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PART II: The Art of Not Falling Apart: Coping Strategies for Nurses Who Carry Too Much

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Release Date: 12/16/2025

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RESUSCITATE WITH JAN DATU

In this conversation, Jan and Dr. Rishma Walji explore the themes of reinvention, emotional regulation, and decision-making. Rishma shares her journey from being a naturopathic doctor to focusing on writing and podcasting, emphasizing the importance of being relatable and approachable. They discuss the concept of 'chosen loss' in the context of making significant life changes and the need to recognize both real and perceived constraints. The conversation also highlights the importance of visioning who you want to be and how to untangle emotions to make clearer decisions. Rishma introduces the...

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PART I: The Art of Not Falling Apart: Coping Strategies for Nurses Who Carry Too Much show art PART I: The Art of Not Falling Apart: Coping Strategies for Nurses Who Carry Too Much

RESUSCITATE WITH JAN DATU

In this conversation, Jan and Dr. Rishma Walji explore the themes of reinvention, emotional regulation, and decision-making. Rishma shares her journey from being a naturopathic doctor to focusing on writing and podcasting, emphasizing the importance of being relatable and approachable. They discuss the concept of 'chosen loss' in the context of making significant life changes and the need to recognize both real and perceived constraints. The conversation also highlights the importance of visioning who you want to be and how to untangle emotions to make clearer decisions. Rishma introduces the...

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In this conversation, Jan and Dr. Rishma Walji explore the themes of reinvention, emotional regulation, and decision-making. Rishma shares her journey from being a naturopathic doctor to focusing on writing and podcasting, emphasizing the importance of being relatable and approachable. They discuss the concept of 'chosen loss' in the context of making significant life changes and the need to recognize both real and perceived constraints. The conversation also highlights the importance of visioning who you want to be and how to untangle emotions to make clearer decisions. Rishma introduces the idea of tethering to maintain focus on long-term goals and shares insights on coping mechanisms for emotional regulation. In this conversation, Rishma Walji ND, PhD, discusses the importance of coping strategies, self-compassion, and emotional health. She emphasizes the need for proactive coping mechanisms, the significance of recognizing emotional capacity, and the challenges of dealing with grief and loss. The discussion also touches on the importance of establishing boundaries in caregiving, the role of rituals for emotional protection, and the dangers of compartmentalization in high-stress environments. Rishma shares personal experiences and insights on navigating hard conversations, managing expectations in healthcare, and finding enthusiasm for life amidst challenges.

EPISODE RESOURCES:

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https://www.linkedin.com/in/rishma-walji

TAKEAWAYS

  • Rishma emphasizes the importance of being relatable and approachable in her practice.
  • She discusses the emotional heaviness of working in fertility and how it impacted her decision to leave her practice.
  • Rishma highlights the concept of 'chosen loss' when making significant life changes.
  • She explains the need to recognize both real and perceived constraints in life.
  • Rishma advocates for intentional decision-making and understanding one's emotions.
  • The importance of visioning who you want to be and how you want to show up in life is emphasized.
  • Rishma discusses the process of untangling emotions to make clearer decisions.
  • She introduces the concept of tethering to maintain focus on long-term goals.
  • Rishma shares insights on coping mechanisms for emotional regulation.
  • The conversation touches on the need for personalized approaches in coaching and decision-making. Coping strategies can be categorized as proactive or reactive.
  • Self-compassion is crucial for emotional well-being.
  • Recognizing emotional capacity helps in managing stress.
  • Grief should be addressed rather than avoided.
  • Establishing boundaries is essential in caregiving roles.
  • Rituals can help protect emotional space.
  • Compartmentalization can be useful but should not be long-term.
  • Managing expectations can reduce stress in healthcare settings.
  • Auditing coping strategies can lead to better self-awareness.
  • Finding enthusiasm for life is a continuous journey.

Chapters

00:00Introduction and Background of Dr. Rishma Walji
05:46Understanding Chosen Loss
11:55The Process of Decision-Making
17:52Redefining Success and Identity
23:58Flexibility in Goals and Self-Care
31:12Understanding Decision Constraints
37:47Navigating Evolving Constraints
45:17The Process of Updating Oneself
51:25Long-Term Visioning and Its Importance
57:25Coping Mechanisms and Emotional Regulation
01:02:12The Role of Self-Compassion in Coping
01:03:33Building Capacity for Coping
01:05:00Recognizing and Addressing Emotional Capacity
01:06:09The Importance of Self-Talk
01:08:04Navigating Grief and Loss
01:10:22Learning from Past Experiences
01:12:29The Power of Self-Love and Acceptance
01:13:17Tolerating Hard Situations
01:15:32Separating Thoughts and Emotions
01:17:28Establishing Boundaries in Healthcare
01:19:48Creating Emotional Boundaries
01:21:40Rituals for Emotional Protection
01:23:45Transitioning Between Emotional States
01:27:37Preparing for Family Interactions
01:29:27Buffering Emotional Energy Before Home
01:30:44Understanding Family Dynamics and Emotional Responses
01:31:07Proactive vs Reactive Coping Strategies
01:33:44Setting Expectations in Healthcare Relationships
01:36:14Compartmentalization as a Coping Mechanism
01:39:48Addressing Root Causes of Burnout
01:44:00The Importance of Self-Kindness
01:46:35Creating a Life of Enthusiasm and Purpose