Musician's Step-by-Step Process for Performing at a Wedding
Release Date: 04/08/2025
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info_outlineHey there, musicians! Have you ever thought about performing at weddings but weren’t sure where to start? In today’s episode of The At Last Podcast, I walk you through a step-by-step process to ensure a smooth and successful wedding performance. From the initial consultation with the couple to reflecting on your performance post-wedding, this guide will help you create unforgettable musical moments while building a sustainable career in the wedding industry.
Whether you’re new to weddings or looking to refine your approach, this episode is packed with actionable insights. Plus, I share a personal story about how I got started performing at weddings and the lessons I’ve learned along the way.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ How to confidently conduct an initial consultation with a couple
✔️ The importance of crafting a customized setlist that enhances the wedding experience
✔️ Why rehearsing, coordinating with planners, and prepping your gear are crucial
✔️ Tips for performing with confidence and engaging with guests
✔️ Post-wedding follow-ups and how to use them to grow your business
✔️ Reflecting on your performance to continuously improve
Action Step:
Take a moment to write down three things you’d like to start doing or researching to prepare for performing at weddings. Need help? Reach out—I’d love to support you!
Resources for Wedding Vendors:
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Download my Wedding Musician Equipment Checklist - https://www.alohaerica.com/wedding-musician-equipment-checklist
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🎵 Honeybook: Streamline your contracts, invoices, and payments with Honeybook! Get 30% off your first year by signing up here: https://share.honeybook.com/erica8964375
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💌 Flodesk: Simplify your email marketing and save 50% on your first year with Flodesk: https://flodesk.com/c/ALOHAERICA
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🌐 Wedding SEO Bootcamp by Sara Does SEO: Learn how to optimize your website for Google with this wedding pro-focused program. Check it out here: https://alohaerica--saradoesseo.thrivecart.com/wedding-seo-bootcamp/
Have you used The Knot, WeddingWire, or Zola? What’s been your experience? DM me on Instagram @alohaericamusic–I’d love to hear from you.
💌 Let’s connect! Share your thoughts on this episode and find more tips and resources at www.alohaerica.com/atlast.
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