#224 – Matt Vincent on Radical Ownership, Living Hard, and the ‘Not Dead Yet’ Mindset
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#224 – Matt Vincent on Radical Ownership, Living Hard, and the ‘Not Dead Yet’ Mindset "The story ends the same for all of us — so let it rip while you’re here. You're not obligated to exist — but you're here. So why not give it hell?" – Matt Vincent It's time to Stop Living on Autopilot and Start Chasing a Life Worth Dying For! ⚠️ Are you still waiting to live your "real life, the life that you actually want to live? Hoping you'll have time when retured to fufil all your dreams with dwindling time, energy and hope. Most men stay stuck in comfort until it's too late. In this...
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#223 – Dr Adi Jaffe on Addiction, Shame, and the Real Reason You Can’t Change
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#223 – Adi Jaffe on Addiction, Shame, and the Real Reason You Can’t Change "You weren’t broken—you were doing your best with the tools you had at the time. Shame won’t heal you. Understanding will." — Dr. Adi Jaffe It's time to Rewire Your Brain, Heal Your Shame, learn Dr. Jaffe’s Tools for Lasting Transformation. 🎙️ Meet Dr. Adi Jaffe — former addict turned addiction recovery trailblazer, bestselling author of The Abstinence Myth and Unhooked, founder of Ignited Recovery, and creator of powerful tools like SPARROW and E.A.T. His mission? To help you ditch shame,...
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#222 Reinventing Yourself with Style: Eva Schubert on Art, Identity & Living Off-Script
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#222 Reinventing Yourself with Style: Eva Schubert on Art, Identity & Living Off-Script "You don’t need to justify your existence with utility. Beauty is enough." — Eva Schubert What if the key to a meaningful life isn’t success — but reinvention? In this episode, jazz singer and creator Eva Schubert reveals how she’s rewritten her story again and again to live with passion, presence, and purpose. Level Up with the Show-Notes at: https://www.nextlevelguy.com/evaschubert222/ 🎙️ Meet Eva Schubert — jazz singer, podcast host, historian, and modern-day storyteller. Eva...
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#221 Yoga for BJJ: The secret sauce for flexibility, injury prevention and and amazing Performance
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#221 Yoga for BJJ: The secret sauce for flexibility, injury prevention and and amazing Performance "Yoga isn't just stretching — it's learning how to move better, recover smarter, and stay on the mats longer." — Bianca Ilea What if the secret to becoming better at Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu wasn’t more time rolling — but learning to breathe, move, and feel your body differently? Bianca Ilea shares how Yoga for BJJ can unlock hidden strength, resilience, and longevity both on and off the mats. 🎙️ Meet Bianca Ilea — Yoga for BJJ Instructor, Judo Black Belt, and Movement Specialist. For...
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#220 — George Kamel: Break Free From Debt, Ditch the Credit Score Game & Build Real Wealth
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#220 — George Kamel: Break Free From Debt, Ditch the Credit Score Game & Build Real Wealth “The borrower is slave to the lender. If you owe someone money, you’re not fully free.” — George Kamel What if your credit score obsession, buy-now-pay-later plans, and lifestyle creep are actually what’s keeping you broke? What if everything you’ve been told about money—credit scores, student loans, even buying your dream home—was a lie? George Kamel used to be broke, stressed, and buried in debt. Today, he’s a millionaire helping millions break free from the financial...
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🎙️ Hard Truths #1: “No One’s Coming to Save You”
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#219 – Under Pressure: Dr. Deep Sea on Healing the Brain and Boosting Performance
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219 – Brain Healing, Deep Sea Living & Human Performance with Dr. Deep Sea "Take charge of you. You are 100% in charge. Don’t stop learning. Don’t stop looking. Don’t stop exploring." — Dr. Joseph Dituri 🎙️ Meet Dr. Joseph Dituri — Navy Diver. Hyperbaric Pioneer. Brain Rebuilder. What happens when a Navy diver and hyperbaric researcher locks himself underwater for 100 days to heal his brain? Dr. Joseph Dituri—better known as Dr. Deep Sea—is a retired U.S. Navy Commander, hyperbaric researcher, and biomedical pioneer who quite literally dove headfirst into scientific...
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#218 Cracked Open – Carly Wopat on Turning Pain Into Purpose!
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#218 Cracked Open – Carly Wopat on Turning Pain Into Purpose! 🎙️ Meet Carly Wopat — Athlete. Fighter. Soul-Seeker. "Every time I’ve gone through something difficult, it’s cracked me open—and from that space, something new could grow." — Carly Wopat What happens when everything you thought defined you—athlete, twin, high achiever—is suddenly gone? For Carly Wopat, the answer wasn’t to break. It was to rebuild. After the devastating loss of her twin sister, Carly didn’t just survive—she started a relentless journey of transformation. From volleyball stardom to the...
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#217 – Erika Ettin: Fix Your Dating Profile, Stop Overthinking & Master Online Dating
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#217 – Erika Ettin: Fix Your Dating Profile, Stop Overthinking & Master Online Dating "If you’re struggling with dating, the problem isn’t the apps, the city, or your age—it’s how you’re using them. Be intentional, be confident, and most of all—be yourself." – Erika Ettin Dating in the modern world is a battlefield of swipes, texts, and ghosting—and if you’re not playing the game right, you’re getting left behind. That’s where Erika Ettin comes in. She’s not just a dating coach; she’s a strategist, a game-changer, and the secret weapon behind thousands of...
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#216 – Ermina Isanovic: Rewire Your Mind, Break Negative Patterns & Create Lasting Change
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#216 – Ermina Isanovic: Rewire Your Mind, Break Negative Patterns & Create Lasting Change "Your thoughts create your reality. If you’re stuck in a cycle of negativity, it’s not because you’re broken—it’s because your mind has been trained that way. The good news? You can rewire it. With the right tools, you can break patterns, shift your mindset, and start living the life you actually want." – Ermina Isanovic Today’s guest is Ermina Isanovic, a powerhouse in the world of psychotherapy, CBT, hypnotherapy, and coaching. Ermina isn’t just a skilled and compassionate...
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The show notes are available at: https://www.nextlevelguy.com/ajharbinger34/
What we cover
- Who he is
- The Art of Charm and why you need to check it - obtain improved social skills, better confidence and get better with the opposite sex
- What being 'social' actually is and why you should analyse and improve your social abilities as soon as possible. Why do we need to be social?
- Can you learn to be social or are you born with a level of social ability?
- How the Art of Charm was built, where the need came from and what they teach.
- Does he seem particular pain points with modern men - where do we struggle with our social abilities mainly?
- Why he started to work on social skills and teach others - how helping others has allowed him to heal an old self-esteem issue
- Social anxiety vs just not feeling it - how do you know when to seek help
- How the mind builds new abilities - how should you work on changing your social skills and becoming 'more social'
- Building data points and why it is important
- Identification of poor social communication
- A breakdown on how to improve social skills - things to focus on in each interaction
- Context: Emotional vs logical - how it affects social interactions
- How you can become a better storyteller - learn to tell stories that will make people remember you
- A great challenge that you can undertake today to build better connections with those around you
- Why you need to learn how to become vulnerable around others - an example using my own experience!
- How you can build a social circle, regardless of the environment or location you start in - AJ provides a brilliant framework on how to build a social life, block by block
- How you can overcome the panic and nerves you will initially learn when you are working on building up your social skills (can be applied to any skill you wish to learn)
- Routines and practices that AJ recommends all men build into their lives
- Has the implementation of modern-day technology ruined modern men's social skills
- How you can overcome rejection - why you should actually seek it to overcome it
- Confrontation - how to become better at it
- What has AJ learn from running his own podcast and the similarities of successful people?
- How AJ's science background has helped him be more social and an example when his attempt at being social went wrong!
- PAssing on social skills - how to ensure that you raise the men of the future to be social
- How we can keep in touch with AJ and the 'Art of Charm'
- A little-known fact about him that he rarely tells
- And so much more …
Connect with the Guest
- Who's AJ?
- View the Art of Charm here
- Subscribe to the Art of Charm podcast here
- View the Art of Charm Challenge here
- Follow the Art of Charm on Twitter here
- Like the Art of Charm on Facebook here
- Follow AJ on Instagram here
- Follow the Art of Charm on Instagram here
- Apply to take part in an Art of Charm workshop here
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