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Episode 217: Keeping the Magic Alive (Even When Adulting Hits Hard)

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Release Date: 12/24/2025

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In this episode of the Ask Yourself Why Not podcast, hosts Shaye and Jayla explore how to embrace the holiday spirit as adults. They discuss ways to create personal magic during the holidays, emphasizing the importance of small rituals, fun activities, and self-care. The conversation highlights the need to simplify holiday celebrations and prioritize joy, allowing listeners to enjoy the season without feeling overwhelmed.



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Choose fun activities that bring joy.

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Titles


Rediscovering Holiday Magic as Adults

Creating Your Own Christmas Spirit



Sound bites


"You are the magic."

"Choose fun, have more fun."

"Make it merrier, Jayla."



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00:00 Embracing Holiday Spirit

00:58 Finding Magic as Adults

02:47 Creating Cozy Rituals

05:02 Choosing Fun and Joy

06:53 Making Life Festive

07:47 Simplifying Holiday Preparations

08:42 Prioritizing Self-Care