Part 3: Self Control: The Three Key Components to Successful Relationships
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
Release Date: 06/15/2023
A Closer Look at Jesus' Love Language
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
We all have a preferred love language, certain acts of love that we desire more than others. This is true in all of our relationshps not just our romantic relationships. Love languages are how we communicate love to each other, they are: · Words of affirmation · Quality time · Physical touch · Acts of service · Receiving gifts Jesus has a preferred love language, not listed above but...
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The Value of Storytelling
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
Today on Bethe3rd we’re going to be talking about storytelling and how important this simple act of communication is to our world and our wellbeing. Storytelling goes back to the very beginning of time. It is one of our best and most beneficial learning tools. It emphasizes the storyteller’s creativity and engages the listener in critical thinking. It helps the storyteller convey critical life skills and lessons without long drawn out technical or complicated words or phrases. Human beings love stories and God knew this because. He created us in His image, and this is how Jesus...
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The Beauty of the Face
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
If we are to love others as ourselves and have been made for relationship and to be in community with others than I can only believe that its true that…. “Our survival depends on understanding the actions, intentions and emotions of others.” (Dr. Giacomo Rizzolatti) We have heard that the eyes are the window to the soul. Although very poetic this just isn’t so. According to most experts in order to know the human soul we must see the face. Today on Be the 3rd we will be discussing how important the face is. Weather the world judges your face as beautiful or homely it...
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Do Not Let The Sun Go Down on Your Anger
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
So many times we read a verse and know exactly what it means, but other times we read the same verse and get a totally different perspective on it. What does it mean to not let the sun go down on your anger? Eph 4:26-27 Does it mean literally, don't go to bed with unresolved conflict or is there a different meaning all together? What if this verse along with it's related verse Psalm 4:4 is a lesson in self-awareness? What if it is a warning against staying in a estranged relationship for years. What if instead of a literal day, this verse actually references...
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Part 3 Confrontation vs Conversation: What is the Difference?
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
Today's podcast will continue our deep dive into the root meaning of the words confrontation and conversation. If you haven't had the opportunity to listen to parts one and two make sure to go back so you don't miss a thing. (; ). We've been talking about the differences and similarities between confrontation and conversation. When we break these two words down to their roots we realize that they come from the same place and have pretty much the same meaning. Today we will finally address my bold statement that althought we admit to loving converstion while simultaneously hating...
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Part 2 Confrontations vs. Conversations: What's the Difference?
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
Today's podcast will continue our deep dive into the root meaning of the words confrontation and conversation. If you haven't heard last weeks episode make sure to go back so you don't miss a thing. We've been talking about the differences and similarities between confrontation and conversation. When we break these two words down to their roots we realize that they come from the same place and have pretty much the same meaning. Today we will use a sports analogy to understand how we view confrontation. We will also learn some of the characteristics or rules to conversation. ...
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Part 1 Confrontation vs conversation: What's the Difference?
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
Most of us admit to enjoying conversation while simultaneously hating confrontation. When we break these two words down to their roots we realize that they come from the same place and have pretty much the same meaning. Regardless of what we say, we tend to particpate more in confrontation than in conversation that is not small talk or agreeableness. Simply put, conversations require much of us including an abundance of self-control Confrontations on the other hand require very little with virtually no self-control. This series will compare and contrast confrontation...
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Part 4: Self Esteem: The Three Key Components to Successful Relationships
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
If we want to have to have deeper more meaninful relationships we need to start thinking more about our Self's and less about our relationship partner. This goes against everything we know about relationships and is in direct contradiction to our theme here at Be the 3rd. Yet, there are three key components of our communication process that never get the attention that they need, and they all require that we focus quite a bit of time thinking about these three aspects of ourselves. Self-Awareness Self-Control Self-Esteem Once we start to focus and understand these...
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Part 3: Self Control: The Three Key Components to Successful Relationships
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
If we want to have to have deeper more meaninful relationships we need to start thinking more about our Self's and less about our relationship partner. This goes against everything we know about relationships and is in direct contradiction to our theme here at Be the 3rd. Yet, there are three key components of our communication process that never get the attention that they need, and they all require that we focus quite a bit of time thinking about these three aspects of ourselves. Self-Awareness Self-Control Self-Esteem Once we start to focus and understand these...
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Part 2: Self Awareness: The Three Key Components to Successful Relationships
Be the 3rd: Communicating the Way God Intended
If we want to have to have deeper more meaninful relationships we need to start thinking more about our Self's and less about our relationship partner. This goes against everything we know about relationships and is in direct contradiction to our theme here at Be the 3rd. Yet, there are three key components of our communication process that never get the attention that they need, and they all require that we focus quite a bit of time thinking about these three aspects of ourselves. Self-Awareness Self-Control Self-Esteem Once we start to focus and understand these...
info_outlineIf we want to have to have deeper more meaninful relationships we need to start thinking more about our Self's and less about our relationship partner.
This goes against everything we know about relationships and is in direct contradiction to our theme here at Be the 3rd.
Yet, there are three key components of our communication process that never get the attention that they need, and they all require that we focus quite a bit of time thinking about these three aspects of ourselves.
Self-Awareness
Self-Control
Self-Esteem
Once we start to focus and understand these three components of self, not only will our relationships with each other deepen and strengthen but so will our relationship with God.
This is part three in the series of Key Components to Successful Relationships. If you missed the first two you can find them here: S1Ep9, S1Ep10.
References
Beran, M. (2018). Self-control in animals and people. Academic Press, an imprint of Elsevier.
Goleman, D. (2005). Emotional intelligence: Why it can matter more than IQ. Bloomsbury.
Holy bible. (2017). Zondervan.
Mischel, W. (2014). The marshmallow test. Hachette USA.
Walton, D. (2012). Emotional intelligence: A practical guide. MJF Books.
Bible verses
Romans 8:5-6 "Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. 6 The mind governed by the flesh is death, but the mind governed by the Spirit is life and peace."
2 Corinthians 12:9 "My grace is all you need, for my power is the greatest when you are weak.”
Galations 5:22-24 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control.Against such things there is no law. 24 Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires."
James 1:19-20 "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.
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