Episode 28 | Appropriation or Appropriate
Hey White Women
This conversation explores the intersections of capitalism, cultural identity, and the dynamics of power in relationships. The speakers discuss the gig economy as a potential alternative to traditional capitalism, the complexities of cultural appropriation, and the challenges of navigating identity as white individuals in diverse cultural spaces. They delve into the illusions of saving and the societal constructs surrounding consent and autonomy, while also addressing the role of women in patriarchal systems. The discussion highlights the importance of language, the romanticization of history,...
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Episode 27 | The "Making" Money Myth
Hey White Women
In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the intersection of music, cult experiences, and cultural identity. They discuss how growing up in a cult influenced their music preferences, particularly the emotional suppression associated with it. The conversation delves into the complexities of cultural appropriation in the music industry, the impact of fame, and the challenges of navigating cultural identities. They reflect on their personal journeys of understanding music and the importance of community and cultural exchange in shaping their experiences. In this conversation, Rebecca...
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Episode 26 | You Don't Have to "Get" Kendrick Lamar
Hey White Women
This conversation explores the cultural significance of Kendrick Lamar's Super Bowl performance, delving into themes of resistance, identity, and the complexities of race and gender in America. The speakers discuss the symbolism in music and dance as forms of cultural expression and resistance, the role of white women in social change, and the importance of resilience in the face of societal challenges. They also reflect on the dynamics of privilege and the need for a deeper understanding of identity and humanity in the context of systemic oppression. In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella...
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Episode 25 | Quit Playing Monopoly
Hey White Women
In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore themes of empowerment, self-expression, and the societal narratives that shape our identities. They discuss the impact of fashion on self-perception, the dangers of conspiracy theories, and the importance of community and networking. The conversation also delves into the dynamics of motherhood, parenting, and the influence of cult-like structures on family life. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for individuals, particularly white women, to take action against oppression and challenge the narratives that confine them. In this engaging...
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Episode 24 | Grindset is Gross
Hey White Women
In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of living in a society influenced by Donald Trump, the rise of online cultures, and the misogyny that permeates social interactions. They discuss the role of white women in society, the importance of community and self-care, and the impact of societal expectations on individual identity. The conversation delves into the dangers of conformity, the need for transparency in work, and the importance of listening to marginalized voices. They emphasize the power of collective action and the necessity of understanding history to...
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Episode 23 | Hillmantok University
Hey White Women
This conversation delves into the complexities of therapy, race, and community dynamics, particularly focusing on the experiences of individuals navigating these spaces. The speakers discuss the challenges of finding appropriate therapeutic support, the importance of community in healing, and the role of white women in social movements. They also explore military dynamics, the impact of social media on awareness, and the necessity of acknowledging trauma while navigating conversations about race and identity. In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of race, gender,...
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Episode 22 | Treat Yourself
Hey White Women
This conversation explores the themes of adulthood, personal choices, loyalty, community, and the complexities of societal structures. The speakers discuss the importance of treating oneself, the challenges of loyalty in organizations, the individuality within the military, and the role of nonprofits in addressing societal issues. They also delve into the impact of capitalism on community, the pursuit of growth in business, and the power dynamics involving women. The conversation emphasizes the need for community engagement and the dangers of oversimplifying complex issues. In this...
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Episode 21 | Cult Baby Musical Concept
Hey White Women
In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore the intersection of creativity, personal identity, and societal structures. They discuss the emotional connections formed through creative projects, the development of Daniella's musical 'Uncultured', and the themes of gender and power dynamics within it. The conversation also delves into the importance of representation in casting, the influence of cultural music, and the complexities of societal hierarchies. They reflect on personal journeys of identity and community, the value placed on certain roles in society, and the challenges of...
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Episode 20 | Deconstructing Phrases and Idioms
Hey White Women
In this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the complexities of race, privilege, and the language we use to discuss these topics. They delve into the implications of comfort and consent in conversations about race, the military's perspective on colorblindness, and the concept of privilege through the lens of games like Monopoly. The discussion also touches on neurodiversity, particularly hyperlexia, and the importance of community in social change. They emphasize the need for liberation through language, the role of women in activism, and the dynamics of secrecy and control in cult-like...
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Episode 19 | Wicked takes on Wicked
Hey White Women
In this conversation, the speakers explore the themes of race, identity, and representation through the lens of the musical Wicked. They discuss the implications of casting choices, the critique of whiteness, and the importance of diverse narratives in art and media. The conversation emphasizes the need for allyship and understanding different perspectives, particularly in the context of black womanhood and the complexities of marginalization. Ultimately, they advocate for the power of art to challenge norms and foster connection across different identities. Connect with Rebecca at: ...
info_outlineIn this conversation, Daniella and Rebecca explore the intersection of music, cult experiences, and cultural identity. They discuss how growing up in a cult influenced their music preferences, particularly the emotional suppression associated with it. The conversation delves into the complexities of cultural appropriation in the music industry, the impact of fame, and the challenges of navigating cultural identities. They reflect on their personal journeys of understanding music and the importance of community and cultural exchange in shaping their experiences. In this conversation, Rebecca and Daniella explore the dynamics of listening, attention, and the challenges faced in graduate school settings. They discuss the cultural implications of entitlement and the concept of cancel culture, emphasizing the importance of understanding consequences. The dialogue shifts to the value of community and diverse experiences, critiquing the traditional notions of authority and work. They advocate for a gig economy that fosters connection and collaboration, while also addressing the isolation prevalent in modern society. The conversation culminates in a critique of the myth of making money and the need for a relational revolution to combat loneliness and foster community.
Connect with Rebecca at:
The White Woman Whisperer Website
The White Woman Whisperer Patreon
The White Woman Whisperer TikTok
Connect with Daniella at:
You can read all about that story in my book, Uncultured-- buy signed copies here. https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured
For more info on me:
Patreon: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding
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Get an autographed copy of my book, Uncultured: https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured
Get my book, Uncultured, from Bookshop.org: https://bit.ly/4g1Ufw8
Daniella’s Tiktok: https://bit.ly/3V6GK6k / KnittingCultLady
Instagram: https://bit.ly/4ePAOFK / daniellamyoung_
Unamerican video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/YTVideoBook
Secret Practice video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/3ZswGY8
Takeaways
- Daniella shares her journey of discovering music after leaving a cult.
- The emotional suppression in cults affects music preferences and emotional expression.
- Country music was a safe choice for Daniella as she navigated her new environment.
- Cultural appropriation in music is a complex issue that involves race and identity.
- Fame in the music industry can lead to a false sense of success and healing.
- The conversation highlights the importance of community in cultural exchange.
- Daniella reflects on the anti-identity experienced in cults and its impact on her life.
- The role of race in music preferences and cultural narratives is explored.
- Daniella's realization of the need to understand music beyond her initial experiences.
- The discussion emphasizes the importance of being open to learning about different
- cultures. Listening requires more than just attention; it demands engagement.
- In graduate school, many feel compelled to speak up rather than listen.
- Entitlement in American culture often leads to a lack of accountability.
- Cancel culture is a response to the introduction of consequences.
- The burden of proof often falls unfairly on marginalized voices.
- Community and shared experiences enhance understanding and connection.
- Experience should be valued over mere years in a position.
- The gig economy offers opportunities for community-based living.
- Isolation is a significant issue in modern society, exacerbated by capitalism.
- The myth of making money perpetuates a cycle of exploitation.
Chapters
00:00 The Journey from Cult to Mainstream Music
03:50 Emotional Suppression and Music's Role
06:49 Cultural Identity and Music Choices
09:48 The Impact of Fame and Success
12:45 Cultural Appropriation in the Music Industry
15:41 Navigating Identity and Acceptance
18:40 The Pressure of Success and Perfectionism
21:44 Community, Inclusion, and Cultural Understanding
27:02 Growing Up in a Cult: Isolation and Discovery
29:25 Navigating Cultural Identity and Music
30:35 Understanding Cultural Appropriation and Joy
32:37 Satanic Panic and Cultural Misunderstandings
34:25 Deconstructing Cult Teachings and Racial Bias
35:47 The Impact of Anti-Identity on Self-Perception
40:03 Consequences of Actions and Cancel Culture
41:54 The Illusion of American Exceptionalism
44:17 Listening and Engaging in Community Conversations
46:49 The Burden of Proof in Conversations
52:09 Navigating Criticism and Defending Identity
59:37 Weaponizing Experience and Identity
01:01:47 Debating Authority and Experience
01:03:51 The Value of Diverse Experiences
01:06:18 Cults, Community, and Isolation
01:10:29 Rethinking Work and Community
01:13:29 Corporate Culture and Community
01:17:16 The Myth of Job Security
01:20:52 The Importance of Community
01:25:25 Empowerment Through Creation
Produced by Haley Phillips