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Ep 347 Healing After Loss: A Fertility Journey Rooted in Inner Wisdom with Laetitia Felix
07/29/2025
Ep 347 Healing After Loss: A Fertility Journey Rooted in Inner Wisdom with Laetitia Felix
On today’s episode of The Wholesome Fertility Podcast, I am joined by Laetitia Felix , a fertility mindset coach who shares her deeply personal and powerful journey through infertility, loss, and ultimately conception. After experiencing three ectopic pregnancies and an early miscarriage, Leatitia was told IVF was her only option—but she knew in her heart there was another path. In this vulnerable conversation, she opens up about how slowing down, healing her nervous system, and connecting to her spiritual self helped her conceive naturally—against the odds and through the same fallopian tube doctors advised removing. We also explore spirit baby communication, the emotional toll of unexplained infertility, and how reclaiming your inner wisdom can be the most radical act of self-love. This episode is an invitation to stop, listen, and trust the messages your body and spirit may already be sending you. Key Takeaways: Laetitia Felix conceived naturally after three ectopic pregnancies and an early loss—through the same tube doctors recommended removing. IVF was presented as her only option, but she chose to explore inner healing and spiritual connection instead. Emotional processing, mindset work, and womb healing played a major role in restoring her health and fertility. Connecting with her spirit baby gave her reassurance, peace, and a sense of divine timing. Fertility healing isn’t one-size-fits-all—trusting your intuition and calming the nervous system are foundational. Guest Bio: Laetitia Felix is a certified Fertility Mindset Coach based in London, originally from France. After navigating her own challenging path to motherhood—including multiple pregnancy losses—she now supports women on similar journeys through her holistic Mind, Body, and Soul approach. Laetitia helps women process emotional trauma, release both conscious and unconscious blocks, and reconnect with their inner wisdom to prepare for conception. Deeply passionate about this work, she brings compassion, lived experience, and powerful tools to guide women—whether they’re just starting out or healing after loss. Links and Resources: For more information about Michelle, visit www.michelleoravitz.com To learn more about ancient wisdom and fertility, you can get Michelle’s book at: https://www.michelleoravitz.com/thewayoffertility The Wholesome Fertility facebook group is where you can find free resources and support: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2149554308396504/ Instagram: @thewholesomelotusfertility Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewholesomelotus/ Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider before making any changes to your health or fertility care. TWF_-_347_-_Leatitia_audio Michelle Oravitz: [00:00:00] Episode number 347 of the Wholesome Fertility Podcast. My guest today is Leticia Felix. Leticia is a fertility and pregnancy after loss coach and a mind body, soul practitioner who believes in the power of working with a woman as a whole. Leticia conceived naturally at 40 after a four year journey through adenomyosis low a MH, unexplained infertility. Multiple losses, including three ectopic pregnancies and her own healing journey. Now she supports women navigating the unexplained diagnosis as well as pregnancy after loss, helping them uncover subconscious, emotional and energetic blocks, process grief and reconnect with her bodies and intuition, with a deep belief in their connection between the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Leticia blends somatic, energetic. And mindset based therapies to identify and release blocks at all levels. [00:01:00] Boosting fertility and bringing empowerment, clarity, calm, and trust to their journey. Welcome to the Wholesome Fertility Podcast. I'm Michelle, a fertility acupuncturist here to provide you with resources on how to create a wholesome approach to your fertility journey. Welcome to the podcast Leticia. Thank you so much, Michelle, for having me. I'm very honored. It's a pleasure having you, and I know you have like a really amazing story, long story, difficult story to tell on your own fertility journey, and I love hearing these stories, especially when it brings you to doing the work that you're doing today and helping so many other people. So I'd love for you to share your story and how you got through it and. [00:02:00] Eventually conceived and had your kids. Yeah. Leatitia Felix: Yeah. It'll be my pleasure to share. Well, basically it was a long journey, let's put it that way. It took me four years to conceive. I didn't have any idea that would take that long. I was on a pill for very long time, which looking back now, I know it was one of the, a big mistake because I then was diagnosed with Alysis. So that was, we are talking in my early thirties when I thought. Let's planning for what I knew I wanted all my life, which is having children. I didn't meet the right partner, my twenties, so you know, it's very common to start family around 30. So I thought, okay, let's stop the pill. But then as we know now, when you stop the pill, you realize after if you had issues, this is when it all comes. You know, times 4, 5, 10. Long story short, I did some tests. I had very painful, heavy periods. I did the test that told me I had adenomyosis, which is kind of. Sister of [00:03:00] endometriosis, they told me at that point that fertility could be an issue. They also gave me medication and I'm really not good with medication. I'm not good with all medical side of things. So anyway, I still took them, but then I thought, okay, I'm still gonna try and it might just not affect me. I dunno if that's what affected me, but that's just to give a bit of idea of what was in the background when I started. And then I just. For, you know, I didn't know anything about what conception. I mean, now I know how. It's so much more than just the sperm meat, the egg, and especially for any woman out there, you know, going through fertility issues, we know that it's, it's so much more complex. You need to create really the right environment. So I can talk about that after. But basically at the time I just thought, you know, I'll give you a try. And actually we get pregnant very easily within six months. So at that point I was 34 I think, or 35, and. Everything was [00:04:00] very happy days. You know, I made the special announcement to my partner on his birthday. Everything was amazing, but I suffered from my first ectopic pregnancy, so I found that maybe a week or two weeks after when I started to bleed and. That's when the story really started to get complicated. So altogether I had three ectopic throughout the four years and I had one early, early loss. So I won't go through all of them, but basically it's pretty much every year I had a loss. I, after the second loss, that's when I started to do all the tests. Mentioned also, the ectopic pregnancy is very dangerous, so. When it happened, thankfully I managed to keep my fallopian tubes, but I was treated with medication and that also had a knock on effect on my health, so as if it wasn't bad enough to have suffered a loss. Also, my health suffered. The medication is very, very strong, and I had to have two dosage, I think they call it. It's like a [00:05:00] chemo treatment, actually. It kills all your cells, so you can just imagine. And after that, the knock on effect was gut health issues, mental. I suppose anxiety, panic attacks, like mental issues. I also suffered like skin issues. I found that out. Michelle Oravitz: That's a very strong treatment. Yeah, Leatitia Felix: it's very strong. I mean, it depletes you from all your folates, you know, inside your body. But I don't think it's just that. I think it's so much more. If you imagine you kill all your good back, you know, you talk a lot about the gut health, so obviously. You know, it's got all this effect on your health, but also on your conception, on your fertility health. So it actually got worse. And then after my first loss or my second loss, the second was an early chemical pregnancy, that's when I started to really look into my symptoms and thought, okay, I started to look into neuropathy and acupuncture and to all the women out there, I can only highly recommend. I mean, it goes hand in hand to me the importance of [00:06:00] the gut health. And the overall health of your body, not just the supplement we take for fertility, but everything around the digestion, around the blood flow, all of that. So it really helped me, but clearly it wasn't enough because then I suffer another topic. And when I started do all the medical tests, you know, everything came back pretty normal, apart from the fact that they said my egg reserve was low. They said that I was approaching 40, so the only option for me would be IVF, and I have nothing against IVF. I just don't like how it's thrown at beyond the option without actually looking at anything else. They never said, oh, food is very important. You know, food, food is very like important into your fertility, your mental health, your emotions, your mindset, everything that I now know, none of, none of the doctors would talk about that. So I didn't go for IVF because. [00:07:00] It didn't feel right to me at the time. And also I was told that you had more chances of having ectopic. So I thought, well, you know, I don't see how, and you know, I think like you have to prepare yourself mentally to do that, and I, I thought it would be at some point, maybe a plan B, but I was really trying to find the root of the issues also. Although I was told it's unexplained, you know that, that big thing , But anyway, he didn't convince me at the time, so I was like, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Along with all the medication and everything to take I 4K. And also I didn't have any medical, you know, specific issue. I had an unexplained diagnosis, so to me, I felt that it was more to it, but that wasn't medical. But that's so Michelle Oravitz: strange too to me. Um, because you, you had adenomyosis. Leatitia Felix: Yes, I had that. Yeah. It is in inflammation. You're right. But when I did all the testing in terms of my hormones, my tubes tested, the egg reserve was low, but that's what they came, you know, they said, well, you can get pregnant. That was the answer [00:08:00] as well. Well, you can get pregnant as you got pregnant four times. Well, not four times. At the time it was twice, so there's no reason why you can't get pregnant. There's no nothing we can do for the ectopic. So let alone, when I had three, I was like, well, surely, and it's always been on the left side as well, when you look more on the spiritual side, you know, the feminine side. So I don't know if that's anything to do with that, but I obviously dig more into it. I also. Spoke to a baby spirit, you know, person that spoke to the baby spirit, and I learned so much more about the divine timing and things like that. Oh, Michelle Oravitz: so talk to us about all of it. Don't leave anything out because that's very interesting. Leatitia Felix: Well, when I went through those losses, I obviously, I did the physical side. All my symptoms were gone in terms of like my skin issue, my eczema, my asthma. That came out of nowhere. The digestion issue, all of that was cleared. So I was in a good place physically, but during that time, I also turned to angelic reiki. I came across the, you know, the universe. [00:09:00] Funny way of showing things. I kept hearing Raiki Raiki. I was like, what is Raiki? And long story short, I met my healer, neither I've known for over 10 years, who trained Evangelic Raiki, and I start looking into this. I always believe in something more than you know, the universe and all of the spiritual side. But that really like helped me as well to feel also, I lost my mom before I went through all of these fertility issues. So. Michelle Oravitz: Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. Thank you. Leatitia Felix: So I felt like I had kind of a spiritual awakening at the time, and so when I turned to baby spirit, communi, I dunno how you call them, you know, I suppose Michelle Oravitz: spirit, baby. Yeah, yeah. Spirit, baby communication and medium. Yeah. Leatitia Felix: I dunno how you call them. Mediums, I suppose. Michelle Oravitz: Yeah. Leatitia Felix: It wasn't something that was woohoo for me. For me that was a normal, natural thing. I just wanted to know more. So I thought, is there any other way that I can actually understand what's coming up in terms of the baby spirits? So what I was told at the [00:10:00] time was that the first loss wasn't, the soul of the baby was never meant to come to earth. It was meant to help me grow spiritually and. So it was part of my path. Basically, it was growth and I suppose. With time as well. I realized that all this journey, although it's very hard to understand once you are in, it wasn't happening to me. It was happening for me in a way that helped me to understand about, you know, as I said, nutrition changed my way of doing my mindset. That changed how I learn about all the mindset stuff. So that was part of it. And then I also spoke to my daughter that. Now I have with me. And that was part of the losses as well. She said I wasn't ready yet. And also it was about her. She wasn't meant to come at a specific time and it was not yet her time, but it was, you know, reassurance within that for me because I was like, I'm not going crazy. I am gonna become a mom. My baby's out there. [00:11:00] It's just that, Michelle Oravitz: yeah, Leatitia Felix: when it happens, you've got so much fear and you're like, I've always known deep down I'm gonna be a mom. This is like something I've always. And also when I lost my mom, I was like, I need to have that bond with, I always believed that be having a daughter, a daughter as well. That's, you know, and. Like, I need to have that same bond I had with my mom and I, I just can't accept that I'm not gonna have one. It was so ingrained inside me. So when that happened, I thought, I'm not completely crazy then it is happening. It's just, I didn't understand why I had to go through all of that. And I guess it gave me some kind of, I can't say closure, but like explanation. Michelle Oravitz: Like hope also. Yeah. Leatitia Felix: Yeah. I wish I knew it before in a way. 'cause I was like, well when you are in that spiral you just, you know, my mistake going through all the F losses is that I never stopped. I always wanted to keep going. I'm kind of that person. I need to find solution, I need to keep going. [00:12:00] And so I never. Grieved, I suppose. I never, until I came to the fourth loss and that's when I think I had a moment where I thought, okay, I have to stop everything. So going through those losses, coming to the third ectopic, I remember being in that hospital. Corridor. And I was very lucky because those drugs only happen the first time. And then I know some women go from like CIB ruptures and they have to go for surgery and it can be very life threatening. So I'm very blessed that I didn't have that and my fallopian. Remained and I had to go through expectant management on the next ectopic, which means you let your body just process the loss and remove the pregnancy basically. But after the third one, the doctor in that hospital said. Okay, I've got a surgery in half an hour. Look his watch, let's go and remove your tube. And I was a bit shocked [00:13:00] because my hormone levels were really low. And so when it's that almost non-existent, you technically not in danger or anything, so you're supposed to do expectant management. So I was like, why do I have to do that? And his answer was very uncompassionate. Well, you've had free ectopic. How many more do you want? And I was, wow. Yeah. That was shocking to me. 'cause I was like, that's not really a way for me to convince me to do it, or even to show me compassion. I'm going through a loss. But he was exactly his words. I mean, it's stuck in my mind. And I said, listen, I've asked the question in a way I took back my control because I was giving my power away through all those years, and I was so happy to. Take back my control and say, listen, is my health in danger? Is any, you know, what are the reason for doing that? And he said, is to, to prevent another topic. And I'm like, okay, I need to take the night to think about this, which I did. And he said, well, we need to do it while you're [00:14:00] going through it because you, we can't remove your tube after. Again, I dunno if that's true, but that was the answer. Michelle Oravitz: That makes no sense to me. I know. That's crazy. Leatitia Felix: Me neither. But as it was really his answer, he said, we have to do it while you're going through the next few days. We can't do it whilst you don't have, you're not pregnant anymore. So I'm like, okay. Anyway, talked to work with my partner and I really followed my gut on that one. And this is what was the kind of the moment where I decided, okay, I need to trust myself again. And I decided not to do it. I said to my partner, maybe we'll talk about IVF. Maybe we'll do something else. But for now, I think we need to give it one more shot. And long story short, again, the following year. The exact same month and the exact same month, I felt naturally pregnant on the LE same tube that was going to be removed, which is my left tube. I didn't do anything else physically from the third ectopic to the natural pregnancy, except from [00:15:00] then working a lot on my mindset, on my energy, and on the. Emotion processing, which this is what I've learned and now I teach my clients. And so yeah, so after that, that loss and that talk with the doctor and not doing it, we decided to take a break. And that's what I mean by take back my power suppose and, and also just stopping the race. I felt like I was on a race on the. If forget marathon, it was like, you know, and I was, I was paralleling out of control in terms of who I was, in terms of like, well, social life didn't exist anymore. My partner, my relationship was going, uh. Just me being cry, either crying or being completely obsessive or, you know, just talk about, it was just all we talked about, as I'm sure a lot of women can relate, was conception and stress, and my body was in complete fear. Um, fight or flight mode, like [00:16:00] survival, basically. So I said, if we are gonna give you one more try, I wanna give it my best shot. And I can't carry on that way because if a novel loss happened, I dunno where I will be at that point. So we need to get back to ourselves, and that's what we did. Michelle Oravitz: Yeah. So that was when you took the year off and then you conceived naturally? Yes. Leatitia Felix: I mean it was always trying naturally anyway, but we took about. Mm-hmm. So I got pregnant in October and the loss, the previous loss was also October, so we started again in July. So I wouldn't say it was a year, but yeah, nine months approximately to completely switch off from conception. And I'm talking, not even trying, purposely, not talking about it, but back to the basics, which joy, connection, self-love, but also so much. Yes. Emotional processing because. You know when you stop and you're like, this is when everything comes back and you're [00:17:00] like, actually, I didn't stop. I didn't want to face those emotions and I didn't want to because if I would, I wouldn't be strong enough and I wouldn't be able to carry on. So I had to carry on. Yeah. But I've learned that it's not about not slowing down. It's not about. Affection or being strong, it's actually about processing as well. And let your body, your mind, process everything in order to be actually stronger in that sense. What I mean by strong is your body the best chance to thrive, you...
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