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Be You Podcast

Release Date: 06/09/2025

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Join Jill this week as she discusses the difference between someone feeling truly heard versus someone hijacking a group setting. She uses the example of a Zoom call in which two participants dominated the conversation, going on lengthy tangents instead of following the facilitator's instructions. Jill offers the possibility that such behavior is not meant to be malicious and discusses some possible reasons for it, including nervous system dysregulation, ego protection, and general lack of self-awareness. As the leader of a group, Jill stresses the importance of politely yet firmly redirecting...

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This week on Be YOU, join Jill as she revisits an exercise from in which listeners were asked to do a "brain dump" of their fears and worries and then rewrite/reframe them in positive ways. She encourages listeners to continue doing this exercise, even affirming that many people around the world are participating! The key part of the exercise now? As Jill explains, be aware of when you are speaking your fears and worries out loud, and immediately "flip the script" by saying the positive version out loud instead. Jill gives some examples, like if you find yourself complaining about someone...

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Although she is in disbelief that she is finally saying this, welcome to the 300th episode of the Be YOU podcast! This week, Jill shares some highlights from the recent four-hour BeYOULive event where more than 150 women from around the world came together to celebrate 300 episodes and being themselves! At its heart, the event was really all about helping women let go of the “masks” they wear in everyday life - roles, behaviors, and ways that they see themselves that are preventing them from showing up as their true selves. Through a series of exercises, attendants, without shame or...

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We are only a few days from BE YOU Live!! Tickets are almost sold out!  Join Jill for the five-year anniversary of Be YOU - a special in person ALL WOMEN BIG event celebrating 300 episodes of the podcast - on Saturday, October 25th from 1–5 p.m. in Fort Wayne, Indiana. You’ll get to connect and network with 200 amazing women! The community you didn’t know you had and didn’t realize you needed. Wait till you meet these women. You’ll get to sit back and let Jill pour into you and you’ll leave with more clarity, confidence and a remembrance of how gifted and glorious you...

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We are just 12 days out from BE YOU Live!! Tickets are almost sold out!  We are closing doors for ticket sales on Sunday, October 19th at midnight so don’t wait! Join Jill for the five-year anniversary of Be YOU - a special in person ALL WOMEN BIG event celebrating 300 episodes of the podcast - on Saturday, October 25th from 1–5 p.m. in Fort Wayne, Indiana. You’ll get to connect and network with 200 amazing women! The community you didn’t know you had and didn’t realize you needed. Wait till you meet these women. You’ll get to sit back and let Jill pour into you and you’ll...

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Are you ready to experience BE YOU live and in person? Join Jill for the five-year anniversary of Be YOU - a special in person ALL WOMEN BIG event celebrating 300 episodes of the podcast - on Saturday, October 25th from 1–5 p.m. in Fort Wayne, Indiana. You’ll get to connect and network with 200 amazing women! The community you didn’t know you had and didn’t realize you needed. Wait till you meet these women. You’ll get to sit back and let Jill pour into you and you’ll leave with more clarity, confidence and a remembrance of how gifted and glorious you are.  Thank you to our...

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Are you ready to experience BE YOU live and in person? Join Jill for the five-year anniversary of Be YOU - a special in person ALL WOMEN BIG event celebrating 300 episodes of the podcast - on Saturday, October 25th from 1–5 p.m. in Fort Wayne, Indiana. You’ll get to connect and network with 200 amazing women! The community you didn’t know you had and didn’t realize you needed. Wait till you meet these women. You’ll get to sit back and let Jill pour into you and you’ll leave with more clarity, confidence and a remembrance of how gifted and glorious you are. Thank you to our BE YOU...

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Are you ready to experience BE YOU live and in person? Join Jill for the five-year anniversary of Be YOU - a special in person event celebrating 300 episodes of the podcast - on Saturday, October 25th from 1–5 p.m. in Fort Wayne, Indiana. You’ll get to connect and network with 200 amazing women! The community you didn’t know you had and didn’t realize you needed. Wait till you meet these women. You’ll get to sit back and let Jill pour into you and you’ll leave with more clarity, confidence and a remembrance of how gifted and glorious you are. Tickets are selling fast at Search...

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Are you ready to experience BE YOU live and in person? Join Jill for the five-year anniversary of Be YOU - a special in person event celebrating 300 episodes of the podcast - on Saturday, October 25th from 1–5 p.m. in Fort Wayne, Indiana. You’ll get to connect and network with 200 amazing women! The community you didn’t know you had and didn’t realize you needed. Wait till you meet these women. You’ll get to sit back and let Jill pour into you and you’ll leave with more clarity, confidence and a remembrance of how gifted and glorious you are. Tickets are selling fast at Search...

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Are you ready to experience BE YOU live and in person? Join Jill for the five-year anniversary of Be YOU - a special in person event celebrating 300 episodes of the podcast - on Saturday, October 25th from 1–5 p.m. in Fort Wayne, Indiana. You’ll get to connect and network with 200 amazing women! The community you didn’t know you had and didn’t realize you needed. Wait till you meet these women. You’ll get to sit back and let Jill pour into you and you’ll leave with more clarity, confidence and a remembrance of how gifted and glorious you are. Tickets are selling fast at Search...

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Join Jill for the five-year anniversary of Be YOU - a special live podcast event celebrating 300 episodes of the podcast - on Saturday, October 25th from 1–5 p.m. in Fort Wayne, Indiana. Tickets are selling fast at jillherman.com/beyou, and discounted rooms are available at a boutique hotel right next door!

Jill spends some time this episode reflecting on her recent move from a large country home to a downtown apartment, candidly sharing how she broke free from her lifelong pattern of procrastination and stress around big projects. By embracing help, delegating tasks, and staying in her "zone of genius" for project management, Jill is happy to announce that the move went remarkably smoothly.

However, she also acknowledges a lingering blind spot - neglecting her own personal space which has triggered a discussion around her tendency to prioritize others' needs over her own. Drawing on the wisdom of a psychologist friend, Jill unpacks the deeper significance of the physical symptoms that she experienced around this transition, including a UTI, yeast infection, and a burn on her arm. Through this lens of mind-body-spirit connection, she shares some powerful revelations about releasing control, honoring feminine intuition, and allowing herself to fully feel and process the complex emotions stirred up by major life changes.

Jill also stresses the importance of self-compassion over self-judgment and invites listeners to be open to the potential messages that their own bodies and experiences may be trying to convey to you. This episode of Be YOU offers listeners a raw, relatable, and insightful glimpse into Jill's world, encouraging you to approach your own life with curiosity and courage!


Show Notes:

[01:32] - Jill recently moved into her new apartment, overcoming her lifelong stress pattern.
[03:21] - By planning early and delegating, Jill managed the move efficiently and used her strengths.
[05:35] - Rather than micromanage, Jill organized tasks, accepted help, and made smart, timely decisions.
[07:18] - Despite his initial resistance, Jill's husband ended up joyfully helping with multiple moving loads.
[10:10] - Jill argues that compassionately feeling your emotions allows for healing, clarity, and growth.
[13:57] - Jill explores the symbolic meaning behind sudden illnesses reflecting grief and transition.
[16:12] - Jill discusses the dangers of pleasing others at the expense of your own pleasure.
[19:25] - Hear how Jill released resentment and embraced healing.
[21:24] - Jill believes that her deep sensitivity is a gift that fuels her art, rooted in her Scorpio sun, moon, and Mercury.
[24:08] - Jill reveals that she has restarted her book and even has a title in mind!
[25:00] - Jill reminds listeners of her upcoming Be YOU anniversary event in October.
[28:25] - It's never too late to change your mind and embrace transformation with self-compassion and surrender!


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