomes Jessica Kueck, a bereaved sibling who courageously shares the heartbreaking story of losing her younger brother, Aaron, at just three years old in a tragic drowning accident. Jessica was only 11 when her world was turned upside down, and she reflects on how this loss shaped her childhood, mental health, and journey into adulthood. Jessica opens up about the intense grief her family endured, particularly the profound impact it had on her mother and father. She shares how growing up in a home marked by sorrow and trauma affected her perspective on life, anxiety, and relationships. Now a mother herself, Jessica talks about how she navigates parenting while consciously working to break the cycle of generational trauma and honor Aaron’s memory in a way that fosters healing and growth. In This Episode: (0:01:18) - Growing Up as the Oldest Sibling Jessica describes her family dynamic, being the oldest of three siblings, and the deep love and admiration her family had for Aaron, their miracle baby. (0:02:13) - A Tragic Day in Arizona Jessica recalls the road trip with her mother, siblings, and family friends that led to the devastating moment when Aaron drowned at their condo’s community pool. (0:06:22) - The Immediate Aftermath Jessica shares the harrowing moments of calling her father, witnessing the chaos at the pool, and the tragic realization at the hospital that Aaron was gone. (0:15:38) - The Funeral and Shiva Jessica reflects on the Jewish traditions of mourning, including Shiva, and how the week of support gave temporary solace to her grieving mother. (0:21:50) - Anxiety and Hypervigilance After Loss Jessica discusses how losing Aaron as a child shaped her anxiety, causing her to catastrophize everyday situations and always anticipate the worst. (0:40:12) - Motherhood and Breaking the Cycle Jessica shares how becoming a mother forced her to confront her childhood trauma, and how she actively works to ensure her daughter doesn’t inherit the same fears and anxieties. (0:46:21) - Finding Healing and Hope Jessica talks about her journey with therapy, medication, and mindfulness practices that have helped her manage her anxiety and live a more present and peaceful life. (1:02:00) - Advice for Those Who Lost a Sibling Young Jessica offers heartfelt advice for siblings who lost their brother or sister as children, discussing how to navigate grief, honor their sibling, and create a life that fosters healing. This episode is a poignant reminder that grief is a lifelong journey, but healing and transformation are possible. Jessica’s story is one of strength, awareness, and breaking cycles to build a healthier future for herself and her family. This episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings. Connect with Jessica: Facebook: Linkedin: Email: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/35477805

Michelle Loses Pat To A Plane Crash 02/19/2025

Michelle Loses Pat To A Plane Crash In this deeply moving episode of the Surviving Siblings Podcast, host Maya Roffler welcomes Michelle Tobin, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, therapist, and author, who shares her emotional journey of losing her brother Patrick in a devastating plane crash. Michelle reflects on the lasting impact of this loss, how it shaped her career in mental health, and the unexpected ways grief has woven itself into her life’s work. She opens up about trauma, healing, and the importance of finding outlets for grief, including writing, physical movement, and faith. Michelle’s story is one of resilience, personal transformation, and hope as she discusses how she carried her brother’s memory with her for 50 years, culminating in the release of her novel, Home for the Bewildered. This powerful episode offers insight and comfort for anyone navigating sibling loss and seeking ways to move forward while keeping their loved ones close. In This Episode: (0:01:18) - Growing Up in a Large Family Michelle paints a picture of her family dynamics, growing up as one of twelve children, and the deep admiration she had for her older brother Patrick. (0:04:36) - The Night of the Tragedy Michelle recounts the eerie feeling she and her sister had the night before Thanksgiving, followed by the heartbreaking moment they learned of Patrick’s passing. (0:06:28) - Processing Grief as a Teenager Michelle reflects on the immediate aftermath of Patrick’s passing, the difficulties of not having closure due to a closed casket, and how grief was handled in her family during the 1970s. (0:14:53) - The Five-Year Mark and a Divine Intervention Michelle shares the moment she experienced a divine intervention, a turning point in her healing journey, and how she found solace through swimming and faith. (0:21:12) - The Importance of Physical Outlets for Grief Maya and Michelle discuss how physical activity, whether it be swimming, running, or walking, can serve as a powerful release for trauma and emotional pain. (0:27:17) - Giving Yourself Grace in the Grieving Process Michelle emphasizes the importance of allowing yourself to grieve in your own way, shutting out societal pressures, and leaning into people who offer true support. (0:46:21) - Writing Home for the Bewildered 50 Years Later Michelle discusses how her novel was inspired by her brother’s death and the themes of grief, trauma, and healing embedded in her writing. She also explains the significance of setting the novel in 1974, the year Patrick passed away. (0:50:56) - Where to Find Michelle’s Book Michelle shares how listeners can purchase Home for the Bewildered directly from Vine Leaves Press and connect with her through her website and social media. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of loss, resilience, and finding light after tragedy. Michelle’s story is a testament to the power of healing, self-discovery, and embracing hope, no matter how many years have passed. This episode is sponsored by Home for the Bewildered written by Michelle Tobin. Connect with Michelle: Website: Instagram: Tik Tok: @michelletobin7 Facebook: Purchase Her Book Here: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/35282370

Claire Loses Rob to Assault 12/18/2024

Claire Loses Rob to Assault Claire Thompson’s journey is one of resilience, loss, and healing after the devastating loss of her brother Rob. From their tight-knit sibling bond growing up in Scotland to the tragedy that would redefine Claire’s life, this episode explores the profound grief and transformation that comes with sibling loss. Rob, a charismatic and creative soul with a love for video editing, music, and fine whiskey, was tragically taken in 2014 due to an unprovoked assault in Glasgow, Scotland. Claire shares the heart-wrenching details of that day, the waiting period that followed, and the challenging processes that came after. She delves into the immense toll of those three days in the hospital, leading to the painful decision to say goodbye to Rob. Claire’s story is not only about loss but also about survival and finding purpose. A psychologist in training, Claire discusses how Rob’s death shaped her life and led her to focus her career on sibling loss and bereavement. Through sled dog racing in Alaska, connecting with nature, and deep empathy, Claire found ways to heal and honor her brother’s legacy. Now completing her doctorate, she is conducting a groundbreaking study on young adult sibling loss to advocate for greater awareness and support for surviving siblings. In this episode: (00:00:55) – Introduction to Claire’s Background and Family Dynamics (00:10:09) – The Day of Rob’s Assault and the Aftermath (00:18:34) – Navigating Hospital Decisions and Legal Processes (00:27:00) – Finding Strength Through Nature and Connection (00:36:42) – The Healing Power of Empathy and Advocacy (00:46:39) – Claire’s Current Work and Doctoral Research on Sibling Loss Claire’s story is a powerful testament to the enduring bonds of sibling love and the transformative power of channeling grief into purpose. Connect with Claire: Email: Facebook: This Episode is Sponsored by The Surviving Siblings. Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram:Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/34416545

Heather Loses Casey To Gun Violence 12/11/2024

Heather Loses Casey To Gun Violence In this emotional episode of the Surviving Siblings podcast, host Maya Roffler welcomes Heather, who shares the devastating story of losing her brother Casey to gun violence. Heather takes listeners on a journey through their close sibling bond, the tragic circumstances of Casey's death, and the lifelong impact of his loss. She opens up about navigating grief, seeking answers, and finding healing over the 30 years since Casey’s passing. Heather’s story is one of heartbreak, resilience, and hope, as she reflects on her journey to honor Casey’s memory and find strength amid unanswered questions. In This Episode: (0:00:10) - Introducing Heather and Casey's Story Maya introduces Heather, who shares her journey as a surviving sibling and tells the story of her brother Casey, whom she lost to gun violence at 18 years old. (0:01:33) - Heather’s Family Dynamics Heather reflects on her family growing up, her father’s military background, and her close sibling bond with Casey, the middle child in their family of three siblings. (0:02:54) - Casey’s Protective Nature Heather recalls her relationship with Casey, his protective personality, and the deep connection they shared as siblings. (0:06:18) - Casey’s Teen Years and Struggles Heather shares how family challenges, including her father’s alcoholism, influenced Casey’s teenage years, leading him to the wrong crowd and struggles with substance use. (0:12:14) - The Night of the Tragedy Heather recounts the heartbreaking night Casey was shot and how he was brought home alive by his friends, leading to a chaotic and tragic turn of events. (0:18:37) - The Aftermath at the Hospital Heather describes the shocking moments in the hospital, Casey’s brief responsiveness, and the devastating decision to donate his organs. (1:03:00) - Heather’s Transformational Dream Heather describes a vivid dream of Casey shortly after his death, which brought her comfort and a sense of peace, affirming his continued presence in her life. This episode is a testament to the strength it takes to survive the loss of a sibling, especially under tragic circumstances. Heather’s story is both heart-wrenching and inspiring, offering hope and solidarity to those on a similar journey. This episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings Connect with Heather: TikTok: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: https://x.com/survivingsibpod Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/34306610

Diana Loses Tyler To Asthma 11/27/2024

Janine's Sister Big Ang battles Cancer 11/13/2024

Sidney Loses Dottie To Addiction 10/30/2024

Sidney Loses Dottie To Addiction In this deeply personal and emotional episode, Sidney Savoie shares the story of his sister Dottie, who tragically passed away from a drug overdose in August 2020. Sidney opens up about their childhood, growing up as siblings with contrasting personalities, and the powerful bond they shared despite their differences. Dottie was adopted into Sidney's family before he was born, and Sidney reflects on how much he owes his existence to her. Growing up with a passionate and vibrant sister, Sidney recalls their sibling rivalry and their eventual maturing relationship in adulthood. He paints a vivid picture of Dottie’s larger-than-life personality, her struggles with mental health, and the addiction that ultimately claimed her life. Sidney discusses the complexities of Dottie's struggles with depression, bipolar disorder, and addiction. He speaks candidly about her battle with drugs, and how despite periods of sobriety, Dottie eventually succumbed to her addiction. The episode delves into the layers of grief Sidney has faced, from mourning his sister to navigating life without her. Sidney also shares the challenges of losing a sibling, describing how it feels like losing a part of himself. He reflects on the unique pain of sibling loss and the secondary grief of missing out on future milestones, like his sister not meeting his wife or being there for family moments. In this episode: [00:01:00] – Introduction to Sidney and Dottie [00:03:09] – Growing Up with Dottie: Sibling Rivalry and Bonding [00:06:25] – Dottie’s Struggles with Mental Health and Addiction [00:19:10] – Navigating Grief and the Complexity of Addiction [00:29:07] – Dottie's Overdose and the Impact of Her Passing [00:46:00] – Sidney's Reflections on Marriage and Loss [00:55:00] – Sidney's Relationship with His Nieces Post-Dottie [01:00:00] – The Grief Journey: Finding Meaning and Healing This episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings Connect with Sidney: Facebook: TikTok: Email: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/33603417

Kourtney Loses Her Sister To Rett Syndrome 10/16/2024

Kourtney Loses Her Sister To Rett Syndrome From being born into a family with Kristi already navigating the challenges of Rett syndrome, Kourtney’s story is one of dedication, loss, and profound love. Kristi was born in 1965 with a rare neurological disorder that affects primarily girls, which led her to lose many of her early developmental skills between 6 and 18 months old. The disorder wasn’t formally diagnosed in the United States until 1986, so for the first 21 years of Kristi’s life, the family had no name for what she was living with. Kourtney, the youngest of five, was seven years behind her siblings and grew up with Kristi already in a group home. Kourtney’s relationship with Kristi went beyond that of a typical sibling dynamic. She served as her sister, caregiver, and advocate, navigating the complexities of Kristi’s condition and her family’s evolving needs. Despite the challenges, Kourtney’s memories are filled with light moments and profound connections, like when Kristi laughed at a joke no one thought she would understand, signaling that “she’s in there,” a realization that challenged every assumption they’d been told about her mental capabilities. The family finally received a formal diagnosis of Rett syndrome when Kristi was 21, after a neurologist encountered a presentation by Dr. Andreas Rett, the doctor who discovered the syndrome. This brought a mixture of relief and frustration, as it came too late to change the course of Kristi’s treatment, but finally gave the family a name for what they had been living with for so many years. Kourtney became heavily involved in the Rett community, both as an advocate and later as a professional, dedicating her life to helping other families and teaching children with Rett syndrome how to communicate through eye gaze technology. In this episode, Kourtney shares her journey through anticipatory grief, the lifelong process of caring for a sibling with Rett syndrome, and the unique pain of losing not just a sister, but the person who shaped her identity. She reflects on how her life and career have been deeply intertwined with Kristi’s presence, leading her to work in the Rett community as an advocate and teacher. Kourtney’s story is a testament to the enduring bonds of sibling love, the complexities of grief, and the resilience it takes to rebuild a life after such a significant loss. In this episode: (00:00:55) – Introduction to Kourtney’s Family Dynamic and Kristi’s Early Years (00:10:09) – Understanding Rett Syndrome and the Impact on the Family (00:18:34) – The Evolution of Kourtney’s Role from Sister to Caregiver (00:36:42) – Kristi’s Communication Breakthrough with Eye Gaze Technology (00:46:39) – The Final Years: Health Declines and the Emotional Toll (00:51:41) – Grieving Kristi’s Passing and Finding Purpose in Advocacy This Episode is Sponsored by The Surviving Siblings. Connect with Kourtney: TikTok: Instagram: Facebook: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/33383477

Ginger’s Loss Of Her Brother To Seizure Complications 10/02/2024

Ginger’s Loss Of Her Brother To Seizure Complications From childhood memories of Mike singing and dancing to his career as an award-winning blues musician, Ginger’s story is one of love, loss, and the challenges of navigating life after such a tragedy. She delves into the complexities of coping with Mike’s epilepsy, which played a significant role in his passing, and how their family dynamic shaped her grief process. His unexpected passing in 2019, due to complications from epilepsy, left a profound mark on Ginger’s life, as well as on the countless others who were touched by Mike’s vibrant presence and musical talents. This episode explores the deep bond between siblings, the layers of grief, and the resilience needed to move forward when the music stops. Ginger paints a vivid picture of her close relationship with Mike, who was nine years younger and someone she not only viewed as a brother but also cared for with maternal instincts. Ginger opens up about the difficulty of dealing with regret, the loss of her family’s former dynamic, and the struggle to accept that her parents will never be the same after Mike's death. Yet, through it all, she emphasizes the importance of faith in her healing journey, finding solace and strength in her relationship with God as she navigates life without her brother. Ginger offers an intimate look at how grief evolves over time, how she grappled with the second year of loss, and how the love and memories of Mike continue to inspire her. Her story is a powerful reminder that while we may never truly "move on" from losing a sibling, we can find ways to grow through the pain and cherish the memories that live on. In this episode: (00:03:00) - Ginger’s Relationship with Mike (00:20:29) - Coping with Epilepsy and Seizures (00:28:55) - Mike’s Music Career and Legacy (00:36:42) - Dealing with the Unexpected Loss (00:51:41) - Support, Faith, and Family Dynamics This Episode is Sponsored by The Surviving Siblings. Connect with Ginger: TikTok: Instagram: Facebook: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/33220412

Jackson Stotlar on Losing His Sister Lauren to a School Bus Accident 09/18/2024

Jackson Stotlar on Losing His Sister Lauren to a School Bus Accident In this heartfelt episode, Jackson shares the profound journey of losing his younger sister, Lauren, when he was just 10 years old. Jackson reflects on the unique bond they had, with Lauren’s vibrant and fearless personality, and how her sudden death in a tragic bus accident forever changed his family. Jackson opens up about the complex emotions of being the oldest, becoming an only child, and later a big brother again. He also discusses how his family coped with grief and the unique challenges of sibling loss at a young age. Throughout the episode, Jackson shares the evolution of his grief, from the initial stages to his adulthood, and how he continues to navigate it with grace and gentleness. He provides insights into the impact of grief on family dynamics, the complexity of forgiveness, and the importance of creating a community of support. Jackson also touches on his involvement in his family's organization, GrieveWell, which focuses on peer-to-peer support for those navigating loss. In This Episode: (0:00:24) - A Brother's Reflection on Sibling Loss: Jackson recalls his relationship with his younger sister, Lauren, and the impact her fearless nature had on his life. (0:08:58) - The Day Everything Changed: Jackson recounts the tragic day Lauren passed away in a bus accident and the shock that followed. (0:16:12) - Grief and Growth: Jackson reflects on how he and his family dealt with grief in the years following Lauren’s death and the dynamic shift when his younger brother was born. (0:24:57) - Evolving Through Grief: The conversation dives into the lifelong process of grief and how Jackson has experienced it through different life milestones, including preparing for his upcoming wedding. (0:40:00) - GrieveWell: A Community of Support: Jackson shares about GrieveWell, the nonprofit organization his family created to provide peer-to-peer grief support and its impact on those navigating loss. To join GrieveWell’s community of hope and healing, visit them at: Website: Linkedin: Instagram: Twitter: Facebook: Connect with Jackson: Instagram: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: The Surviving Siblings Podcast YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/33025422

Losing Sisters to Mental Health and Twin Loss 09/04/2024

Losing Sisters to Mental Health and Twin Loss In this episode of the Surviving Siblings podcast, host Maya Roffler welcomes sisters Corrie and Brittany Fentress, who bravely share the heart-wrenching story of losing their two sisters, Ashley and Emily, to addiction and suicide. Corrie and Brittany discuss their close-knit family dynamics, the deep bonds they shared as siblings, and the devastating impact of losing not one, but two sisters. They also explore their individual grief journeys, how they have processed these profound losses, and the paths they've taken to honor their sisters' memories. In This Episode: - (0:01:00) - Corrie and Brittany’s Family Background Corrie and Brittany introduce their family, discussing the dynamic between the four sisters and their childhood memories. - (0:02:36) - Ashley’s Struggles and Turning Point The sisters talk about Ashley’s battle with drugs and mental health following their parents’ divorce, including her struggles with heroin addiction and suicide attempts. - (0:09:57) - The Day of Ashley’s Death Brittany and Corrie recount the tragic day they learned of Ashley’s passing, sharing their perspectives and the impact it had on their family. - (0:18:25) - Processing Ashley’s Loss Brittany reflects on her journey as a twin after losing Ashley, discussing the unique grief associated with twin loss and her struggle to find herself again. - (0:36:23) - Emily’s Battle with Addiction The conversation shifts to Emily’s story, detailing her struggles with addiction, mental health, and the significant losses that influenced her life. - (0:45:35) - Emily’s Final Days Corrie and Brittany describe Emily’s final months, her move to Virginia for treatment, and the tragic day they learned of her death. - (0:52:18) - Finding Purpose Through Loss Corrie and Brittany share how their sisters’ deaths influenced their careers in mental health and therapy, and how they find meaning in helping others navigate similar challenges. - (0:55:50) - Supporting Others and Honoring Their Sisters The sisters discuss the importance of community, support, and taking time to heal, as well as their commitment to honoring Ashley and Emily’s memories through their work. This episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings. Connect with Corrie and Brittany Fentress: Corrie’s Instagram: Brittany’s Facebook: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: Make sure to tune in for this powerful episode and join the conversation about sibling loss, grief, and healing. /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/32767337

Anne Pinkerton's Journey Through Grief and Loss After David's Fatal Fall 08/21/2024

Anne Pinkerton's Journey Through Grief and Loss After David's Fatal Fall In this episode of the Surviving Siblings podcast, host Maya Roffler welcomes Anne Pinkerton, who shares the profound story of her brother David, who tragically passed away after a fall while hiking in Colorado. Anne delves into their unique sibling bond, her grief journey, and the process of writing her book to honor David's adventurous spirit. Tune in to hear about the emotional complexities of sudden loss and the path to healing and remembrance. In This Episode: (0:01:00) - Anne's Family Dynamics Anne discusses her unique family structure and the close relationship she had with her brother David. (0:04:24) - David's Adventurous Spirit Stories of David's love for nature and adventure, including his passion for triathlons and his travels around the globe. (0:09:11) - The Call Anne recounts the harrowing moment she received the call about David being missing and the subsequent days of uncertainty. (0:16:25) - Discovering What Happened Details of how David's body was found and the investigation into his fatal fall while hiking the Colorado 14ers. (0:25:20) - Grieving and Seeking Answers Anne talks about her journey to understand the circumstances of David's death and how she coped with the obsessive need for answers. (0:35:14) - Writing the Book The process and challenges Anne faced in writing her memoir, the significance of sharing David’s story, and her decision to pursue an MFA. (0:45:50) - Evolution of Grief Discussion on the different stages of grief and the importance of taking time to heal, including the concept of taking breaks and not rushing the process. (0:57:08) - Finding Community and Support The crucial role of finding community and support in the grieving process, and Anne's involvement in bereavement groups and writing workshops. This episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings. Connect with Anne Pinkerton: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Tiktok: Make sure to check out Anne’s book HERE: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/32592017

Maya's Season 5 Recap 05/22/2024

Maya's Season 5 Recap As we draw the curtain on the fifth season of Surviving Siblings, I'm overwhelmed with a mix of emotions, reminiscent of the day I faced my own sibling loss. Sharing this journey with you has magnified the courage it takes to traverse the winding road of grief, and it's clear we've all been walking it together. This finale episode is a heartfelt recap of the season's most impactful stories, from Katie's tribute to her heroic firefighter brother to Stacey's poignant confrontation with domestic violence. I bare my soul, too, as discuss my own personal trials of the past year, including my emotional reunion with my father in Mozambique and my grief experience through a miscarriage. Our conversations throughout the season haven't shied away from the pain—instead, we've embraced it, giving voice to the often-muted experiences of sibling loss. Special guests brought their truths to the table, shedding light on the unique complexities of their grief. From grappling with multiple losses and suicide to the raw authenticity of our discussions, we've started to chip away at the taboo surrounding these conversations. The shared wisdom and hope have been life rafts in the tumultuous sea of bereavement, and I'm honored to have had these guests join us in bringing the stories of the ‘forgotten mourners’ into the light. As we close this chapter and look toward the future, the inaugural Surviving Sibling Summit stands as a beacon of our dedication to healing and unity. The overwhelming response and the promise of a sixth season of our podcast are testament to the power and necessity of our shared narratives. I'm more convinced than ever that together, as surviving siblings, we're crafting a legacy of support and remembrance. So, as we part ways for now, remember the resources and open arms awaiting you at thesurvivingsiblings.com, and the unmistakable truth that you are never alone on this path. This Episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings Guide. ✨Get The Surviving Siblings Guide HERE: In this Episode: (0:4:40) - Surviving Siblings Season Recap & Highlights (0:31:42) - Grief Timelines and Loss Experiences (0:43:11) - Surviving Sibling Summit (0:51:19) - Personal and Familial Healing Journey (1:05:00) - Healing Conversations With Dad Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/31407682

Confronting a Sisters Addiction 05/15/2024

Sudden Loss to a Motorcycle Accident 05/08/2024

Navigating Anticipatory Grief 05/01/2024

Under the Grasp of Bipolar Disorder 04/24/2024

Under the Grasp of Bipolar Disorder CONTENT WARNING: Please note that this episode contains depictions and stories of siblings lost by suicide, homicide and/or domestic violence. We understand that some people may find these triggering, activating and/or disturbing. Today's episode features a heartrending discussion with Taylor Taylor, who opens up about the cherished bond with her brother Blake, their shared childhood, and how mental health struggles and external pressures can send life spiraling in unforeseen directions. From her brother Blake's promising start to an abrupt turn into hardship following a run-in with the law, Taylor invites us into the raw emotions of watching a loved one fall into the grips of bipolar disorder. The conversation reveals the stark reality of how external influences and internal turmoil can derail a seemingly promising future, leading us through the nuances of a sibling bond strained by distance, different life paths, and the shadow of mental illness. Taylor courageously recounts Blake's resistance to seeking help, the role stigma played in his battle, and the devastating consequences that unfolded, culminating in his untimely death. The stark reality of such experiences paints a vivid picture of the urgency with which we need to approach mental health issues with openness, care, and an unwavering commitment to understanding. This discussion isn't just a story of despair; it’s a beacon for those seeking to understand the nuanced realities of loving someone through their darkest hours. In this episode: (0:12:43) - Mental Health Struggles (0:23:10) - Unraveling the Downward Spiral (0:27:57) - Navigating Substance Abuse and Mental Health (0:32:22) - Navigating Mental Health Crisis With Family (1:05:18) - Navigating Grief and Therapy Success This Episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings Guide. ✨Get The Surviving Siblings Guide Connect with Taylor: Facebook: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/30957843

Finding Hope After Multiple Losses 04/17/2024

Mending Piece by Piece 04/10/2024

Mending Piece by Piece CONTENT WARNING: Please note that this episode contains depictions and stories of siblings lost by suicide, homicide and/or domestic violence. We understand that some people may find these triggering, activating and/or disturbing. When Linda's world was shattered not once, but twice, by the loss of her brothers Micheal and Jeff, she embarked on a quest for healing that not only mended her own spirit but reached out to help others in similar pain. Linda's tale is an echo of the shared human experience, where the sting of overdose and suicide’s stigma and the struggle to reconnect with faith intertwine with the raw emotions of grief. As she opens up about the personal battles that followed the loss of her brothers Jeff and Michael, and the family losses and divides that followed. Turning profound sorrow into a mission to support others, Linda's activism in the world of suicide prevention illuminates the podcast episode with hope. Her work creating resources like "Mending Piece by Piece After A Suicide Loss" and her contributions to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention exemplify the transformative power of storytelling and shared experience. As we wrap up our heartfelt dialogue, we recognize that healing is not a solitary endeavor but a road traveled together, with the strength of community to guide us through the ebb and flow of mourning and onward into the light of new beginnings. In This Episode: (0:05:06) - Growing up with Micheal and Jeff (0:16:36) - Loss, Intuition, and Grief Recovery (0:30:14) - Handling Suicide Loss (0:38:34) - Navigating Grief and Spiritual Faith (0:51:18) - Family Grief and Loss Discussion This Episode is sponsored by Linda Falasco. Find out more about Linda . You can find her book "Mending Piece by Piece After a Suicide Loss: Guided Grief Workbook & Journal to Heal the Survivor's Heart" Connect with Linda: Tik Tok: Instagram: Mending Piece by Piece Podcast: Book "Mending Piece by Piece After A Suicide Loss": Book "Mending Piece by Piece: A Workbook & Journal for Navigating Grief with Hope": Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/30756208

Sisterhood Amidst Adoption and Addiction 04/03/2024

Sisterhood Amidst Adoption and Addiction CONTENT WARNING: Please note that this episode contains depictions and stories of siblings lost by suicide, homicide and/or domestic violence. We understand that some people may find these triggering, activating and/or disturbing. Join us as we welcome Sarah to share the poignant story of her relationship with her late sister, Jenni, whose life was tragically cut short. Sarah opens up about their upbringing as adopted siblings in Southern California, the unique bond they formed despite not being biologically related, and the deep love that defined their connection. As Sarah reflects on their childhood and the complexities of their adoptive experiences, we're given a glimpse into the affectionate nicknames, Jenni's vivacious spirit, and the underlying struggles that eventually led to her battles with addiction and a heartbreaking loss. In the aftermath of Jenni's passing, Sarah shares the transformative journey of healing, underscored by the challenges and revelations that come with grief. We discuss the power of therapies like EMDR and the unspoken language of companionship offered by pets in times of sorrow. The ripple effects of the opioid crisis are not just statistics here; they are felt in the raw recounting of the investigation into Jenni's final days and the struggle to find closure. Through Sarah's poignant story, we're reminded of our own capacity for resilience in the face of sorrow and the unexpected places where hope can take root. In This Episode: (0:12:07) - Exploring Family Dynamics and Adoption (0:23:52) - Family Intervention and Addiction Recovery (0:33:14) - Tragic Events Leading to JennyIs Death (0:48:35) - Exploring Grief and Empathy Journeys (0:56:18) - Tragic Fentanyl Overdose Investigation (1:02:25) - The Devastating Impact of Fentanyl This Episode is sponsored by The Surviving Siblings Guide. ✨Get The Surviving Siblings Guide HERE: Connect with Sarah: Instagram: TikTok: Facebook: Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/30613733

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Navigating Sibling Loss to Domestic Violence 03/20/2024

Navigating Sibling Loss to Domestic Violence CONTENT WARNING: Please note that this episode contains depictions and stories of siblings lost by suicide, homicide and/or domestic violence. We understand that some people may find these triggering, activating and/or disturbing. Our guest Stacy shares her personal journey with her sister Katie Jo, painting a vivid picture of the nurturing role she assumed in her sister's life and the distance that time and circumstances can create. Stacy's personal reflections lead us through the transformation and tragic ending of her sister's life, underscoring the importance of paying attention to changes in our loved ones' behaviors. We're taken on a heart-rending path, from noticing Katie Jo's growing paranoia to confronting the reality of her untimely death due to domestic violence. Stacy’s insights into the significance of victim impact statements, coping with unexpected loss, and the strength found in communities serve as a powerful reminder of the collective journey through sibling loss grief. As we connect over our own stories, we shed light on the importance of advocacy for domestic violence victims and the crucial role of organizations like The Peace Initiative in supporting those in need. Whether it's the cathartic process of writing a eulogy or the collective journey of navigating sibling loss grief together, we reaffirm the value of storytelling and the power of community in the healing process. In This Episode: (0:11:36) - Raising a Sister (0:19:49) - Uncovering Secrets of a Relationship (0:36:26) - Navigating Grief and Domestic Violence (0:55:58) - Discussing Justice for Victims (1:01:54) - Victim's Advocate Statement Importance This Episode is sponsored by P.E.A.C.E Initiative ✨ Find out more . Connect with Maya: Podcast Instagram: Maya's Instagram: TikTok: Twitter: Website: Facebook Group: YouTube: Patreon: /episode/index/show/thesurvivingsiblingspodcast/id/30422428

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