SERIES: Part 2: You’re Wearing the Hat… But Who Put It On You?” - Owning Your Role Without Losing Your Mind, with Guest Kendall Peterson
Release Date: 06/26/2025
097: Dead Right: The Cracker Barrel Blunder and the Lie Leaders Tell Themselves
Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture
In this episode of The Leadership Sandbox, Tammy dives into the recent Cracker Barrel rebranding debacle. This corporate misstep, a $700 million gamble aimed at attracting a younger demographic, led to a 14% stock drop and a massive customer backlash. Tammy dissects the four major lies leaders told themselves that led to this catastrophic failure. You'll discover why a brand's most valuable asset lives in the memory and emotion of its customers—and what happens when you strip that away. This isn't just a story about a failed rebrand; it's a critical leadership lesson on the dangers of...
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096: You’re Not Mean—You’re Just Managing (2 of 6 Part Series)
Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture
In the second installment of the "Communication Lies Leaders Believe" series, Tammy J. Bond tackles a myth that keeps countless leaders "stuck": the lie that giving direct feedback makes you mean. Tammy powerfully argues that direct feedback doesn't make you mean—it makes you a manager. This episode is a call to courage for every leader who has let their discomfort drive silence. Tammy shares how this avoidance leads to resentment and underperformance and provides a practical framework, the SBIE model (Situation, Behavior, Impact, Expectation), for delivering feedback that is both direct and...
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095: Hey Leader! They're Not Overwhelmed - They're Underperforming (1 of 6)
Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture
Welcome to the start of our SIX PART SERIES, "Communication Lies Leaders Believe." In this episode, Tammy J. Bond tackles a common and costly workplace myth: the idea that an employee who says they're "overwhelmed" simply needs more support. Tammy reveals: when a direct report can't articulate their workload, they're not overwhelmed—they're underperforming and avoiding accountability. Tammy provides a practical, no-nonsense strategy to get to the root of the problem. She introduces the "Squeeze Technique," a method to transform excuses into ownership. It's about providing the clarity,...
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094: Stop Feeding The Beast
Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture
Are you struggling to build the vibrant culture you want because you're still clinging to old habits? In this episode of the Leadership Sandbox, Tammy J. Bond directly challenges leaders to stop "babysitting dysfunction" and confront the "pink elephant" in the room. Tammy argues that you can't build a bold new future by dragging around yesterday's playbook. Culture doesn't change by decree; it changes by disruption. This episode is a call to action for leaders to stop over-analyzing their culture like a crime scene and start renovating it for the future. Tammy provides a clear-eyed look at how...
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093: Mind the Gap - Own the Gain: Mid-Year Reboot
Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture
Are you constantly chasing perfection, or are you truly celebrating progress? In this insightful episode of the Leadership Sandbox podcast, Tammy J. Bond challenges leaders to shift their focus from the dreaded "gap" of what hasn't been accomplished to the powerful "gain" of what has. Tammy passionately advocates for a gain-driven mindset, urging leaders to move beyond self-sabotage by acknowledging every step forward, learning from failures, and fostering a truly positive team environment. Discover how conducting a "gain audit" can transform your perspective, enhance motivation, and...
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092: The Power of Pause
Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture
Ever feel your thoughts getting hijacked by tension in a tough conversation? In this transformative episode of the Leadership Sandbox, Tammy J. Bond explores the profound impact of simply taking a moment to pause in communication. Discover how this seemingly simple action can unlock clarity, deepen understanding, and lead to significantly more effective conversations, even in high-stakes situations. Tammy delves into how emotional awareness allows you to apply the power of pause to avoid being reactive and move toward solutions. Learn how a well-timed pause gives you the space to regulate your...
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091: The Flip Side - When You Call Out Negative Behaviors
Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture
Are toxic behaviors holding your organization back? In this impactful episode of the Leadership Sandbox, Tammy J. Bond reveals the crucial link between addressing workplace toxicity and cultivating a thriving, healthy culture. She highlights the astounding financial and productivity benefits of actively eliminating negativity – showing that eliminating toxic behaviors can save two to four times more than hiring a superstar! Tammy champions the power of a "call-out culture" (in the best sense!) where leaders proactively address issues, establish clear ground rules, and reclaim valuable time...
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090: The Cost of Unchecked Negative Behaviors
Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture
Are toxic behaviors silently draining your organization's energy and budget? In this episode of the Leadership Sandbox, Tammy J. Bond passionately confronts the severe impact of toxic leadership on workplace culture and productivity. She highlights why leaders, particularly at the C-suite level, must address negative behaviors that can cost organizations billions annually in lost employee retention and plummeting team morale. Tammy dives into the startling financial implications of ignoring toxicity – from high turnover rates (54% of employees are likely to quit due to toxic leaders!) to...
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SERIES CONCLUSION - PART 3: The Hats of Leadership
Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture
Welcome to the powerful conclusion of our three-part series, "Switch Hats, Not Values - Leading with Clarity and Sanity!" In this reshared episode of the Leadership Sandbox, Tammy J. Bond brings it all home by diving into the crucial concept of the various 'hats' leaders wear and why understanding them is paramount for effective communication and healthy team dynamics. Tammy reiterates and expands on the five distinct leadership hats: the foundational Values Hat, the visionary Leader Hat, the decisive Boss Hat, the often-tricky Friend Hat, and the action-oriented Just Do It Hat. She explains...
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SERIES: Part 2: You’re Wearing the Hat… But Who Put It On You?” - Owning Your Role Without Losing Your Mind, with Guest Kendall Peterson
Leadership Sandbox: Strategies to Uplevel Workplace Communication, Team Collaboration, and Your Corporate Culture
Welcome to Part 2 of our series, "Switch Hats, Not Values - Leading with Clarity and Sanity!" In this candid episode of the Leadership Sandbox, Tammy J. Bond and Kendall Peterson dive deep into the diverse 'hats' leaders juggle daily. They unpack the inherent challenges of balancing these different leadership roles and underscore the paramount importance of clarity in communication. Tammy and Kendall explore the often tricky 'Freeder' role—where the lines between friendship and leadership can blur—and why leaders absolutely must own their roles to maintain respect and foster effective team...
info_outlineWelcome to Part 2 of our series, "Switch Hats, Not Values - Leading with Clarity and Sanity!" In this candid episode of the Leadership Sandbox, Tammy J. Bond and Kendall Peterson dive deep into the diverse 'hats' leaders juggle daily. They unpack the inherent challenges of balancing these different leadership roles and underscore the paramount importance of clarity in communication.
Tammy and Kendall explore the often tricky 'Freeder' role—where the lines between friendship and leadership can blur—and why leaders absolutely must own their roles to maintain respect and foster effective team dynamics. This conversation is a masterclass in personal growth, emphasizing that authentic leadership requires continuous self-awareness and the courage to set boundaries. Discover the profound impact of mentoring on leadership development and learn how adapting your leadership style with clarity and confidence can transform your team and your impact.
Key Takeaways for Leaders:
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Role Recognition: It's crucial to recognize and consciously "name" the different leadership roles you play to bring clarity to yourself and your team.
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The "Freeder" Trap: Understand how blending friendship and leadership (the 'Freeder' role) can create confusion, erode trust, and hinder effective communication.
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Clarity is King: Clarity in expectations and directives is fundamental for healthy team dynamics, reducing stress and fostering efficiency.
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Own Your Authority: Leaders must own their roles with confidence and intention to earn genuine respect and guide their teams effectively.
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Mentorship Matters: Mentoring is a non-negotiable component of leadership development, offering invaluable guidance for personal growth.
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Values as a Guide: Your core values should always guide your leadership style, especially when navigating difficult conversations.
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Embrace Feedback & Growth: Strong leaders are open to feedback and continuously adapt their leadership style to better serve their team and the situation.
In This Episode, You'll Learn:
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How to identify and define the various leadership hats you wear.
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Strategies for avoiding the pitfalls of the 'Freeder' role in your team dynamics.
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Techniques for enhancing communication clarity within your team.
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The significance of establishing clear boundaries to maintain professionalism and reduce friction.
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Why mentoring is an essential accelerator for personal growth in leadership.
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How to approach difficult conversations with confidence and a focus on resolution.
Chapters:
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00:00 Understanding the Hats We Wear: Exploring the different leadership roles leaders take on daily.
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04:57 The Challenge of Blending Roles: Diving into the complexities of balancing various hats and the 'Freeder' role.
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11:01 Communicating with Clarity: Practical insights on achieving clear and effective communication in leadership.
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15:54 Navigating Leadership Changes: Strategies for adapting your leadership style and maintaining stability during transitions.
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20:17 Leading with Clarity and Mentorship: The vital connection between intentional leadership and the power of mentoring for professional development.
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